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T O P I C R E V I E Wsweet-scorpionI need someone to pull cards for me, preferably oracle cards but tarot is ok, about a relationship that's bothering me. In exchange I will do a reading for your question. I'm a great reader but my energies are scattered about this particular person. I'm interested in a guy, long distance, who hasn't talked to me via the internet for over a week. It's driving me mad because I felt like we had a lot of chemistry, I feel really connected to him not only sexually but on an emotional level. Basically my two questions are1. Could a relationship ever work out or should I forget it?And 2. WHY hasn't he talked to me in over a week, did /I/ do something wrong? I will do 1-3 questions for you in return, about whatever! Thanks for the help. If multiple people respond I can do up to 3 readings by tomorrow morning. XOX------------------"Perfect love casts out fear."-Anthony de MellofilleaspirantHey, sweet-scorpion, why don't you draw a horary chart? There's a lot that can be extracted out of it too...I could try reading it for you sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Hey, sweet-scorpion, why don't you draw a horary chart? There's a lot that can be extracted out of it too...I could try reading it for you hey hun, thanks for offering to help!! i have never really worked w/ horary before, would you be willing to help me? how do i do it? thanks <3filleaspirantHey!Horary is pretty simple, like drawing a natal chart... It's advised to do it only once, at the time you felt you couldn't stand not knowing the answer to your question...You should go to astro.com and draw, in the extended charts, an event chart (exactly alike to a natal chart, you just click on event instead of the female/male). It's up to you whether you use the time you'll draw the chart or the time you posted your message on this board, but I think it'd be better to use the one on here. Anyhow, copy and paste the chart here and I'll get around to read it.You should phrase your question in an affirmative way, like "does he want to see me?" And we can go from there and see what the chart says for reasons SilverFeatherI agree, Horary is much clearer in its answer than Tarot, tarot is vague and can be read from many different angles.Ask Hera, she's the expert of Horary in LL.sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Hey!Horary is pretty simple, like drawing a natal chart... It's advised to do it only once, at the time you felt you couldn't stand not knowing the answer to your question...You should go to astro.com and draw, in the extended charts, an event chart (exactly alike to a natal chart, you just click on event instead of the female/male). It's up to you whether you use the time you'll draw the chart or the time you posted your message on this board, but I think it'd be better to use the one on here. Anyhow, copy and paste the chart here and I'll get around to read it.You should phrase your question in an affirmative way, like "does he want to see me?" And we can go from there and see what the chart says for reasons we cant see each other b/c that's impossible right now so i phrased the question in a similar way. i used yesterday since my emotions were much stronger at that particular time... now ive kind of numbed myself to it. thank you so much again. <3 this means a lot to me, since my energies are scattered about the whole thing and if it is worth it - why he hasnt contacted me. its like, did i do something wrong? im not sure. i feel emotionally wounded.the question was phrased as "does he still care about me?" sweet-scorpioni put 8:13 into the chart by mistake. uranus should be in house 11 i suppose since the real time was 8:18. everything else remained the same. :')sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by SilverFeather:I agree, Horary is much clearer in its answer than Tarot, tarot is vague and can be read from many different angles.Ask Hera, she's the expert of Horary in LL.true, i feel this may work. thanks! maybe i can ask hera as well.filleaspirantYeah, I'm nowhere near Hera's level, so hopefully she can give her imput Could you post the grid for the aspects? I can see Venus squaring Mars (your and his significator, respectively) but I can't tell the degree of the orb...sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Yeah, I'm nowhere near Hera's level, so hopefully she can give her imput Could you post the grid for the aspects? I can see Venus squaring Mars (your and his significator, respectively) but I can't tell the degree of the orb...ok! sure thing <3 here is the rest of the chart: filleaspirantOk, here we go. Please, keep in mind that I'm still learning, so if I get anything wrong, let me know. You're Venus, he's Mars. You're both squaring by 6º and in angular houses, which implies your last meeting was six, now seven, days ago.You're in Sagittarius. You're avid for answers and ready to act if need be. You're dignified by term and you're in his first house, so he's very attracted to you. He's also the faster of the planets, so I'd say he's more keen on you than he might've let on.He's in Leo. Is he proud, fun and creative? This suggests he is. But Leo's also self-centered at times. He's dignified by term and in your 4th house, so I'd say you feel very comfortable with him, like you've know him intimately all your life, and you really like him.But remember, the square means obstacles, so you'll both have to overcome them to keep a relationship at the moment.Now, why did he vanish? He's opposing Neptune. I'd interpret this as a fear to go after what he really wants (you), or that he isn't sure what he wants or even that he's not feeling very confident right now.But, good news! He's trining Moon, which is your co-significator and holds the story behind the question. I'd say he's going to contact you in six (now five) days.I think I can answer one of your questions, but it's not as clear as you might've liked: he's keeping his distance to see what he wants out of this relationship. It's likely he sees you having a very fairy-tale-ish, even fantasized relationship, and he's trying to come to terms to what he really feels about you and what he's going to do about it.I think this relationship will work, but you have to be patient and wait for his answer, instead of charging in and tearing it out of him.Again, let me know if any (or nothing ) resonated to you!sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Ok, here we go. Please, keep