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T O P I C R E V I E Wtaurus_424Hello! Long time lurker first time *confused*poster.. I'll explain in a nutshell.Been dating 2 months Scorpio man, came in very hot. Wanted to see me everyday, passionate sex, intense love touches, got me a toothbrush, met his son, told me he works on energy and im the 2nd one he's told his dad about a girl. Frequent facetime, text,flowers. Told me he deleted his bumble account, last Monday my friend found his account and I said that's ok, he just deleted the app not the profile, location hasn't changed..Fast forward to now, last time I saw him was Friday, same intensity,asked if im getting tired of him yet, he's in the process of moving and some legal ex wife stuff. He hasn't made plans to hang out (and he usually does) he texted me on Sunday and on Tuesday.. last night I saw he went back on bumble (location updated) I texted him to see how his day was.. very responsive asked about my day and he said hes going to be busy the next couple weeks.. with moving and parents visiting, I replied back and told him it sounds like u have a lot on your plate. I would love to help if you need so don't be shy about asking, however, why don't you message me once things settle down." he said thank you for understanding kissy emoji.Is this typical, hot and cold behavior? Because his focus is somewhere else or is he done? Also the bumble thing bothers me. First time dealing with a scorpio!He's a Scor Sun Cancer moon. Im a Taurus Sun Gem Moon.RandallWelcome.AstrogirlieAAH, I've dealt with a few scorpio men in my life...sounds like he DOES have a lot on his plate. With the information that you've given ... Scorpio sun men are passionate & intense. The ones I've met however, like their space, His moon is in cancer... could mean he is very family oriented and protective of those he really cares about, maybe he's trying to give himself some time to get over whatever he's going through so we wont add any stress or worries on you. (:you being a taurus sun (fixed sign) and him being a scorpio (fixed sign) , both are also pretty grounded...knowing what you want... your gemini moon maybe wants you to be there for him and KNOW what's going on more than you should. since your dealing with WATER give him some time to figure out what he truly want (im sure you'll hear back from him soon and he will make it apparent as to what he has going on), But you being the loyal grounded taurus that you are should stick around until hes ready , unless your gemini moon pulls you away making you grow uninterested. lol do you have a full chart ? his other placements and houses will make it a bit easier to dissect him and give u a more deep and proper insight into his personality and what not(:BlueRoamer....Graham quote:asked if im getting tired of him yetAnd your reply was ????[From my perspective as a Scorpio Mercury in 2nd, and a Sun-conjunct-Chiron in 3rd ... that would be a make-or-break reply.]Travelman quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Never let a man see you every day.Once a week at most of the first month.On its own, this is terrible advice, much like the "wait 3 days before contact after a date "rule""Why assign some arbitrary number and one size fits all rule to how to deal with life? Childish games. You want to see and/or talk to someone, do it.Game gets gameReal gets realStop playing games, communicate, see someone when you can."Make a man prove his love to you, never chase a man"-----------------Or be natural, each person can chase. Love is love, love is not war or a battle, those two things are the opposites. How can you be in love when you view it as a "battle"? Not sure i get that logic. quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Girl if he asks to see you again, make him wait twice as long as he made you wait cause you are very busy now. If he was busy for two weeks you're now busy for four weeks.[/B]This *** for tat way of being is the exact opposite way to behave to find true love. The better thing to do is be an adult and communicate your feelings, expectations, etc.taurus_424My reply was that no I was not getting tired of him.Either way doesn't matter anymore, we talked on Wednesday and I told him that I don't like the hot/cold, he said "hes working on it" then I simply stated the vibe has changed.. etc and never heard back. I got back on bumble.Im not a clingy person, Im very independent but if im dating someone I shouldn't have to go weeks without seeing/talking to them. No busy how someone gets, a text once in a while is appropriate. Moving on.BlueRoamerOk girl you keep your head up, you deserve a good loverYou are honest and you will attract a wonderful manBut please also protect yourself and guard your heart from jerks like this guyYou are tough, you can take it, but do you have to?Just remember a man is a different species from a woman, the rules you are playing by are a woman's rules, hes playing by a man's rules, dont forget thatBlueRoamer.Travelman quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Just remember a man is a different species from a woman, the rules you are playing by are a woman's rules, hes playing by a man's rules, dont forget that....What?
