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T O P I C R E V I E WChildofVenusWhere you the one who read my synastry chart with this one guy? I think it was you but you stated that the guy was into me. Yet I didn't have his accurate birth time then. But I was able to get it a few days ago. LunaIscariotI’m not sure I don’t remember lol I read a lot of charts on here. But post the updated charts and I’ll take a look ChildofVenus I’m the Taurus. ChildofVenusIn the Composite chart we have Venus in the 8th house and Jupiter in the 5th house.LunaIscariotCan you post the composite and Davison too please? Thanks ChildofVenusComposite chart Davison LunaIscariotNow after looking at the relationship charts as well, I don’t think this is really going to go anywhere tbh. Synastry is more one sided with you being more interested, and is lacking some important things, and the relationships charts are lacking as well. Don’t feel like going into a bunch of detail cuz I’m lazy right now to explain why blah blah, but that’s the basic jist. I wouldn’t get too invested, of course you can try, but I don’t think it’s worth it or will be more than a fling at best. Just my advice tho, take it or leave it lol ChildofVenus quote:Originally posted by LunaIscariot:Now after looking at the relationship charts as well, I don’t think this is really going to go anywhere tbh. Synastry is more one sided with you being more interested, and is lacking some important things, and the relationships charts are lacking as well. Don’t feel like going into a bunch of detail cuz I’m lazy right now to explain why blah blah, but that’s the basic jist. I wouldn’t get too invested, of course you can try, but I don’t think it’s worth it or will be more than a fling at best. Just my advice tho, take it or leave it lol We aren’t in a relationship but we have been sexually involved since 2015. I help him financially and he helps me with school and gives me things. He still says that I can come see him. I like meeting up with him so I guess it’ll just be a long term fling?LunaIscariotYeah that makes sense. What I mean by fling is no commitment kinda thing. Nothing serious. So what you have is essentially a fwb like I said. If you’re happy with that, then by all means I don’t see any issues. I just thought you were asking about like real relationship potential lol Guys will sleep with anyone really and it doesn’t mean much or that they have feelings or actually like you or want anything more etc. ChildofVenus quote:Originally posted by LunaIscariot:Yeah that makes sense. What I mean by fling is no commitment kinda thing. Nothing serious. So what you have is essentially a fwb like I said. If you’re happy with that, then by all means I don’t see any issues. I just thought you were asking about like real relationship potential lol Guys will sleep with anyone really and it doesn’t mean much or that they have feelings or actually like you or want anything more etc. I wasn’t asking about a serious relationship. I was just asking if there was any kind of fondness between us. Clearly is has to be whereas we wouldn’t still be involved after all this time It’s been four years. Of course I know men will sleep with anybody. But I think there is some kind of friendship or affection between us. He trusts me and we’ve talked about personal things. His Moon being in my forth house means that he’s comfortable with me. We have a lot of 4th house overlays which shows familiarity and comfort between us.I know I’m more compatible with the Gemini guy. But the Virgo is always there for me. Whenever I need him for something he’s there and he helps me if he can. The situation with him feels more stable in regards to that I don’t know if that makes sense. I feel like I can really trust him.ChildofVenusBut if it's just sex I don't understand why he never leaves me alone even though he says he is. And why he gets upset when I tell him I'm not going to talk to him anymore.LunaIscariotWell I don’t doubt there is some type of fondness between you? Lol We usually don’t sleep with people we don’t like? So that’s irrelevant. Caring about someone as a friend or person doesn’t mean romantic feelings or love or wanting a relationship etc. Only reason you would be wanting to know if he had feelings for you is because you have feelings for him and want more from him deep down. And you can try rationalize, analyze, grasp for straws etc. all you want. But at the end of day, if he isn’t calling you his gf or saying he wants to be exclusive with you or giving you commitment, that’s your answer for how he really feels about you or the depth or extent of his feelings. If he actually liked you or had real feelings for you, he would tell you that and he would ask you to be his gf. It’s not that complicated. People have tons of reason why they do or don’t do certain things, but you have the look at the facts and the big picture. He could be upset about you not talking to him simply for the selfish reason he can’t get sex from you anymore? I suggest you ask him how he really feels about you and where this is going, because it seems like you want more and he might just be leading you on. I don’t mean to sound harsh or anything and of course you COULD be the exception, and maybe things will work out between you, he will fall in love with you etc. but I just have a lot of friends and people I’ve worked with and even myself who’ve dealt with similar situations, so I have some wisdom behind me. And 99/100, you’re just going to be hurt or disappointed in the end. I tell people to avoid FWB situations since someone usually catches feelings. It’s human nature, usually the women since we’re programmed that way. And looking at the charts, besides just using logic and what you’re telling me, this doesn’t look like it has relationship potential anyways. Charts aren’t strong enough, so I’m not surprised you haven’t taken things to the next level yet and I honestly don’t think you ever will. I’m sorry. But I suggest you have a talk with him or cut your losses you deserve a real relationship with commitment. You can find it, just have to know your worth, raise your standards, and have faith you’ll find it and not settle for less than you deserve.Because these casual situations are ultimately always unfulfilling. ChildofVenusI’m not trying to rationalize it and I’m not asking if we will be in a romantic relationship. I’m just really asking if he and I will remain friends. I just want us to always be friends. I don’t think he wants anything serious with anyone. We’ve talked about it before in the past. You say I deserve commitment but have you seen my chart? Honestly I don’t know if I would be able to give it. I guess maybe I’m worried that things might change after having sex with the Gemini.ChildofVenusI want us to always be friends with benefits is what I’m saying.
