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carl | My personal philosophy is astrology and especially synastry can be summed up very well in one word: Blue print. They serve as guidance more than a set in stone ideal or belief. So with that said, I do not believe in anyone being doomed or destined, because people have free will. So approach your opinions with that in mind. example 1: A. Instead of saying: You guys have this aspect, you will always argue about religious beliefs B. I would say: Excercise an open mind when tackling religious issues and remind yourself to be positive Really, just phrasing things more positive but also more open ended, as life is. Part A. sets things in stone and is defeatist and self fulfilling prophecy. B. Says almost the same thing but provided more of a blueprint for exerting free will. It annoys me when example 1, part A. is done for BOTH negative AND positive aspects. Even the most positive have 5% downsides just like the most negative CAN have a small percentage of upsides. Anyway, let me know what you think! |
Ami Anne | VERY Good but the Chiron thing may make you get REALLY close fast and then it breaks apart over some crazy small misunderstanding and you can't get it back. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne | her Uranus opposes your venus too which could be intense and then break apart fast but I have not looked at everything, Carl. Just go slowly and carefully with the Chiron thing! ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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carl | That is my problem. I move way too fast. Always. I don't want to give too many details of us yet, as to not shape anyones anaylsis one way or the other. |
Ami Anne | quote: Originally posted by carl: That is my problem. I move way too fast. Always.I don't want to give too many details of us yet, as to not shape anyones anaylsis one way or the other.
SLOW Down as that Chiron will implode ime
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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lalalinda | hey carl, let's transfer this to Personal Readings |
carl | Haha, is there a way to move fast and not have Chiron implode? I am too impatient in some regards. |
carl | This has been very intense, wondering if anyone else has any input? |
birdy | Can you post the composite as well? |
carl | Okay, This is using the midpoint method (2). |
carl | .. |
carl | Huge waste of time. Flamed out. Two weeks of not seeing each other (last time we saw each other was 4/21). I was losing interest as of late but didn't do anything. She TEXTS me to say she wants to breakup (like I said, kinda felt this way anyway but didn't even bother to just break up myself). Still, Lame. Oh, won't even bother to respond to her text message. Again, lame. Amazing how that one just fizzled out, eh!? |
Hera | Man, you had Ven/Uranus (syn and composite!). That never works out. Okay, perhaps I shouldn't say never, maybe there are some that managed it. I couldn't. It would have ended sooner or later IMO. Your OP makes me think you knew this too. So this is why you're so bottled up against us Aries. Why do you think it was lame? At least she said it like it is. Okay, don't know the whole story but seems like maybe she wanted YOU to act out. We sometimes estrange to have you chase us for a change. Hmmm, she's Aries with Gem Venus... Dunno. |
Hera | quote: didn't even bother to just break up myself
OMG. This irks me lol. Not necessarily because of you, but the Cap Marses I dated where like this too. Kinda around the same degree you have it (otherwise it would do nothing for me). I seriously don't understand why someone would play it down like this when it's clearly not going anywhere. PS: IMO, her text = she's angry you didn't take a stand and she's giving you a push. What do you have to lose if you answer her? I know you're angry, but don't you AT LEAST want to know what went wrong to not repeat it next time? I would. Besides, you're Cap Asc, we take pleasure in taking the high road. Though maybe your Scorpio Sun is too vindictive for that? |
carl | I am not even angry. She basically just said "Thanks for the good and very exciting times but we just aren't comparabe. I have not been happy as of late and I know you must not be happy either. I think it is best this end and I wish you best of luck on your journey to finding the right girl for you" or something like that. I, just am not interested in responding to that. what went wrong? (haha "www") I think I just sent a reply stating "whatever" or something when she said she could not hang out (around day 10). totally juevinille thing to get mad at and break things off about IMO. simple like that though I really do think. I just need something more evolved though. I knew something was off at start of the two week of no contact. But..I dunno, just did not do anything for some reason... |
Hera | I'm sorry it didn't work out. That Sun-Moon exact conjunction is lovely and nice, the Sun-Pluto conj was intense (I've had both so I understand). But honestly the Ven sq Sat and Ven sq Ura in comp do not look good. They can destroy even the nicest synasties, unfortunately. Not saying it is set in stone but ~90% perhaps more do not last too much. I guess I can see you being the one more involved because she triggered more water houses in you (4th and 12th), while you only hit her 4th and bombarded her 5th - she might have seen it more as light fun. Your Mercury remained unaspected by her planets, maybe that's why you didn't say anything. Hey btw I'm sorta fascinated with your chart now. If you have time, check Astro 2.
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carl | Thanks for the input. I don't think I honestly saw a future either. I don't know what I saw in fact. But one of the major dealbreakers is not wanting to have a child -- so lord knows why I stuck around, I don't get myself. again, thanks for input! |
Hera | Who didn't wanna have a child? |
carl | she. Dealbreaker. I want 1 or 2. (undecided about what number but no more than 2). |
Hera | Mkey. I'm gonna quote this on the other thread b/c here is offtopic and I want to discuss this in more detail. Is that alright with you? |
carl | go ahead! feel absolutely free! |