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mars.gem | .... |
Hera | Are you sure it's a good idea to ask these so many times?.. I have a spread for exes I can use it for the reconciliation question. But it will be in couple of hours, due to work. |
mars.gem | ... |
seeker3030 | Hi mars.gem I don't know whether you saw but I replied to you with a reading on your readings thread? Just in case you didn't, here it is. Hope it's helpful. Thank you so much for your reading! It's made me feel quite positive and hopeful in a moment where I was feeling a little negative and fearful so I'll trust in the Sun and hold my nerve! I chose to answer your first question and as I was shuffling the 5 of cups literally fell from the deck. So it would appear he's hiding his hurt and disappointment from you. He's feeling drained and unable to rally from whatever he sees as the loss he's suffered.
I then asked how will he receive your phone call and The Tower was drawn so I would advise against contact at the moment. Best to leave him alone until he feels ready to contact you perhaps? I hope that helps and thanks again for your reading. x |
mars.gem | Thank you seeker3030. Why does the tower have to be a fearful, no card? If the tower is a sudden change, would that not be a good thing? Breaking down the inactive lines of communication? |
seeker3030 | I don't think it necessarily does have to be a negative but I would suggest that the 'shaky ground' causing it to wobble and fall should be allowed to calm down before you act. See where the dust settles type of thing? |
mars.gem | It's been about a month now. How much longer? |
Hera | Okay Mars Gem.. here's the reading. Past history of the relationship: 7 of Pentacles You now: Wheel of Fortune Him now: Page of Swords Your feelings about reconciliation: 5 of Wands His feelings about a reconciliation with you: Moon Opposing factors: 9 of Pentacles Favorable factors: 2 of Wands Unknown factors: Knight of Swords Outcome: Hierophant. In this spread he is still sulking it seems and I think he is very much confused, like it appeared in the other reading. I am not exactly sure how to interpret the 9 of Pentacles as opposing factor, I imagine it might have something to do with financial instability or too much work, not enough time to work this through, different priorities. You anticipate this to be more of a struggle, it does look like you might argue with him about this. What will work is make a decision and stick with it, plan ahead and implement it, don't act impulsively. Interesting that the Knight of Swords came up in the unknown factors. It might mean another man that you are not aware, either a suitor for you or someone who can influence the situation, or a suggestion that arguments and hastiness are in the picture with this question. It might not go exactly as you wish/hope. Hence the suggestion from previous cards not to rush into things and plan ahead. The Hierophant to me is yes, there is hope to reconcile, but I think it takes some time and a lot of faith. I don't know what your issue was and reason for splitting but my hunch is that you might need to eventually prove your level of commitment to him.
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Hera | My question - what do I need to know about my love life in the next 3 months? I would prefer Lenormands if that's okay (love them!). |
mars.gem | Hello Hera. I apologize for the delay. My mind was preoccupied with matters of the heart. tree-coffin-mountain-man-dog I see endings,obstacles and slow growth. You could call it a rejuvenation of sorts. The tree and coffin can be related to health. Healh of a man, friend or since you asked about love, then love. Man and dog can relate to a close loyal friend or partner again since you asked about love then I would think it could be referring to a potential guy in your life currently. The mountain is a blockage. Delays. Frustrations. Coupled with the tree very slow progress but coupled with the coffin a decision or action is going to drag along for quite awhile. It is an impending ending. These delays are all related to a man. The dog indicates It is a man you already know. |
mars.gem | quote: Originally posted by Hera: Okay Mars Gem.. here's the reading. Past history of the relationship: 7 of Pentacles You now: Wheel of Fortune Him now: Page of Swords Your feelings about reconciliation: 5 of Wands His feelings about a reconciliation with you: Moon Opposing factors: 9 of Pentacles Favorable factors: 2 of Wands Unknown factors: Knight of Swords Outcome: Hierophant. In this spread he is still sulking it seems and I think he is very much confused, like it appeared in the other reading. I am not exactly sure how to interpret the 9 of Pentacles as opposing factor, I imagine it might have something to do with financial instability or too much work, not enough time to work this through, different priorities. You anticipate this to be more of a struggle, it does look like you might argue with him about this. What will work is make a decision and stick with it, plan ahead and implement it, don't act impulsively. Interesting that the Knight of Swords came up in the unknown factors. It might mean another man that you are not aware, either a suitor for you or someone who can influence the situation, or a suggestion that arguments and hastiness are in the picture with this question. It might not go exactly as you wish/hope. Hence the suggestion from previous cards not to rush into things and plan ahead. The Hierophant to me is yes, there is hope to reconcile, but I think it takes some time and a lot of faith. I don't know what your issue was and reason for splitting but my hunch is that you might need to eventually prove your level of commitment to him.
