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stillatlarge | We have Mercury Conjunct and Trine Moon so double whammy. We have it conjunct North Node, Saturn, loosely trine Asc, Sextile Uranus, a bunch of bi quintiles such as Mars and Venus, some inconjuncts, semi squares and Square Neptune double whammy. Most of our other aspects are awesome so I suspect this is causing our problem such as him misinterpreting my texts entirely and getting mad. Are the good aspects enough to overcome this? I'm Leo Sun Aqua Moon. He is Aqua Sun Taurus moon and Asc. We have Mercury in the 6th,Moon Trine Mercury, Sun Conjunct Mercury, Moon Trine Neptune in the Composite. Does that help? |
Randall | Bump! |
margym0o | Can you post actual synastry/composite charts as well? Sooooooo much easier to see the overall picture. |
yungang_grotto | Mercury square Neptune is workable if you're able to get to the stage where you're just reading each other's minds.. |
stillatlarge | Hang on, I'll do the composite and natals |
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stillatlarge | I didn't go to all that trouble for nothing. Please? |
YellowGerbera | My SO and I have tons of Mercury squares in the synastry but we seem to communicate well and work things out Of course there are occasional misunderstandings and misinterpretations but we are patient with each other and try to learn how each of us communicate (because everyone communicate differently). Texts can be easily misread even if you are good at communication. |
yungang_grotto | You have Mercury yods going on. It's the quincunxes as you're probably aware which are causing the huge misunderstandings and anger. There's a lesson in this relationship in regards to getting clear on communication and what you're thinking/saying to one another. It's not impossible to overcome but it is one of the primary challenges in this relationship it seems. You're well equipped for it though with the Mercury-Moon double whammy, extremely helpful. Stay in touch with your FEELINGS for one another and communicate them as much as possible. I don't have too much more time on here so I can't go really in depth... but focusing on that composite yod would be a good start.. |
yungang_grotto | Who's who in these charts? Whoever has Jupiter at 25 Taurus is going to be able to help, and is also likely to blow the issue out of proportion lol... But yeah it's Mercury quincunx Mars and Jupiter so it makes sense that tempers are flaring... somebody's Mercury is quincunx somebody's Pluto in the synastry too, that's gotta be challenging... |
stillatlarge | Thank you. I hadn't noticed all that. I always thought we have some of the best Mercury aspects ever. Guess not. He's on the outside. |
LaceyLeigh | quote: Originally posted by YellowGerbera: My SO and I have tons of Mercury squares in the synastry but we seem to communicate well and work things out Of course there are occasional misunderstandings and misinterpretations but we are patient with each other and try to learn how each of us communicate (because everyone communicate differently).Texts can be easily misread even if you are good at communication.
Do you have Mercury square Mars in synastry?
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yungang_grotto | You do have lots of awesome Mercury synastry, just be aware of the quincunxes I guess and try to suss out the areas where misunderstandings are occurring.. |
YellowGerbera | quote: Originally posted by LaceyLeigh: Do you have Mercury square Mars in synastry?
Looks like we have Mercury-Mars trine DW but they are at 9 degrees I think it's too wide to feel them much..? |
stillatlarge | Thanks yun, I'm the Jupiter you mention. I'm TRYING but so much of it is my fault too. Plus, add in the Moon Opp Pluto and I'm the moon. It's so intense that I reflexively avoid it and it drags out so long. Can you tell me more about the yod? |