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pekli | Hello! If anyone wants to help me, I've fallen for a magnetic and very interesting man, he's a cusp Scorpio/Sagittarius (19.11.1967, Zug, CH)and I'm a cusp Capricorn/Aqua (22.01.1981, 21.15, Mantova, IT) After three weeks of flirting, we went for a lovely first date which ended with some passionate kissing two days ago, but I haven't heard from him since. It's my very first time falling for a Scorpio so I'm wondering how our chart looks.. thanks! |
starmoon | quote: Originally posted by pekli: Hello! If anyone wants to help me, I've fallen for a magnetic and very interesting man, he's a cusp Scorpio/Sagittarius (19.11.1967, Zug, CH)and I'm a cusp Capricorn/Aqua (22.01.1981, 21.15, Mantova, IT) After three weeks of flirting, we went for a lovely first date which ended with some passionate kissing two days ago, but I haven't heard from him since. It's my very first time falling for a Scorpio so I'm wondering how our chart looks.. thanks!
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pekli | http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=mobile-ef3fileDWYCJC-u1367446397&lang=e&gm=a1&pa=mobile&nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=671&mth=a&sday=2&smon=5&syr=2013&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
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pekli | HI hope you can see it! I had to make up a totally hypothetical birthtime tho for him!tx
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Randall | Welcome! |
pekli | thanks Randall! |
pekli | anyone feels like helping out with my synastry? I don't really know how to interpret days of total silence after an apparently perfect first date with this man, and I'm getting so nervous °__° |
RunAroundScreaming | You have a minor aspect love stellium. That is weaker than the conjunct/opposition love stellium but still a nice influence. It would make it difficult to ever turn against each other completely. The synastry has venus conjunct mars and sun trine jupiter. That would give not only nice chemistry but a strong physical attraction. However venus is conjunct saturn and your uranus is conjunct his sun, so its likely the relationship will be highly unstable. On/off feelings and instability in the way you relate to each other are noted. He thinks you are cold/impersonal/distant in the way you treat him and he feels very hurt by that. The composite also points to this relationship being a short-lasting one with moon opposite mars and uranus. Moon opposite mars means arguments and opposite uranus means you don't keep in touch but play games with each other about who contacts who first. There is also a sun-mercury-saturn stellium which indicates that if you get to know each other better youd find you are much too serious together and that your chemistry frequently dies. Edit: Just read your last post. This seems to fit with my interpretation. Sorry :/ Just move on. Even if you tried to force things, this would definitely not be a good relationship. Would be very hurtful....promise... ------------------ True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid |
pekli | Thanks RunAroundScreaming! That doesn't sound promising at all any chance it could be quite different with him having a different ascendant? I just tried a random birth time, not knowing the right hour. I am definitely not cold (trying to be detached now, as I don't want to press him... if he doesn't get back in touch I feel like calling him would make things even worse in a way, and he has been out of office the whole week so we haven't seen each other since our date) but I suspect he's testing me for my impatience.. Regarding the short term.. yes, I'm only meant to be in this country for another month, so that could be why.. it's a difficult one! |
RunAroundScreaming | Nope birth time wouldn't change much, since I didn't mention any moon aspects in synastry. Sorry :/ It could change the moon square mars in composite, though. Since its at a wider orb ------------------ True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid |
pekli | oh damn I'll see with what ******** he shows up on Monday and stay firm. But I know, that even with the strongest intentions, it will be so hard to resist him if he tries to pick up from where we left it (passionate kissing level), the chemistry is just too high unfortunately.thanks a lot! |
pekli | oh damn I'll see with what ******** he shows up on Monday and stay firm. But I know, that even with the strongest intentions, it will be so hard to resist him if he tries to pick up from where we left it (passionate kissing level), the chemistry is just too high unfortunately.thanks a lot! |
RunAroundScreaming | That's why i try not to kiss too early =)))) If it's passionate then it hurts too much later if things don't work out |
trudie | Sorry Im too novice to give chart advice, but some Scorpios are notorious for running off with fear of getting hurt. Avoiding personal hurt as a Scorpio is paramount, unless Scorpio falls in love. Then the partner is no1. Its just a case of nailing him, through a sacred bond of trust |
plutoprincess | Well, a few days isn't a long time. Since you had such a wonderful time, I'm sure he did too. Scorpios aren't the kind of guys to call you the very next day of a date. They sometimes need their time and space. Anyway, you shouldn't be upset yet, and if you feel the need to call him just do it, there's nothing to lose. But no matter what, do not be hostile against him on Monday. Pretend indifferent if you must, but do not show that you were expecting his call.I hope it turns out well for you *hugs* |
RunAroundScreaming | ^my opinion. Dont settle. He shouldve contacted u right away girl. Aint fair to settle for second best |
Randall | What RAS said. |
pekli | thanks everyone for the support (in either direction!), I'll just go for what comes spontaneous for once - I normally tend to be defensive and overly rational if I'm even a little bit hurt or annoyed.. |