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T O P I C R E V I E WSunAscendantI really like this guy but he doesn't want to further the relationship. I don't want to push and beg him (tried twice and to no avail), but I do think we're a great match and he's just too judgy. He loves my looks and the immediate mental and emotional connection we had, but his Libra moon I think finds my abundance of Arian energy a little too tempestuous at times. The one thing though that I feel shows a good match is the fact that my Sun/Moon midpoint is exactly conjunct his Juno and his Sun/Moon midpoint is exactly conjunct my Jupiter and opposing my Sun/Moon midpoint. His Venus/Juno midpoint is also conjunct my Sun and his Venus/Mars mp is conjunct my Ascendant! I feel like if he just reflected on our bond he'd realize he's letting a good woman get away. Am I being foolish or am I onto something here?I'm praying that Venus retrograde in my 5th house will make him realize we are a perfect match and bring him back to me.His chart is OUTSIDE and mine is INSIDE. **************************************************************** RandallBump!toddhi AscendantSunI have to agree that looking at the composite chart, his reticence is not readily apparent.with a venus/mars/mercury stellium, the affection and attraction is spontaneous. openness and honesty in addition to the physical compatibility .and with juno square this stellium ,one could certainly see a marriage impulse, stronger for you.the Saturn/juno midpoint is conjunct the node and square to mercury/Venus/and mars.with ceres conjunct to Saturn, one would expect ceres/venus/mercury/mars to be supportive and loving toward a family perspective.but it may be that the Saturn/ceres midpoint is dampening his affection.I addition the juno/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto. often there are subconscious or unconscious mental dynamics at play.so emotional issue might be affecting the conscious attitudethis could show that he is concerned about his plans for the future. it could be that this ambitions come before a relationship.then moon/Saturn midpoint is square to juno which usually strengthens devotion, but apparently has increased his distance.with the moon semi-square to Saturn, it seems there are subtle irritations emotionally that might contribute resistance emotionally.actually this seems he separation process has been going on a long time.the node was conjunct you juno/Uranus midpoint at 15aqu8 on jan 13th 2018.the node squared composite pluto on march 4th 2018 and the node square the juno/Jupiter midpoints on april 13th 2018.these transits are extremely selfish so it might have been that there wss simply no compromising on anything in this period.this might be the cycle of moving apart, I my reasoning is validSunAscendant quote:Originally posted by todd:hi AscendantSunI have to agree that looking at the composite chart, his reticence is not readily apparent.with a venus/mars/mercury stellium, the affection and attraction is spontaneous. openness and honesty in addition to the physical compatibility .and with juno square this stellium ,one could certainly see a marriage impulse, stronger for you.the Saturn/juno midpoint is conjunct the node and square to mercury/Venus/and mars.with ceres conjunct to Saturn, one would expect ceres/venus/mercury/mars to be supportive and loving toward a family perspective.but it may be that the Saturn/ceres midpoint is dampening his affection.I addition the juno/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto. often there are subconscious or unconscious mental dynamics at play.so emotional issue might be affecting the conscious attitudethis could show that he is concerned about his plans for the future. it could be that this ambitions come before a relationship.then moon/Saturn midpoint is square to juno which usually strengthens devotion, but apparently has increased his distance.with the moon semi-square to Saturn, it seems there are subtle irritations emotionally that might contribute resistance emotionally.actually this seems he separation process has been going on a long time.the node was conjunct you juno/Uranus midpoint at 15aqu8 on jan 13th 2018.the node squared composite pluto on march 4th 2018 and the node square the juno/Jupiter midpoints on april 13th 2018.these transits are extremely selfish so it might have been that there wss simply no compromising on anything in this period.this might be the cycle of moving apart, I my reasoning is validListen to this and this is really baffling. I was looking at the event chart on the day we met (I looked at my watch the minute we met) and the final aspect of the moon in the event chart is a trine to the sun. Usually the final moon aspect in an event chart shows where the event will ultimately go. The event chart for the day we met also had other positive aspects. It just hurts because astrologically and in real life we seem to be a match. Perhaps the only thing I can think of is another woman even though he's not social to begin with.SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by todd:hi AscendantSunI have to agree that looking at the composite