hi MMariethere I a favorable stellium with pluto/sun/venus/ceres . this shows there is a affectionate feeling between you.pluto can be some hat difficult to figure out as it can add intensity or can withdraw for obscure reasons or feelings.with ceres involved the affection takes on a supportive nature. this might be felt as clingy or needy if only one of the partners is interested in a serious relationship.
another common problem with pluto is that it often is desire oriented meaning that deeper emotional intimacy is nota priority. usually this difficult arises when one of the partners is only into the hookup for a sexual tryst. the other partner will sometimes lose their sexual interest after it becomes clear that only the physical attributes re important.
so this stellium has the potential for opposite responses. maybe the feeling of a closer and supportive relationship were too close to the pluto nature. so he bcked off.
with Lilith opposed to aphrodite and priapus with moon square this opposition, this chart could easily revolved around the sexual attraction or expectations. These are hot aspects. with moon maybe you were ffected by the sexual chemistry more than he was.
the tsquare of Neptune opposed to mars/Jupiter opposition is very duplicitous.
this is an aspect of a player even though there might be actions of devotion. but in terms of long term this aspect often shows a persons who has more than one intimate relationship at a time .
okay this gets very complicated emotionally....
the mars/Venus, mars/sun, mars/ceres and mars/pluto midpoints are square to the node/vertex/desc.
the complications arise because both the physical plan of love and sex is connected to otherworldy/paranormal planes of energy.
so on one hand there is old fashioned hot to trot feelings but these are eemeshed with the ensations of higher etheric energys...so you get a unreal sexual experience but often snes of destiny occurs also . soi may bcie diddicukt to focus or each others"real" emotions.
the vertex and node with the descedt is indicative of a extremely close psychihc connection. this can show you read each others thoughts exactly. the vertex add the sense of destiny as you both likely had very similar strange experiences or sensations in your lives. these other worldly occurrences are usually so strange that you would never think you could find another person who would understand... so part of he attraction here is this common experience of "karmic" feelings, sensations or visions.
the problem is that these vertex experiences, though the can bring you very close, don't translate well into a real relationship. so here the physical attraction is very strong but this "other" intensity is also present and does not always add to the relationship.
the Uranus /juno conjunction is opposed to psyche/eros midpoint which suggest that very early on there was very strong, affectionate feeling that this could become committed relationship.
mercury sextile to the moon shows you really got along well with each other, it was easy to talk and generally hangout together. though with the nessus/dejaniera midpoint square to mercury , there might have been times when he was needlessly rude,critical or abrupt.
I'm sure he is still attracted but probably for the sexual connection as that is very strong , but for long term relationship, it does't seem favorable
todd