Very thankful. I only hope he contacts me soon. I would like for us to talk but at this juncture I do not know if that will manifest. Iam getting tired of waiting and not know how much space is too much or too little. |
Hera | quote: Originally posted by mars.gem: Hello Hera. I apologize for the delay. My mind was preoccupied with matters of the heart.tree-coffin-mountain-man-dog I see endings,obstacles and slow growth. You could call it a rejuvenation of sorts. The tree and coffin can be related to health. Healh of a man, friend or since you asked about love, then love. Man and dog can relate to a close loyal friend or partner again since you asked about love then I would think it could be referring to a potential guy in your life currently. The mountain is a blockage. Delays. Frustrations. Coupled with the tree very slow progress but coupled with the coffin a decision or action is going to drag along for quite awhile. It is an impending ending. These delays are all related to a man. The dog indicates It is a man you already know.
Thank you. The decision will be leaving my partner. So an ending is in sight. This I already know will happen. The other man is out of sight and slow growth is anticipated also, obstacles too. |
Hera | quote: Originally posted by mars.gem: Very thankful. I only hope he contacts me soon. I would like for us to talk but at this juncture I do not know if that will manifest. Iam getting tired of waiting and not know how much space is too much or too little.
Believe me, I know exactly how that feels. Find something to preoccupy yourself with in the meantime. |
mars.gem | you are much welcomed hera. would you still like to continue the exchange? i was wondering how much longer until contacts starts again. should i call him? |
Hera | I'm on call at the hospital today with no tarots on me, tomorrow I will ask if you should contact him. How good are you with timing? I'd like to ask when next contact with Scorp will be. |
mars.gem | I can try with lenormand and tarot to compare. |
Hera | Oki. Good thing is I will be able to provide feedback if and when it happens.. |
mars.gem | Greetings Hera, Lenormand states your card as moon and his card as the rider. The moon in lenormand is unlike tarot, the moon is usually a positive card. Its romance, clandestine affairs, feelings, fame, recognition. For you I would say that you look to the night for guidance. The things he does and doesnt do at night will provide you with the insight you need. Also a gentle approach to love would also be advised. Follow your intuition. For timing, on your part you want him to make a dramtic approach. Perhaps a romantic poem or something romantic and creative. For him. Its the rider or knight. He wants to be the dashing prince, bearer of good news, but in timing I think he wants you to make the next move. He wants you to step up to the plate. outcome mountain. Not this week. Maybe end of the month or February. The mountain is very masculine. I would guess the delays would be on his part. |
Hera | I want him to open up to me. I want him to let me in. That would do the trick for me. Him.. yes, Rider fits. He's physical, always on the move, always busy and wants something more fun, less serious, quick and without entanglements. I've rejected him 3 times I think, so yeah, I imagine he thinks it's my turn to make a move. But I'm not gonna play by his rules. Mountain is where we are now, for reasons stated above. Neither wants to give in lol. So we're at a stalemate.. Very spot on, Ms. Mars.gem!! *edit* Psychics say end of Feb/March/until summer we'll be together and the end of the year will bring much commitment. So I'll let you know. |
mars.gem | Good luck. Iam sorry I will not be able to continue until a member on my other thread stops imposing her will on me. Her vibe is very negative and rude. |
Hera | Your reading, Mars.Gem: I asked if you should contact him. I do a 4 card yes/no spread with which I usually get pretty accurate answers. 1. What is this about? - 5 of Swords 2. What is the starting point? - 3 of Swords 3. What is the environment surrounding your question? King of Swords 4. The answer - Queen of Swords As you can see, all 4 cards were Swords. They are suggesting the emotional distance and differences of opinion you two have. I believe he is still the King of Swords and in this spread you are the Queen, for now on your own, having to withstand a difficult time with all those swords. As clarification, I asked what might happen if you do decide to contact him and I got 5 of Cups. It's pretty clear to me that you shouldn't contact him for now. There is still too much bad blood between you and he will not understand where you're coming from. Wait just a little longer until he will be more receptive and less bitter about your break-up. |
Hera | quote: Originally posted by mars.gem: Good luck. Iam sorry I will not be able to continue until a member on my other thread stops imposing her will on me. Her vibe is very negative and rude.
I understand, however you should try to keep away from bad vibes, regardless of where they are coming from and not take it personally when you do encounter them. I don't know who this is about, but ill will speaks more of the person who spreads it than the one who receives it. Goodluck to you too and thank you for our little exchange. It was very accurate and confirmed what I suspected. You hang in there as well, I don't think all if lost, but it doesn't seem like this is a good time to make a move, I'm afraid. Cheer up though, if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually. If not, something better will. |