Been dating 2 months Scorpio man, came in very hot. Wanted to see me everyday, passionate sex, intense love touches, got me a toothbrush, met his son, told me he works on energy and im the 2nd one he's told his dad about a girl. Frequent facetime, text,flowers. Told me he deleted his bumble account, last Monday my friend found his account and I said that's ok, he just deleted the app not the profile, location hasn't changed..
Fast forward to now, last time I saw him was Friday, same intensity,asked if im getting tired of him yet, he's in the process of moving and some legal ex wife stuff. He hasn't made plans to hang out (and he usually does) he texted me on Sunday and on Tuesday.. last night I saw he went back on bumble (location updated) I texted him to see how his day was.. very responsive asked about my day and he said hes going to be busy the next couple weeks.. with moving and parents visiting, I replied back and told him it sounds like u have a lot on your plate. I would love to help if you need so don't be shy about asking, however, why don't you message me once things settle down." he said thank you for understanding kissy emoji.
Is this typical, hot and cold behavior? Because his focus is somewhere else or is he done? Also the bumble thing bothers me. First time dealing with a scorpio!
He's a Scor Sun Cancer moon. Im a Taurus Sun Gem Moon.
you being a taurus sun (fixed sign) and him being a scorpio (fixed sign) , both are also pretty grounded...knowing what you want... your gemini moon maybe wants you to be there for him and KNOW what's going on more than you should. since your dealing with WATER give him some time to figure out what he truly want (im sure you'll hear back from him soon and he will make it apparent as to what he has going on), But you being the loyal grounded taurus that you are should stick around until hes ready , unless your gemini moon pulls you away making you grow uninterested. lol
do you have a full chart ? his other placements and houses will make it a bit easier to dissect him and give u a more deep and proper insight into his personality and what not(:
quote:asked if im getting tired of him yet
And your reply was ????
[From my perspective as a Scorpio Mercury in 2nd, and a Sun-conjunct-Chiron in 3rd ... that would be a make-or-break reply.]
quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Never let a man see you every day.Once a week at most of the first month.
Once a week at most of the first month.
On its own, this is terrible advice, much like the "wait 3 days before contact after a date "rule""
Why assign some arbitrary number and one size fits all rule to how to deal with life? Childish games. You want to see and/or talk to someone, do it.
Game gets gameReal gets real
Stop playing games, communicate, see someone when you can.
"Make a man prove his love to you, never chase a man"
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Or be natural, each person can chase. Love is love, love is not war or a battle, those two things are the opposites. How can you be in love when you view it as a "battle"? Not sure i get that logic.
quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Girl if he asks to see you again, make him wait twice as long as he made you wait cause you are very busy now. If he was busy for two weeks you're now busy for four weeks.[/B]
Girl if he asks to see you again, make him wait twice as long as he made you wait cause you are very busy now. If he was busy for two weeks you're now busy for four weeks.
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This *** for tat way of being is the exact opposite way to behave to find true love. The better thing to do is be an adult and communicate your feelings, expectations, etc.
Either way doesn't matter anymore, we talked on Wednesday and I told him that I don't like the hot/cold, he said "hes working on it" then I simply stated the vibe has changed.. etc and never heard back. I got back on bumble.
Im not a clingy person, Im very independent but if im dating someone I shouldn't have to go weeks without seeing/talking to them. No busy how someone gets, a text once in a while is appropriate. Moving on.
You are honest and you will attract a wonderful man
But please also protect yourself and guard your heart from jerks like this guy
You are tough, you can take it, but do you have to?
Just remember a man is a different species from a woman, the rules you are playing by are a woman's rules, hes playing by a man's rules, dont forget that
quote:Originally posted by BlueRoamer:Just remember a man is a different species from a woman, the rules you are playing by are a woman's rules, hes playing by a man's rules, dont forget that
....What?
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