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adamdeharris | hello guys I have this thing that affects my life on a subconsciousl level do venus-in-virgo (natally) men have the tendency to find fault in every possible woman they set eyes on? are they doomed to stay single (in a way) or hopefully tie the know at a later age? how to deal with these tendencies? I am asking this question because I subconsciously do it even if I decide on someone that they are the one to pursue is there ayone here (veus in virgo) who got married and fought through this natal tendency? thanks in advance |
Dumuzi | every person ever who's born with venus in virgo is single for life, since the dawn of time |
Amoranthaniela | quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: every person ever who's born with venus in virgo is single for life, since the dawn of time
LOL!!! |
GemJams | 😂 @Dumuzi My brother in law is a Virgo Venus so no.He is very picky about everything.From the way his food is served to the way someone eats.He bugs me a lot but my sister has gotten used to it and she ignores him for the most part. An ex of mine also had this placement…he didn’t nit pick as much.He had cap moon in the 7th.I think he needed the stability and companionship so he didn’t let things bother him.He was picky about people’s feet though lol |
teasel | I am acquainted an astrologer, with Venus in Virgo. He moved from one girlfriend to another, for years, and then met the love of his life. They’ve been married for a few years now. |
GemJams | Are you guys seeing my replies? It doesn’t get added to the number of responses until hours later. |
Dumuzi | quote: Originally posted by GemJams: Are you guys seeing my replies? It doesn’t get added to the number of responses until hours later.
yeah, sometimes **** needs to be refreshed before anything shows though |
teasel | quote: Originally posted by GemJams: Are you guys seeing my replies? It doesn’t get added to the number of responses until hours later.
I saw yours before I posted mine. |
GemJams | Ok,thank you guys |
Kannon McAfee | quote: Originally posted by adamdeharris: hello guysI have this thing that affects my life on a subconsciousl level do venus-in-virgo (natally) men have the tendency to find fault in every possible woman they set eyes on?
Many of them do. quote:
are they doomed to stay single (in a way) or hopefully tie the know at a later age?
No. No one is 'doomed' to anything. quote:
how to deal with these tendencies?
For most Venus-in-Virgo types — and almost always the men — the thing to understand is that you need to learn relating and relationships. Look for someone of the same sex to watch and learn from. Look for someone of the opposite sex who you admire for how they treat and relate to others and learn from them. Venus in Virgo has its benefits, but they are narrow. Your strengths in relationships will come from other factors astrologically. quote:
I am asking this question because I subconsciously do it even if I decide on someone that they are the one to pursue
Stop pursuing and start learning. Don't fight through the worst tendencies. Outgrow them. I'd recommend finding a gem/crystal to wear 24/7 that will reduce or negate such tendencies. There are a number to choose from that can help one become less judgmental and more open to others as they are. Magnesite is one that comes to mind, but there are others. Investigate it in The Crystal Bible. Maybe something on my Crystals & Gems page will help: https://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/crystals-gems/ ------------------ Started studying astrology in 1996 via the Edgar Cayce material, then Magi astrology and declinations, then found John Willner's work. I'm a world class birth chart rectifier. That took well over a decade to learn after intermediate astrology. |
Kannon McAfee | This thread spurred me to come up with an exercise I think would be beneficial to a lot of people. http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/2021/07/17/help-for-negative-astrology-factors/
------------------ Started studying astrology in 1996 via the Edgar Cayce material, then Magi astrology and declinations, then found John Willner's work. I'm a world class birth chart rectifier. That took well over a decade to learn after intermediate astrology. |
Dumuzi | people really put too much weight on things like exalted and debilitated planets it's just about the function of the planet not being compatible with the qualities of the sign, on paper mainly, in an actual human it's perfectly fine and there are people who will like and be attracted to those qualities venus as a planet can be about indulgence and beauty and love etc it's exalted in pisces due to the idea of spiritual love without boundaries being "absolute love" but in real life that's a quality that isn't necessarily good for the individual or promising of a fulfilling relationship venus isn't self sacrificing, virgo is, in a relationship this can be a good quality, a dependable one afterall like kannon's link say there's pros and cons to each placement not every person with a virgo venus is going to display it the same way, not every person who has a heart attack experiences the same symptoms there's just possibilities and the individual experience is different exaltations aren't a guarantee of anything either 🤷♀️ i have a cap mars and that **** 's basically a joke in my chart for the most part at least in the sense of what people generally seem to think of when it comes to how it functions people are completely different on individual levels than a checklist of qualities about different signs and planets and these things aren't a statement about anyone as a person it's classical understanding of the planets paired with classical understanding of the signs and nothing more
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athenaia | The two Venus in Virgo people I know (both a man and a woman) are INCREDIBLY picky and tear apart every potential love interest they meet. I think they've both been single for the past 5-7 years now (they're in the late 20's/early 30s age range) Venus is in it's fall in this sign. But hey, sometimes pickiness is a good thing. Meghan Markle has this Venus and she nabbed herself a Prince |
Belage | quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: This thread spurred me to come up with an exercise I think would be beneficial to a lot of people. http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/2021/07/17/help-for-negative-astrology-factors/ I like that exercise you recommended with the page folding and I will definitely be checking the book you recommended. I absolutely believe that self-esteem is one of the keys to a healthy relationship.
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