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Originally posted by teasel:
It's going to square my dad's sun, and the Taurus' Sun/Moon, when it moves into Aquarius. :/ Plus my Uranus/ascendant. I won't be finished with the Pluto squares for a while.
Aw! Yes at my dad's job he has always been recognized through his companies. Free ordered lunches, awards, etc. A supervisor once said, I know I don't have to listen in on his calls.
Once a bigger company took over the business, he wanted to get out of there. And none of us really knew why. He hated it so much for whatever reason he started looking for new jobs. He was willing to go from making 17 an hour to 12 an hour! We thought he was crazy.
He told a white lie and told the company he was going to retire. The company begged him to stay and that he could have whatever hours he wanted. He went down to part time, and would either do home projects or watch grandkids on days off.
Well my family kind of gets it now. He has worked from home way before this pandemic started. All of the staff working from home now needs to attach a video camera to their computer so that they can be visually watched by a supervisor now. So we now totally support him making a change.
My has no Aries, Libra, and Cancer in her chart. Capricorn moon though. She has been feeling so micromanaged at her job. She told one of her supervisors "I feel like you are choking me everyday." I think the supervisor is just trying to do her job, and none of this new stuff is her idea but she would say to my mom "we are doing what is best for the patients" and my mom would say back "are we really?" many people at that physical therapist company would say they feel like its not about the patients anymore.
So now my mom OTs part time and is a notary through her nephew. She really likes it.
As for me with the school I work at being shut down for two weeks. I am finishing progress reports while visiting my fiance. I would never plan a trip intentionally around progress reports. I glad I saw him, but traveling is that much more stressful for me, the packing, mentally preparing, managing my time. I tried to warn him as much as possible not to add anymore stress on me. He didn't learn from the last time that once I finally get to the hotel I need to just stay there with a booze drink in my hand. Otherwise I will have a mental break down. I try to warn him that I am on the verge of a mental breakdown. He doesn't believe me until I actually have a mental breakdown. He was super sorry that it happened again, to the point where I can't snap out of it until I smoke a cigg. I would say things like my stress is an 11 out of a 10, I would be so effing happy if I could bring it down to a 7 at any point. At one time he said "you get so defensive" and I yelled back "I DON'T CARE!!" But each day got a little bit easier to enjoy myself on the trip while still making time to get some of my work done.
He talked about me visiting him again. I kind of flipped out, because I am still dealing with being stressed TF out taking my PTO when my work is short staffed and parent teacher conferences being next week. I cannot fathom asking my boss for anymore time off since my assistant is bailing until January and no one realizing how bad covid was going to get this month.
UGH I have spring break in March, but his project might be done by then and he might be on R&R. FINE!!!!
Not sure if I'll use my last two personal days, but I think I'll come out when I'm on midwinter break in February. (That is a month before conferences)
Saturn is not squaring my Sun anymore. I'm still mental, and I rejoice every time Pluto moves a fraction.