I have read some topics about 8th House in synastry, but still confused.
What if he has planets in my 8th house and I have in his? Does this make our relationship very complicated even if we have lots of good stuff in our synastry?
His Sun and Mercury are in my 8th House. My Mars is in his 8th House. Btw, I totally feel this telepathy and psychic communication thing going on between us. Can anyone share information from their own experience or know more about the effect those planets in the 8th house have?
Found this post:
Partner´s Sun in my 8th House - this relationship is often found in business partnerships or other corporate financial affairs. Their contacts usually revolve around subjects such as taxes insurance, or inheritance. There is possible sexual attraction. Your Partner’s energy and vitality can inspire you to greater efforts towards self-improvement and regeneration. Occult and psychic matters are often of mutual interest.
Partner´s Mercury in my 8th House - this arrangement stimulates a mutual interest in the occult and in science. Your Partner takes an active interest in your insurance, taxes, legacies, and inheritances. They may also take an intellectual interest in you psychic and occult experiences. You may employ their ideas and methodologies in business affairs. The two of you may also share a common interest in after death experiences, telepathy, and psychic communications. You may even share a psychic link between the two of you.
My Mars in his 8th House - this arrangement often indicates a business, corporate, scientific, or mystical. The two of you are involved in processes that require secrecy. In some relationships there is even danger associated with the type of work the two of you are engaged in, that could result in injuries to one or both of you. On the positive side you both will lend encouragement to the other in your efforts of self-regeneration and improvement. You will strengthen each others resolve to carry projects through to the end.
Some more info:
8th house always has an attraction/repulsion dynamic.
Fascination and interest alternate with disgust and contempt.
It's a back and forth dynamic: at times I'm very attracted to them, at other times they make me sick.
The house person is the one who feels the effects more in most cases, and they're likely to feel powerless when it comes to the planet person. Like the planet person has the upper hand and it creates an unbalance: the house person feels the lack of power acutely and can act on it. More generally it all happens on an emotional/subconscious level, the planet person "activates" 8th house issues for the house person who is faced with fears of submission, loss of power, abuse and loss of control.