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T O P I C R E V I E WSolar_Leo_QueenFor people who've had someone complete an aspect configuration in their charts through synastry, do you feel a strong attachment to such people? Or do they feel it more? I think there would be long-term potential for couples with pattern completion not just in synastry but also in comparison to each individual natal chart. There might be a strong attraction because the person provides what you've been missing all along through the planet that completes an incomplete pattern in your chart. I wonder if this would help with longevity especially when there are little to no Saturn contacts to personal planets or Moon contacts. A double-whammy might also present greater potential as a glue for two people.RandallBump!StoneMoonI notice that people who complete my Earth trine, thus making it a Grand Earth trine, pop up frequently and they are some of my favorite people. However, the spot that completes this grand trine also happens to be a significant point in my duad chart. comdocSLQ, I do feel a strong attachment to those who complete my natal Kite and Bowl aspect formations. Their planets circa Aqua 10 and 25; Libra 25 and Sag 11. Two greatest lovers in my life. First wife has 13 Sag Sun, 25 Libra Moon! Former fiance has 28 Aqua rising, 24 Aqua South Node. With both, we felt mutual attraction. quote:Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:For people who've had someone complete an aspect configuration in their charts through synastry, do you feel a strong attachment to such people? Or do they feel it more? I think there would be long-term potential for couples with pattern completion not just in synastry but also in comparison to each individual natal chart. There might be a strong attraction because the person provides what you've been missing all along through the planet that completes an incomplete pattern in your chart. I wonder if this would help with longevity especially when there are little to no Saturn contacts to personal planets or Moon contacts. A double-whammy might also present greater potential as a glue for two people.Hikaru29The 2 guys I wanted to marry turned my natal t-square love config into a grand cross. I've Moon in 7th opposing Venus in 1st with Mars in 10th as Apex. I've always struggled between wanting freedom but feeling lonely vs enjoying the bliss of partnership yet feeling confined. This results in me pouring my energy into work (Mars in 10th) because I can't find a satisfying balance. So with the guys who turned that into a grand cross, I feel that I can find a balance with them. However, it doesn't feel good when someone's planets join my t-square. My ex's Moon conjunct my Venus and it was bad even though this is supposed to be a very sweet aspect. He zapped my energies. No sweetness.I have another t-square involving Saturn/Jupiter/Pluto with Saturn as the Apex. I wonder how it will feel if someone completes that grand cross for me... haven't experienced that.Hikaru29I understand that it's the person receiving the pattern completion that feels it so naturally it's best if you complete each other's patterns. I'm not sure about longevity but IME pattern completion is emotionally binding. The feeling that you wanna be with them will be strong because they take you out of your rut (like in my case) or expand your energies. Whether or not this r/s will endure is another matter. My previous one didn't endure but it did last for 6+yrs.I've also come to realised that Saturn is not an absolute for glue. It can also block you or make you feel burdened. I've had a strong Saturn relationship (the ex whose planet joins my t-square) and our r/s was volatile and on/off...but what Saturn did was to make him "haunt" me for years. He won't leave me alone...kept popping back in my life. So IME, Saturn is nice glue if the r/s is good & healthy. But Saturn can feel like a poltergeist if the r/s is bad and you're trying to shake it off.sassaquaHikaru29, I think that's very true about heavy Saturn.. It's really is a feeling of obligation instead of joy.Like: I guess we should meet up on the weekend, because we are a couple. Then it's just go through the motions.About pattern completion, perhaps it depends. I have seen the planet person is much keener to join the other two relational planets, say like in a trine. Kind of a homecoming for the one planet joining. The other two almost oblivious to the one planet. Because they are already in unconscious (trine) bliss with each other?OTOH, with a tsquare, these planets might be keen for the 4th missing leg to join in order to become stabilised in a grand cross. Which, I have actually read this first-hand account from someone (orange?) in another thread here on LL. The t-square being more stressful. And conscious, incidentally. RandallBump!RandallBump!Dhyana.sassaqua quote:Originally posted by comdoc:SLQ, I do feel a strong attachment to those who complete my natal Kite and Bowl aspect formations. Their planets circa Aqua 10 and 25; Libra 25 and Sag 11. Two greatest lovers in my life. First wife has 13 Sag Sun, 25 Libra Moon! Former fiance has 28 Aqua rising, 24 Aqua South Node. With both, we felt mutual attraction. comdoc if youre ever around -Then that would be my Aqua Merc and Sun, my Libra Moon, and my Sag Mars.Ok so I've made the orbs wide on the Moon and Mars just for fun. But, still, very close.RandallBump!
quote:Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:For people who've had someone complete an aspect configuration in their charts through synastry, do you feel a strong attachment to such people? Or do they feel it more? I think there would be long-term potential for couples with pattern completion not just in synastry but also in comparison to each individual natal chart. There might be a strong attraction because the person provides what you've been missing all along through the planet that completes an incomplete pattern in your chart. I wonder if this would help with longevity especially when there are little to no Saturn contacts to personal planets or Moon contacts. A double-whammy might also present greater potential as a glue for two people.
However, it doesn't feel good when someone's planets join my t-square. My ex's Moon conjunct my Venus and it was bad even though this is supposed to be a very sweet aspect. He zapped my energies. No sweetness.
I have another t-square involving Saturn/Jupiter/Pluto with Saturn as the Apex. I wonder how it will feel if someone completes that grand cross for me... haven't experienced that.
I've also come to realised that Saturn is not an absolute for glue. It can also block you or make you feel burdened. I've had a strong Saturn relationship (the ex whose planet joins my t-square) and our r/s was volatile and on/off...but what Saturn did was to make him "haunt" me for years. He won't leave me alone...kept popping back in my life. So IME, Saturn is nice glue if the r/s is good & healthy. But Saturn can feel like a poltergeist if the r/s is bad and you're trying to shake it off.
Like: I guess we should meet up on the weekend, because we are a couple. Then it's just go through the motions.
About pattern completion, perhaps it depends. I have seen the planet person is much keener to join the other two relational planets, say like in a trine. Kind of a homecoming for the one planet joining. The other two almost oblivious to the one planet. Because they are already in unconscious (trine) bliss with each other?
OTOH, with a tsquare, these planets might be keen for the 4th missing leg to join in order to become stabilised in a grand cross. Which, I have actually read this first-hand account from someone (orange?) in another thread here on LL. The t-square being more stressful. And conscious, incidentally.
quote:Originally posted by comdoc:SLQ, I do feel a strong attachment to those who complete my natal Kite and Bowl aspect formations. Their planets circa Aqua 10 and 25; Libra 25 and Sag 11. Two greatest lovers in my life. First wife has 13 Sag Sun, 25 Libra Moon! Former fiance has 28 Aqua rising, 24 Aqua South Node. With both, we felt mutual attraction.
comdoc if youre ever around -
Then that would be my Aqua Merc and Sun, my Libra Moon, and my Sag Mars.
Ok so I've made the orbs wide on the Moon and Mars just for fun. But, still, very close.
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