chart, his reticence is not readily apparent.with a venus/mars/mercury stellium, the affection and attraction is spontaneous. openness and honesty in addition to the physical compatibility .and with juno square this stellium ,one could certainly see a marriage impulse, stronger for you.the Saturn/juno midpoint is conjunct the node and square to mercury/Venus/and mars.with ceres conjunct to Saturn, one would expect ceres/venus/mercury/mars to be supportive and loving toward a family perspective.but it may be that the Saturn/ceres midpoint is dampening his affection.I addition the juno/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto. often there are subconscious or unconscious mental dynamics at play.so emotional issue might be affecting the conscious attitudethis could show that he is concerned about his plans for the future. it could be that this ambitions come before a relationship.then moon/Saturn midpoint is square to juno which usually strengthens devotion, but apparently has increased his distance.with the moon semi-square to Saturn, it seems there are subtle irritations emotionally that might contribute resistance emotionally.actually this seems he separation process has been going on a long time.the node was conjunct you juno/Uranus midpoint at 15aqu8 on jan 13th 2018.the node squared composite pluto on march 4th 2018 and the node square the juno/Jupiter midpoints on april 13th 2018.these transits are extremely selfish so it might have been that there wss simply no compromising on anything in this period.this might be the cycle of moving apart, I my reasoning is validI didn't know him in Jan, I just met him a few weeks ago and thigns were going well for the few weeks we knew each other. Is there indication that HE might come to his senses and come back or am I just delusionalsassaquaBut also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too. SunAscendantOn the night of November 22nd there will be a full moon in Gemini at 0 Gemini 52 and it'll almost directly oppose our composite 1 Sag 14 moon. I am wondering if something might happen then... whether that something be good or bad I don't know...SunAscendantThe Sun/Moon midpoint of that Nov 22nd Full Moon in Gemini will be at 0 Virgo 52 which is opposite my 5 Pisces 57 Sun/Moon midpoint and almost exactly conjunct his approximately 3 Virgo 9 Sun/Moon midpoint. That's also interesting...SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too. I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain.SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too. I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain. I don't have a natal Moon-Mars aspectSunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?His Pluto is in Scorpio at 7 degrees and my Moon is in Capricorn at 9 degrees so my moon sextiles his Pluto, not squares it.SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too. If we take semisextiles into account then his Moon is exactly semisextile my Pluto. His Mars is also trine my MC and trine my Vertexsassaqua"I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain. I don't have a natal Moon-Mars aspect"Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.Morrigan quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.Yes.Also, your Aries Venus (enjoying a challenge) and Pises Mars (attracted to damaged/emotionally fragile men) play into it, I suppose. Your moon opposing his Sun is actually a wonderful aspect - but his Moon and Venus aren't receiving any aspects from your chart.. Mars square Saturn is the classic "buzzkill" aspect. Mars is all "go go go" and Saturn is like, "no no no". That's not the only way it can play out, of course. But it is possible. Take care! You have a lot to offer..sassaquaNice work Morrigan.. and thanks for that from me too because it's important to make sure people are on the right track (sometimes I am not).Saturn square Mars can definitely get to abuse I think. Depending on the rest of the factors.SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:"I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain. I don't have a natal Moon-Mars aspect"Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.I think since my natal Uranus-Neptune conjunction is in my 7th house an square my natal Venus in Aries (the most exact aspect in my chart) I was basically born to be delusional and permanently wear rose-colored glasses in relationships. It's been this way since I started dating a decade ago when I was 16. I hate that no matter how hard I try to tell myself not to fall into what could be a romantic façade I still do >.