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Gemmy | Hey guys,If anyone can help me,I'd really appreciate it. Here goes I feel like I'm at a point in this relationship where If I must,I can walk away.But I've shown impatience in the past when I feel blue,and regretted it.That's why I'm in this situation now. Hes said he wants to try again but he tends to ignore my text and we hardly ever speak.I've always put alot more effort into this relationship.But when I try to walk away he does either two things.1)He gets upset and calls me impatient or 2)he clings and showers me with compliments.On one hand I feel like he's testing me(since I have shown impatience in the past) but then I think,maybe he doesn't care and I'm just grasping at straws.I don't know if he's being sincere about wanting to try again.So I'm very confused.Can anyone take a look at this horary chart and please help.Thank you. My question was(Will we ever be together?) |
Gemmy | OK,so I did some research. The Asc(Jupiter) is me,the 7th house ruler(Mercury) is him.The Sun is conjunct/applying to Jupiter.Would this be a yes to my question? But then Venus is conjunct Mercury.I read that could mean he is with someone else.But I don't think he is. And Jupiter is in the 7th,which means I care more.Which might be true. |
Gemmy | Or would he be represented by Venus? |
asclibrasagsun | Conjunct and applying! I think you're looking at a yes from what I can tell! But you as Jupiter are in his 1st house, doesn't this mean he is focusing on you? You are in your 7th house then, which means you are concentrating on serious relationships. Hope I'm not off |
asclibrasagsun | I don't see the sun applying to jupiter? It looks like there is a mars jupiter conjunction You may want to repost the chart if you can because the quality is not clear and makes one squint to see the time units : ) |
Gemmy | Thank you |
Gemmy | quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Conjunct and applying! I think you're looking at a yes from what I can tell!But you as Jupiter are in his 1st house, doesn't this mean he is focusing on you? You are in your 7th house then, which means you are concentrating on serious relationships. Hope I'm not off
I hope your not off either But you might be right.I have major anxiety problems that make it extremely difficult for me to open up.And he told me he's been reading up on my specific issues,to understand me better. I sent him an email after starting this thread.I told him he didn't care and he seemed pretty upset about me saying that.So maybe he is really trying. But now I feel bad sending him that email.I hope that Moon opposite Mars isn't an indication of conflict.I hate arguing with him. And your exactly right.I am looking for a serious relationship.Next month I'll be 25,and he's the only guy I've ever been interested in. Sorry I meant Mercury conjunct Jupiter.I guess I had a hard time reading the aspects too. |
depth | An ever question isn't a valid horary question. And the answer for the time being is no. He's applying to another woman who you don't know about. Venus also rules the end of question. Moon is in fall in scorpio, sitting in your 11h of hopes, wishes and friendship and his 5h of short affairs. It's next aspect is an opposition to mars, the ruler of his 5th. This could lead to a brief sexual encounter or falling apart of friendship or you might get to hear about his partner or you may feel like you are getting him but finally don't. As mercury, he's not interested in you. You need to move on. |
Gemmy | I can't shake the feeling he's playing games with me.So you could be right.I'll wait and see if he replys to my email,then I'll tell him goodbye and wish him the best. Or maybe I'll just proceed with caution.Thank you for taking the time to help. Question,If an ever question isn't valid,are the readings invalid too?
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depth | I took the intention into consideration and specifically mentioned 'for the time being'. You could end up marrying him 20 years from now. And ever questions aren't appropriate cause all horary charts have a time period though I think oppositions of significators actually mean 'the end'. |
Gemmy | Thank you depth I just saw the "for the time being" part.I guess it just got lost in everything after that. So I'll just proceed with caution.He does sound sincere.But he's a poet,so he has a way with words. |
Gemmy | I've decided to keep trying with him.I've done a lot of stupid things in this relationship.So if he is playing games,I probably deserve it. |
asclibrasagsun | quote: Originally posted by depth:
And ever questions aren't appropriate cause all horary charts have a time period though I think oppositions of significators actually mean 'the end'.
Usually this is the case. Unless the opposition of significators is applying, then this leads to a yes answer but an unwanted situation. For example, you no longer want to be with the person but they show up and try to have a relationship with you. Depth I am actually very impressed with your horary skills, would you mind reading a chart for me sometime? |
asclibrasagsun | quote: Originally posted by Gemmy: I've decided to keep trying with him.I've done a lot of stupid things in this relationship.So if he is playing games,I probably deserve it.
Gemmy! Don't give up. Give it your all! He may be playing games but I remember my first serious relationship and we broke up over the fact that he was "playing games". I was so mean and harsh with him because I thought he was lying about something and interested in other people, when he actually really wasn't! Man I felt pretty stupid about that. Lost a good friend and a good partner I should have gotten rid of my insecurities but due to my young age and inexperience in relationships I really didn't know how to act and how I acted was wrong! Don't make the same mistake. My best wishes to you |
Gemmy | Thank you asclibrasagsun. I'm not gonna give up.I know we're in this situation because of me.I did the same things you did.I was always very impulsive whenever my insecurities crept up,I think I broke up with him at least twice a week in a month. So I'm gonna just accept the consequences of what I did.It's understandable that he's acting this way.I think I hurt him. |
asclibrasagsun | quote: Originally posted by Gemmy: Thank you asclibrasagsun. I'm not gonna give up.I know we're in this situation because of me.I did the same things you did.I was always very impulsive whenever my insecurities crept up,I think I broke up with him at least twice a week in a month. So I'm gonna just accept the consequences of what I did.It's understandable that he's acting this way.I think I hurt him.
If he is still around and wants to fix whatever was wrong then you still have a chance to make it work! this is always a good thing! stay positive |
Gemmy | Thank you and I will. |
Gemmy | Hey guys I came to leave an update on the "situation".With predictions I think it's cool when people do that. We were ok up until last week.I asked him a kinda serious question,he answered, and I haven't heard from him since. So depth was probably right. |