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Jkitty | Conjunctions can be hard or soft aspects. Much depends on how that conjunction is aspected by other planets, in your chart and in her chart. Since you're the one feeling the resentment, what other planets are making aspects to your sun? |
lalalinda | I've always found that I instantly like the person who I share this with. Romantically, it's a hot inner-aspect to have ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 |
beckylee | I have this with my boyfriend, my Virgo Mars conjunct his Virgo Sun. One minute we hate each other, next minute we want to spend our lives together .. a love/hate relationship He sometimes makes me want to die or hit him. |
Faith | quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: Conjunctions can be hard or soft aspects. Much depends on how that conjunction is aspected by other planets, in your chart and in her chart. Since you're the one feeling the resentment, what other planets are making aspects to your sun?
Good point! I don't remember my mom's chart too well right now...but I realized that if someone's Mars is conjunct my sun, their Mars is also square my Jupiter and Pluto. That affects my experience with this particular aspect, definitely.
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Faith | quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: I've always found that I instantly like the person who I share this with.Romantically, it's a hot inner-aspect to have
Maybe because you are an Aries you enjoy it more? |
Faith | quote: Originally posted by beckylee: I have this with my boyfriend, my Virgo Mars conjunct his Virgo Sun.One minute we hate each other, next minute we want to spend our lives together .. a love/hate relationship He sometimes makes me want to die or hit him.
Makes sense, that it might work like a temporary flare-up feeling. Well good luck with him, maybe it will even out over time. |
lalalinda | quote: Maybe because you are an Aries you enjoy it more?...Faith
It doesn't have to be an Aries/Mars on my Sun It can be my Mars on someones Gemini/Sun nor does it just apply to romantic relationships but friendships as well. ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 |
Doux Rêve | It's an "okay" aspect, for me. I don't really feel it that much. In a romantic situation, it doesn't play out as intensely as expected because both my Sun and Mars square Saturn, which means that whenever someone's Sun or Mars conjunct my Sun or Mars, they'll probably square my Saturn, too. And that cools things off quite a bit. It's not a 'romantic' aspect, though. It can point to sexual attraction but in a raw way. If it's between people of the same sex, it can lead to arguments and competition.. definitely. If well-aspected, it can be quite powerful and give plenty of energy. Faith,
If your mother's Mars also squares your Pluto and Jupiter, that definitely adds to the tension. But generally speaking, Sun conjunct Mars doesn't have to be a negative aspect.
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Virgo28 | I just met a Leo woman with Her Mars square my Sun and my Mars conjunct Her Sun. I felt some weird vibe..... I don't show that much emotion at first meeting. Couple of days later, I can feel like she is always trying to prove something???? My Sun conjunct her Venus, so I don't know?. I can see how nasty this aspect can turn out so I keep everything polite. ------------------ "If a man does not work passionately - even furiously - at being the best in the world at what he does, he fails his talent, his destiny, and his God." |
Newrise | I don't find many people as annoying as the person whose sun conjuncts my mars. I am female and he is male. |
Randall | Moving to Interpersonal Astrology. |
LexusVirgo | Have this with someone at wide degree al thought I heard aspects to sun can be wide. but we also make a mars venus conjunct, mars mars conjunct and a moon mars opposition. I want to tare his close off and his face off all at the same time. He makes me mad and horny. It's insane. |
Nine | Mars is a combative entity, so whenever it aspects a planet that won't let him have his way (like Sun) it will create a lot of tension. 1. This is a highly sexual aspect, because Mars rules the drive for sex. 2. Most women find attractive a guy's Mars conjunct their Sun. 3. Sun-Mars hard aspects in male-male synastry often result in violent conflict. |
Aubyanne | With my boyfriend, it's 3°, separating. His MARS. It's expressed itself as attraction from the start. With my 'bro', it's also 3°, but applying. Also his MARS. It's playful, competitive, and lively. He's admitted to finding me attractive. He's also physically pleasing to the eye; warm spirited and friendly. But I don't share the attraction. It's kinda fascinating, as he shares several placements my boyfriend does, the energy in each is similar, but how it plays out with me, entirely different. |
HelixID | I'd say it's a good aspect - for the guy. A woman is very likely going to be attracted to a guy whose Sun conjuncts her Mars or is even just in the same sign. Vice versa too - a female's Sun conjunct a male's Mars. The same holds true for a guy being attracted to a woman if one's Moon is in the same sign as the other's Venus. |
Aubyanne | quote: Originally posted by HelixID: I'd say it's a good aspect - for the guy. A woman is very likely going to be attracted to a guy whose Sun conjuncts her Mars or is even just in the same sign. Vice versa too - a female's Sun conjunct a male's Mars.The same holds true for a guy being attracted to a woman if one's Moon is in the same sign as the other's Venus.
Really? I don't think I've dated a single lunar Virgo. Now, Virgo SUN? Ohh, yes. My dating history is littered with male Virgoans! What'm I missing here? |
HelixID | quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Really? I don't think I've dated a single lunar Virgo. Now, Virgo SUN? Ohh, yes. My dating history is littered with male Virgoans!What'm I missing here?
Maybe you are not attracted to lunar Virgos but they could very well be attracted to you. Those things I listed in my previous post are indicators for one-way attraction. As I said, a Mars/Sun conjunction is good for the guy, for example. EDIT: Which hard aspects does your Venus make?
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