<. I don't think it'll ever change (but I can be aware of it as I always have been since I first learned about everything in my natal chart). Still though, even if you know you're astrologically prone to certain negative behaviors, it's difficult to overcome them since its a part of your personality. I'm such a kind little Cancer rising that I can't help but help others, but perhaps that is why I constantly feel taken advantage of. I do stand up for myself but I suppose my Arian energy makes me stand up in kind of rude way, this means that I have been labeled as aggressive or kind of rude by exes in te past when I attempt to show them how abhorrent their behavior towards me is. People hate when you show them how sh*ty they're treating you!SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Nice work Morrigan.. and thanks for that from me too because it's important to make sure people are on the right track (sometimes I am not).Saturn square Mars can definitely get to abuse I think. Depending on the rest of the factors.His Saturn square my Mars is def not the best, but he's more of the passive type, so I think any abuse on his end towards me would be unintentional or not physical, but who knows... I mean we did not at all fight, not once. The way it ended was quite odd tbh. I just had a feeling that he wasn't interested and I voiced my feeling as I always do and he confirmed it. The odd part is that everyday leading up to that he was always the one to text me nightly and he was always the one to say cute things and be affectionate and act like he was over the moon for me, so when my intuition told me that he wasn't as interested as he outwardly appeared I wanted to dismiss it as me being paranoid, but I didn't. I still do think that we're not a terrible match... but idk... maybe I'm just delusional SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by Morrigan: [QUOTE]Originally posted by sassaqua:[b]Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.Yes.Also, your Aries Venus (enjoying a challenge) and Pises Mars (attracted to damaged/emotionally fragile men) play into it, I suppose. Your moon opposing his Sun is actually a wonderful aspect - but his Moon and Venus aren't receiving any aspects from your chart.. Mars square Saturn is the classic "buzzkill" aspect. Mars is all "go go go" and Saturn is like, "no no no". That's not the only way it can play out, of course. But it is possible. Take care! You have a lot to offer..[/B][/QUOTE]Thank you. Yes I hope one day I can offer all y love to someone who will accept it and not leave :/SunAscendant quote:Originally posted by Morrigan: [QUOTE]Originally posted by sassaqua:[b]Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.Yes.Also, your Aries Venus (enjoying a challenge) and Pises Mars (attracted to damaged/emotionally fragile men) play into it, I suppose. Your moon opposing his Sun is actually a wonderful aspect - but his Moon and Venus aren't receiving any aspects from your chart.. Mars square Saturn is the classic "buzzkill" aspect. Mars is all "go go go" and Saturn is like, "no no no". That's not the only way it can play out, of course. But it is possible. Take care! You have a lot to offer..[/B][/QUOTE]Thank you. But let me say one thing, his Venus is actually square my Sun. So his Venus is receiving an aspect from my chart and from the benefic Sun, but that aspect is a saddening square sassaquaI know what you mean - Mars and Venus in 12H here. People confuse kindness with weakness.When you stand up, they assume you're fiery or strong and can handle. But I cannot handle too much.Think to always take relationships really very slow.Morrigan quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: The odd part is that everyday leading up to that he was always the one to text me nightly and he was always the one to say cute things and be affectionate and act like he was over the moon for me, so when my intuition told me that he wasn't as interested as he outwardly appeared I wanted to dismiss it as me being paranoid, but I didn't. I still do think that we're not a terrible match... but idk... maybe I'm just delusional It's frustrating when people send mixed signals like that. Hate it! And, btw - Sun square Venus is not a bad aspect per se. Squares aren't automatically bad.. They do indicate that the two planets are at odds, but they're also very dynamic/strong aspects. Here's a nice video on Sun square Venus in synastry:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHX7shtlB_wMorrigan quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: I hate that no matter how hard I try to tell myself not to fall into what could be a romantic façade I still do >.<. I don't think it'll ever change (but I can be aware of it as I always have been since I first learned about everything in my natal chart). Still though, even if you know you're astrologically prone to certain negative behaviors, it's difficult to overcome them since its a part of your personality. Don't beat yourself up about it. We are who we are, and changing long-standing patterns is not a day's work. Self-awareness is huge, and you seem to have that. So I'd say you're already on the way. quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: People hate when you show them how sh*ty they're treating you!Yes! Morrigan quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Nice work Morrigan.. and thanks for that from me too because it's important to make sure people are on the right track (sometimes I am not).Oh, neither am I. Thanks for understanding, though.. Glad it didn't come off too negative..
I'm praying that Venus retrograde in my 5th house will make him realize we are a perfect match and bring him back to me.
His chart is OUTSIDE and mine is INSIDE.
