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T O P I C R E V I E WTwitterbird05Just did a new reading and wanted to put it out there for interpretation help. Still so new to this - googling the cards but personal feedback helps so much.Q: What is the significance of this relationship (with the guy I am seeing) in my life?Past: Six of SwordsPresent: Eight of PentaclesFuture: Two of PentaclesThoughts?EmpressMendezDo you know him for long? Twitterbird05No, just a month.EmpressMendezHmm, wow. I thought it was longer, but honestly, from those cards above I do not see his significance being that important or influential. In the future I see a lack of effort and indecision about this whole relationship.Hope someone else has a more positive spin on things. Good luck!!Twitterbird05Hmm well I think when I asked this question I was trying to find out what I am supposed to get/learn out of the relationship.andstuff8 pents is about work as you might know. You have moved on to a new phase where you have to learn about making efforts towards making things work. Maybe moving on [from something] was a huge step too? However, as you get better at making adjustments and compromising, you might get too carried away, too willing to take things on board, too willing to adapt. Eventually you should realise it doesn't matter, you are a free agent, in a more chaotic good vein. You will understand how to be in relationships without adjusting too much, without warping yourself. You will only get involved with individuals whose needs do not clash with your freedom and they'll have to take it or leave it. Maybe this freedom is also something you do not quite understand? In this case after spending a while going out of your way to make things work with this guy you'll suddenly realise you want this freedom and no one will take it away from you ever again. Also, no, by the look of these cards it doesn't seem you have known him long Seems quite fresh and brewing, looks like you've just arrived into this situation. What is not awesome is the absence of cups - which may be why you are sensing this relationship is about learning about life/yourself/love/whatevs and asked this Q in the first placeEmpressMendezBy the look of those cards, yes to me I had the impression that they did know each other previously - nothing about these cards scream fresh to me.Twitter, I don't see you learning anything significant about this relationship. There seems to be a lack of effort, communication and commitment overall. Twirl quote:Originally posted by andstuff:8 pents is about work as you might know. You have moved on to a new phase where you have to learn about making efforts towards making things work. Maybe moving on [from something] was a huge step too? However, as you get better at making adjustments and compromising, you might get too carried away, too willing to take things on board, too willing to adapt. Eventually you should realise it doesn't matter, you are a free agent, in a more chaotic good vein. You will understand how to be in relationships without adjusting too much, without warping yourself. You will only get involved with individuals whose needs do not clash with your freedom and they'll have to take it or leave it. Maybe this freedom is also something you do not quite understand? In this case after spending a while going out of your way to make things work with this guy you'll suddenly realise you want this freedom and no one will take it away from you ever again. Also, no, by the look of these cards it doesn't seem you have known him long Seems quite fresh and brewing, looks like you've just arrived into this situation. What is not awesome is the absence of cups - which may be why you are sensing this relationship is about learning about life/yourself/love/whatevs and asked this Q in the first place^ I agree very much with what the others already said Especially the making adjustments in compromising between two people (you & love interest). And probably also the balancing between your daily life & love more (not diving in full blow) For me this feels like a new/fresh approach for you in regards to love. Bye Twitterbird05 quote:Originally posted by andstuff:8 pents is about work as you might know. You have moved on to a new phase where you have to learn about making efforts towards making things work. Maybe moving on [from something] was a huge step too? However, as you get better at making adjustments and compromising, you might get too carried away, too willing to take things on board, too willing to adapt. Eventually you should realise it doesn't matter, you are a free agent, in a more chaotic good vein. You will understand how to be in relationships without adjusting too much, without warping yourself. You will only get involved with individuals whose needs do not clash with your freedom and they'll have to take it or leave it. Maybe this freedom is also something you do not quite understand? In this case after spending a while going out of your way to make things work with this guy you'll suddenly realise you want this freedom and no one will take it away from you ever again. Also, no, by the look of these cards it doesn't seem you have known him long Seems quite fresh and brewing, looks like you've just arrived into this situation. What is not awesome is the absence of cups - which may be why you are sensing this relationship is about learning about life/yourself/love/whatevs and asked this Q in the first placeI think this is pretty darn accurate. I've already been having issues with arranging my life around him and feeling like I'm putting too much into it. I feel like I am also leaving past patterns behind in a healthy way because I usually don't even let someone get this close to me. But I also know I can't lose myself in it. I am a very independent person, and you're right, I don't completely understand my own will/agency. I'm not sure the spread means indecision or lack of effort, just that there is a lot that I can learn from this situation and it's not going to be straightforward or easy.Thanks @Twirl, @andstuff and @Empress. Helpful as always.
Q: What is the significance of this relationship (with the guy I am seeing) in my life?
Past: Six of SwordsPresent: Eight of PentaclesFuture: Two of Pentacles
Thoughts?
Hope someone else has a more positive spin on things. Good luck!!
However, as you get better at making adjustments and compromising, you might get too carried away, too willing to take things on board, too willing to adapt. Eventually you should realise it doesn't matter, you are a free agent, in a more chaotic good vein. You will understand how to be in relationships without adjusting too much, without warping yourself. You will only get involved with individuals whose needs do not clash with your freedom and they'll have to take it or leave it. Maybe this freedom is also something you do not quite understand? In this case after spending a while going out of your way to make things work with this guy you'll suddenly realise you want this freedom and no one will take it away from you ever again.
Also, no, by the look of these cards it doesn't seem you have known him long Seems quite fresh and brewing, looks like you've just arrived into this situation.
What is not awesome is the absence of cups - which may be why you are sensing this relationship is about learning about life/yourself/love/whatevs and asked this Q in the first place
Twitter, I don't see you learning anything significant about this relationship. There seems to be a lack of effort, communication and commitment overall.
quote:Originally posted by andstuff:8 pents is about work as you might know. You have moved on to a new phase where you have to learn about making efforts towards making things work. Maybe moving on [from something] was a huge step too? However, as you get better at making adjustments and compromising, you might get too carried away, too willing to take things on board, too willing to adapt. Eventually you should realise it doesn't matter, you are a free agent, in a more chaotic good vein. You will understand how to be in relationships without adjusting too much, without warping yourself. You will only get involved with individuals whose needs do not clash with your freedom and they'll have to take it or leave it. Maybe this freedom is also something you do not quite understand? In this case after spending a while going out of your way to make things work with this guy you'll suddenly realise you want this freedom and no one will take it away from you ever again. Also, no, by the look of these cards it doesn't seem you have known him long Seems quite fresh and brewing, looks like you've just arrived into this situation. What is not awesome is the absence of cups - which may be why you are sensing this relationship is about learning about life/yourself/love/whatevs and asked this Q in the first place
^ I agree very much with what the others already said Especially the making adjustments in compromising between two people (you & love interest). And probably also the balancing between your daily life & love more (not diving in full blow) For me this feels like a new/fresh approach for you in regards to love. Bye
I think this is pretty darn accurate. I've already been having issues with arranging my life around him and feeling like I'm putting too much into it. I feel like I am also leaving past patterns behind in a healthy way because I usually don't even let someone get this close to me. But I also know I can't lose myself in it.
I am a very independent person, and you're right, I don't completely understand my own will/agency. I'm not sure the spread means indecision or lack of effort, just that there is a lot that I can learn from this situation and it's not going to be straightforward or easy.
Thanks @Twirl, @andstuff and @Empress. Helpful as always.
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