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Originally posted by tuxedo meow:
They are together but have now shut me out.
Tuxedo... {{*sad* *Heart*}}
awww....*Heart* Gently, don't take that personally, Tux? ... even though I KNOW that must feel painful to you?
"Allow" them time to bond with each other more for now. They are growing 'as a couple' who are learning to have to rely on each other for 'everything' in their life.... and especially-so after you are gone from your body.
This may actually be a really healthy sign for "them"... Don't look at it so much as an exclusion, but more that they are drawing their energies TO each other. They have to learn who 'each-other' is separate from their loving protective mama?
{{awww, said soooo gently-delicately and with sooo MUCH Understanding and Love towards you in this situation, Tux}}
Think of this as a "positive" developmental step FORWARD that they are making....
You are sooo caring towards them....
Care enough "now", to allow *them* to make those Energetic Holy Bonds WITH each other.
But omg, it sure can 'feel' sorrowful to feel rejection.... IF you allow yourself to interpret this AS a 'sign of rejection'? ... *hug*
(Lovingly, please don't do that to yourself-- it's just 'temporary'... *breathe?*)
You did a WONDERFUL thing by making a thread here, and asking for prayers/Love/Light/Health for them.
How many people have the presence of mind and the kindness in their Heart to DO that for OTHERS?... {{{ }}} (answer: 'You' did. *grin*)
ALLOW the Space of Time-Away to work for them... They are bonding together-- The TWO Shall Become ONE.
And yes they will make plenty of mistakes? LET them learn to cope as one-unit, as a 'couple'...
Later on... after they are WELL established, you 'might' find that they will realize, and start to extend an EXTRA-Grateful Hand of Kindness towards you in the Future...
They may come to realize and APPRECIATE that you "did" give them that space so they could know each other, and grow.
Remember those first days of when you had to 'let go' and wave goodbye as the school bus took him off to his New Adventure?
Well... Now? He's planning on marrying this girl? ... And you'll see the streamers coming off the back of their car as they speed away into THEIR new Journey... (Eventually-Maybe making you a grandma???? *grin* ... oh, that is SUCH a fulfilling and Joyful a thought, yes???)
Let them go .... It's SUCH a Blessing to DO that "FOR" them.... (You'll see.)
Meanwhile, I'm sending you the BIGGEST, WARMEST, SQUEEZIEST, HUGEST {{{{{HUG}}}}}!!!
AFFIRM to yourself that you are a super-fine Good Mommy.. {coz you ARE!}
You're Doing It Right!! *grin* *thumbsup*