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I have to agree that looking at the composite chart, his reticence is not readily apparent.with a venus/mars/mercury stellium, the affection and attraction is spontaneous. openness and honesty in addition to the physical compatibility .and with juno square this stellium ,one could certainly see a marriage impulse, stronger for you.the Saturn/juno midpoint is conjunct the node and square to mercury/Venus/and mars.
with ceres conjunct to Saturn, one would expect ceres/venus/mercury/mars to be supportive and loving toward a family perspective.but it may be that the Saturn/ceres midpoint is dampening his affection.I addition the juno/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto. often there are subconscious or unconscious mental dynamics at play.so emotional issue might be affecting the conscious attitude
this could show that he is concerned about his plans for the future. it could be that this ambitions come before a relationship.
then moon/Saturn midpoint is square to juno which usually strengthens devotion, but apparently has increased his distance.with the moon semi-square to Saturn, it seems there are subtle irritations emotionally that might contribute resistance emotionally.
actually this seems he separation process has been going on a long time.
the node was conjunct you juno/Uranus midpoint at 15aqu8 on jan 13th 2018.the node squared composite pluto on march 4th 2018 and the node square the juno/Jupiter midpoints on april 13th 2018.these transits are extremely selfish so it might have been that there wss simply no compromising on anything in this period.
this might be the cycle of moving apart, I my reasoning is valid
quote:Originally posted by todd:hi AscendantSunI have to agree that looking at the composite chart, his reticence is not readily apparent.with a venus/mars/mercury stellium, the affection and attraction is spontaneous. openness and honesty in addition to the physical compatibility .and with juno square this stellium ,one could certainly see a marriage impulse, stronger for you.the Saturn/juno midpoint is conjunct the node and square to mercury/Venus/and mars.with ceres conjunct to Saturn, one would expect ceres/venus/mercury/mars to be supportive and loving toward a family perspective.but it may be that the Saturn/ceres midpoint is dampening his affection.I addition the juno/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to pluto. often there are subconscious or unconscious mental dynamics at play.so emotional issue might be affecting the conscious attitudethis could show that he is concerned about his plans for the future. it could be that this ambitions come before a relationship.then moon/Saturn midpoint is square to juno which usually strengthens devotion, but apparently has increased his distance.with the moon semi-square to Saturn, it seems there are subtle irritations emotionally that might contribute resistance emotionally.actually this seems he separation process has been going on a long time.the node was conjunct you juno/Uranus midpoint at 15aqu8 on jan 13th 2018.the node squared composite pluto on march 4th 2018 and the node square the juno/Jupiter midpoints on april 13th 2018.these transits are extremely selfish so it might have been that there wss simply no compromising on anything in this period.this might be the cycle of moving apart, I my reasoning is valid
Listen to this and this is really baffling. I was looking at the event chart on the day we met (I looked at my watch the minute we met) and the final aspect of the moon in the event chart is a trine to the sun. Usually the final moon aspect in an event chart shows where the event will ultimately go. The event chart for the day we met also had other positive aspects. It just hurts because astrologically and in real life we seem to be a match. Perhaps the only thing I can think of is another woman even though he's not social to begin with.
I didn't know him in Jan, I just met him a few weeks ago and thigns were going well for the few weeks we knew each other. Is there indication that HE might come to his senses and come back or am I just delusional
His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?
And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.
Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?
The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.
Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.
As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too.
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?And all those squares: your Mars square his Saturn; his Mars square your Sun.. and everything else.Makes me wonder why you're attracted to all that tension.. In your natal chart, is Mars square your Moon there? And is Venus square your Uranus/Neptune?The only main easy aspect in the synastry it seems that may attract you is his Saturn providing stability to your Saturn (the ruler of your DC) in a trine.Oh and yes.. attraction too because his Sun and Mercury are on your ascendant. And Mars in your first house.As you are probably aware, you have to be careful with Neptune on your DC.. And probs Uranus too.
I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain.
I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain. I don't have a natal Moon-Mars aspect
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:But also, your synastry - His Moon is not aspected. Neither is his Venus. The only (main) aspects your Moon makes is opposite his Sun and square his Pluto (square nn too)?
His Pluto is in Scorpio at 7 degrees and my Moon is in Capricorn at 9 degrees so my moon sextiles his Pluto, not squares it.
If we take semisextiles into account then his Moon is exactly semisextile my Pluto. His Mars is also trine my MC and trine my Vertex
Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.
Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.
Also, your Aries Venus (enjoying a challenge) and Pises Mars (attracted to damaged/emotionally fragile men) play into it, I suppose. Your moon opposing his Sun is actually a wonderful aspect - but his Moon and Venus aren't receiving any aspects from your chart.. Mars square Saturn is the classic "buzzkill" aspect. Mars is all "go go go" and Saturn is like, "no no no". That's not the only way it can play out, of course. But it is possible.
Take care! You have a lot to offer..
