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proxieme | Never, ever (if you can at all help it) have a Cancer Sun for a Mother-In-Law. Generalized? Yes. But backed up by a mountain of experience. That is all. |
pixelpixie | Or................ A Cancer/Leo cusp. I heed your warning but it's too late for me. And you, suppose. Grin and bear it, indeed! |
proxieme | She's evil. And she has 10,000 placements in the 8th (and a Scorpio Rising AND, perhaps, a Scorpio Moon), so she's even more suspicious and moody than she would otherwise be. --- OK, I take back the "evil" comment...she just needs some serious meds. Right now. --- *pats pixelp on the back* We need to form a club. Any suggestions for a name? |
pixelpixie | S-mothering-incredibly Law-lessly impossible
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future_uncertain | LOL! A thousand placements in the 8th? I'd love to see her chart! |
proxieme | No. Ten Thousand.Let's see if I can get it up here w/o giving anything away: I'm not sure how right that birthtime is (down to the minute), that's why I say that her Moon may be Scorp. Sag could work, too, though. |
proxieme | pixelp...let's see...hrm. Daughters-In-Law Anonymous (DILA) comes to mind, as does Zodiac Cancer Sufferers (the ZCS). |
Bluemoon | I am a moonchild, but not a mother in law. I dont want to be evil to my futer kids in law. |
proxieme | Bluemoon - No, no, no...it's not Cancers in general, really. I quite like most of ya'll Crabs, this woman just has some (serious, overweaning) issues. |
Bluemoon | I am Aqua moon and Aries Rising, so it help with the obsesiveness. |
sue g | OMG guys I had one (first husbands mother), she was a fecking nightmare, wouldnt leave us alone and he being an only child, poor bloke. I hear she has breast cancer the poor woman and although I wish her well I cant help forgetting that she made my life very difficult for a few years - and now I am free of her YAY. I now have a nicely detached Gem sun, Aqua moon mother in law - hardly ever see her, hardly every talk to her, she is indifferent and it suits us just fine!!!! xx |
Rainbow~ | OMG, Proxie.....been there! Done that! I had a Cancer mother-in-law, and I swear she not only caused me much distress, but had a great deal to do with our marriage finally breaking up! I can sympathize! *sigh* I DO NOT RECOMMEND A CANCER MOTHER-IN-LAW! Rainbow |
Saturn's Child | Oh yeah...been there and done that and got the fecking T-shirt! Thankfully the woman and her son are no longer in my life!!! She was the MIL from HELL!!! The first time I met her she proudly showed me a really ugly lamp that she had purchased at a yard sale. She said, "Can you believe it was $20?" I said something like, "Wow, that much?" She then said. "Are you retarded?" I should have followed my gut instinct right then and ran!! Those of you who have one have my deepest sympathies!! |
Philbird | Well, I will be a good mother-in-lawless! Anyone my son marries couldn't possibly have less morals than I do! (Of course, abuse is not tolerated.) Both my mother's in laws love me! |
pidaua | LOl..my mom is a Cancer sun, cancer moon, Uranus in Cancer (and a couple others) she can be a nightmare as well. NO ONE is good enough and she is almost exicted to hear if we have problems. But, she is my mom and I love her with my whole heart. Luckily, astrology has helped me understand her a bit more |
Bluemoon | DO I have to call in the gray police??? I guess I just need to stay out of this thread.......... Bluemoon wans away......................... |
Tigerlily | Yep, my MIL is a Cancer and there were definitely big issues in the beginning but things are a lot better now. She had a VERY hard time letting go of her son when he married me and really acted out. It was very dramatic. But maybe because I'm a Cancer too it's gotten better because there's a kind of emotional empathy between us now. |
BlueRoamer | Uh oh BlueMoon I better watchout if i ever marry your son! heh |
Planet_Soul | Ummm I'm getting nervous... What kind about a Cancer rising, Gem Sun, & Virgo Moon? Is that pretty similar to a Cancer Sun MIL? |
Bluemoon | Yes, BlueRoamer, be Afraid, be VERY afraid.
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rhozzi | Hi you all... I am a Cancer sun sign...Libra moon and I am a hands off mother-in-law...I figure my daughters knew what they were doing when they married their husbands and I'm enjoying my own life too much to try and control theirs. My sons are not married and I hope to carry on the same attitude with their marriages. It's a matter of respect. ....Rhozzi |
pixelpixie | YAY RHOZZI!!!! Can I give you my mother in law's number? She needs your special wisdom! By the way... the other day, I was talking with her over lunch ( for our anniversary, we went to their house for lunch.)*makes wierdness face* She was telling me about this guy who is dating her best friend ( my aunt, incidentally.. omigosh, do not even make me go there on the happiness factor*extreme sarcasm* anyway..... she was saying how he openly insults her, etc.. and hows this for a typical protective Scorpio move... I am ready and willing to confront this jerkface if he even so much as looks at her funny.. She is MY mother in law, she may anmnoy the heck out of me, not understand boundaries, put words in my mouth and generally guilt me forever and ever and ever, but damnit, no one messes with her! 'CEPT ME!!!!!
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