But post the updated charts and I’ll take a look
I’m the Taurus.
Davison
I wouldn’t get too invested, of course you can try, but I don’t think it’s worth it or will be more than a fling at best. Just my advice tho, take it or leave it lol
quote:Originally posted by LunaIscariot:Now after looking at the relationship charts as well, I don’t think this is really going to go anywhere tbh. Synastry is more one sided with you being more interested, and is lacking some important things, and the relationships charts are lacking as well. Don’t feel like going into a bunch of detail cuz I’m lazy right now to explain why blah blah, but that’s the basic jist. I wouldn’t get too invested, of course you can try, but I don’t think it’s worth it or will be more than a fling at best. Just my advice tho, take it or leave it lol
We aren’t in a relationship but we have been sexually involved since 2015. I help him financially and he helps me with school and gives me things. He still says that I can come see him. I like meeting up with him so I guess it’ll just be a long term fling?
I just thought you were asking about like real relationship potential lol
Guys will sleep with anyone really and it doesn’t mean much or that they have feelings or actually like you or want anything more etc.
quote:Originally posted by LunaIscariot:Yeah that makes sense. What I mean by fling is no commitment kinda thing. Nothing serious. So what you have is essentially a fwb like I said. If you’re happy with that, then by all means I don’t see any issues. I just thought you were asking about like real relationship potential lol Guys will sleep with anyone really and it doesn’t mean much or that they have feelings or actually like you or want anything more etc.
I wasn’t asking about a serious relationship. I was just asking if there was any kind of fondness between us. Clearly is has to be whereas we wouldn’t still be involved after all this time It’s been four years. Of course I know men will sleep with anybody. But I think there is some kind of friendship or affection between us. He trusts me and we’ve talked about personal things. His Moon being in my forth house means that he’s comfortable with me. We have a lot of 4th house overlays which shows familiarity and comfort between us.
I know I’m more compatible with the Gemini guy. But the Virgo is always there for me. Whenever I need him for something he’s there and he helps me if he can. The situation with him feels more stable in regards to that I don’t know if that makes sense. I feel like I can really trust him.
People have tons of reason why they do or don’t do certain things, but you have the look at the facts and the big picture. He could be upset about you not talking to him simply for the selfish reason he can’t get sex from you anymore?
I suggest you ask him how he really feels about you and where this is going, because it seems like you want more and he might just be leading you on.
I don’t mean to sound harsh or anything and of course you COULD be the exception, and maybe things will work out between you, he will fall in love with you etc. but I just have a lot of friends and people I’ve worked with and even myself who’ve dealt with similar situations, so I have some wisdom behind me. And 99/100, you’re just going to be hurt or disappointed in the end. I tell people to avoid FWB situations since someone usually catches feelings. It’s human nature, usually the women since we’re programmed that way.
And looking at the charts, besides just using logic and what you’re telling me, this doesn’t look like it has relationship potential anyways. Charts aren’t strong enough, so I’m not surprised you haven’t taken things to the next level yet and I honestly don’t think you ever will. I’m sorry. But I suggest you have a talk with him or cut your losses you deserve a real relationship with commitment. You can find it, just have to know your worth, raise your standards, and have faith you’ll find it and not settle for less than you deserve.Because these casual situations are ultimately always unfulfilling.
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