Saturn square Mars can definitely get to abuse I think. Depending on the rest of the factors.
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:"I think I have a tendency to be attracted to men I can fix emotionally. He was emotional and had no issue sharing his inner most feelings, but I think I really wnated to heal his pain from past heartbreak. My cancer rising makes me want to mother people and heal their pain. I don't have a natal Moon-Mars aspect"Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.
I think since my natal Uranus-Neptune conjunction is in my 7th house an square my natal Venus in Aries (the most exact aspect in my chart) I was basically born to be delusional and permanently wear rose-colored glasses in relationships. It's been this way since I started dating a decade ago when I was 16. I hate that no matter how hard I try to tell myself not to fall into what could be a romantic façade I still do >.<. I don't think it'll ever change (but I can be aware of it as I always have been since I first learned about everything in my natal chart). Still though, even if you know you're astrologically prone to certain negative behaviors, it's difficult to overcome them since its a part of your personality.
I'm such a kind little Cancer rising that I can't help but help others, but perhaps that is why I constantly feel taken advantage of. I do stand up for myself but I suppose my Arian energy makes me stand up in kind of rude way, this means that I have been labeled as aggressive or kind of rude by exes in te past when I attempt to show them how abhorrent their behavior towards me is. People hate when you show them how sh*ty they're treating you!
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Nice work Morrigan.. and thanks for that from me too because it's important to make sure people are on the right track (sometimes I am not).Saturn square Mars can definitely get to abuse I think. Depending on the rest of the factors.
His Saturn square my Mars is def not the best, but he's more of the passive type, so I think any abuse on his end towards me would be unintentional or not physical, but who knows... I mean we did not at all fight, not once. The way it ended was quite odd tbh. I just had a feeling that he wasn't interested and I voiced my feeling as I always do and he confirmed it. The odd part is that everyday leading up to that he was always the one to text me nightly and he was always the one to say cute things and be affectionate and act like he was over the moon for me, so when my intuition told me that he wasn't as interested as he outwardly appeared I wanted to dismiss it as me being paranoid, but I didn't. I still do think that we're not a terrible match... but idk... maybe I'm just delusional
quote:Originally posted by Morrigan: [QUOTE]Originally posted by sassaqua:[b]Relationships are so tricky and complicated, hey.Your quote above is why I made a point about your Neptune on the DC (attracted to healing broken people). And, too, with Uranus there, you will have a high tolerance for weirdness in people. You may even find this attractive. Be careful though, because these qualities are often red flags of abusive people. People that don't actually need or want any help at all, but just that they enjoy taking advantage of others, draining and abusing others.
Take care! You have a lot to offer..[/B][/QUOTE]
Thank you. Yes I hope one day I can offer all y love to someone who will accept it and not leave :/
Thank you. But let me say one thing, his Venus is actually square my Sun. So his Venus is receiving an aspect from my chart and from the benefic Sun, but that aspect is a saddening square
When you stand up, they assume you're fiery or strong and can handle. But I cannot handle too much.
Think to always take relationships really very slow.
quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: The odd part is that everyday leading up to that he was always the one to text me nightly and he was always the one to say cute things and be affectionate and act like he was over the moon for me, so when my intuition told me that he wasn't as interested as he outwardly appeared I wanted to dismiss it as me being paranoid, but I didn't. I still do think that we're not a terrible match... but idk... maybe I'm just delusional
It's frustrating when people send mixed signals like that. Hate it!
And, btw - Sun square Venus is not a bad aspect per se. Squares aren't automatically bad.. They do indicate that the two planets are at odds, but they're also very dynamic/strong aspects. Here's a nice video on Sun square Venus in synastry:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHX7shtlB_w
quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: I hate that no matter how hard I try to tell myself not to fall into what could be a romantic façade I still do >.<. I don't think it'll ever change (but I can be aware of it as I always have been since I first learned about everything in my natal chart). Still though, even if you know you're astrologically prone to certain negative behaviors, it's difficult to overcome them since its a part of your personality.
quote:Originally posted by SunAscendant: People hate when you show them how sh*ty they're treating you!
quote:Originally posted by sassaqua:Nice work Morrigan.. and thanks for that from me too because it's important to make sure people are on the right track (sometimes I am not).
Oh, neither am I. Thanks for understanding, though.. Glad it didn't come off too negative..
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