in mind that I'm still learning, so if I get anything wrong, let me know. You're Venus, he's Mars. You're both squaring by 6º and in angular houses, which implies your last meeting was six, now seven, days ago.You're in Sagittarius. You're avid for answers and ready to act if need be. You're dignified by term and you're in his first house, so he's very attracted to you. He's also the faster of the planets, so I'd say he's more keen on you than he might've let on.He's in Leo. Is he proud, fun and creative? This suggests he is. But Leo's also self-centered at times. He's dignified by term and in your 4th house, so I'd say you feel very comfortable with him, like you've know him intimately all your life, and you really like him.But remember, the square means obstacles, so you'll both have to overcome them to keep a relationship at the moment.Now, why did he vanish? He's opposing Neptune. I'd interpret this as a fear to go after what he really wants (you), or that he isn't sure what he wants or even that he's not feeling very confident right now.But, good news! He's trining Moon, which is your co-significator and holds the story behind the question. I'd say he's going to contact you in six (now five) days.I think I can answer one of your questions, but it's not as clear as you might've liked: he's keeping his distance to see what he wants out of this relationship. It's likely he sees you having a very fairy-tale-ish, even fantasized relationship, and he's trying to come to terms to what he really feels about you and what he's going to do about it.I think this relationship will work, but you have to be patient and wait for his answer, instead of charging in and tearing it out of him.Again, let me know if any (or nothing ) resonated to you!thank you so much! <3 this was quite accurate, good job. it did resonate with me and i appreciate you taking the time to help, it means a lot. it brought me a real peace of mind when i read over it. yes, from the time you posted yesterday it'd been about 1 week since i had contacted him, i havent messaged him since. we'd talked one on one about one or two days before that. im very relieved to hear that he may be more attracted to me than he has let on, maybe he just isnt sure like me on what to do b/c we live in two different countries. its been a struggle since i do feel so genuinely connected to him like fate brought us together but we're so far away. </3 its like we can both tell how strong the 'pull' is in both a sexual and spiritual/emotional way [which is rare for me to have both] and its like... should we act on it or not, because we are so far away? i wanna be honest and say i have an open heart, i would even go to him if i could and be with him if i had to travel [like to visit initially] but i dont wanna come on too strong about anything. its interesting b/c he is a sagittarius sun so i think its a good thing that venus was in sagittarius, maybe it shows how deeply we are connected. i feel the fun, creative, proud thing could very well be true, he seems like he could be that way - he's very sweet and open minded, he's a wonderful guy. the fact that mars opp. neptune here just kinda tells me what i'd been guessing, that life and prob. his job is pulling him under which sucks. maybe also he just isnt sure of what to do or say about the whole thing or where to go from here. should i soon be very honest about how i feel on our connection or would it creep him out? i agree i shouldnt tear anything out of him either! its awesome that mars trined my co-significator to show we'll likely be in contact in the next week which gives me hope. thanks again <3filleaspirantGlad to be of help, hon! quote:i wanna be honest and say i have an open heart, i would even go to him if i could and be with him if i had to travel [like to visit initially]That's you in Sagittarius indeed. I don't really think it has to do with it being his Sun sign, but more to do with how you feel right now. quote:should i soon be very honest about how i feel on our connection or would it creep him out? i agree i shouldnt tear anything out of him either!I'd honestly wait for him to contact you. I know you want things to change (what with you trining Uranus), especially because you're squaring Neptune and feels like this is the relationship, but you should really let him work out his own things. If things go as planned, he's going to contact you on Tuesday, Wedsneday at the latest. And things will go on smoothly, according to that trine. Good luck!Could you please let me know if things turn out or not the way I said??? It'll be much appreciated sweet-scorpion quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:That's you in Sagittarius indeed. I don't really think it has to do with it being his Sun sign, but more to do with how you feel right now. I'd honestly wait for him to contact you. I know you want things to change (what with you trining Uranus), especially because you're squaring Neptune and feels like this is the relationship, but you should really let him work out his own things. If things go as planned, he's going to contact you on Tuesday, Wedsneday at the latest. And things will go on smoothly, according to that trine. Good luck!Could you please let me know if things turn out or not the way I said??? It'll be much appreciated this all makes sense. i see what you mean about the sagittarius venus being me wanting to be open and honest about how i feel. maybe the neptune square is making me feel emotional and like the whole thing is fated... i think i will wait, and take your advice. everything you've said has been calming and truthful. i'll definitely let you know about what happens. <3filleaspirantHey, sweet-scorpion!How are things now? Did he get in touch with you?
I'm interested in a guy, long distance, who hasn't talked to me via the internet for over a week. It's driving me mad because I felt like we had a lot of chemistry, I feel really connected to him not only sexually but on an emotional level. Basically my two questions are
1. Could a relationship ever work out or should I forget it?And 2. WHY hasn't he talked to me in over a week, did /I/ do something wrong?
I will do 1-3 questions for you in return, about whatever! Thanks for the help. If multiple people respond I can do up to 3 readings by tomorrow morning.
XOX
------------------"Perfect love casts out fear."-Anthony de Mello
I could try reading it for you
quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Hey, sweet-scorpion, why don't you draw a horary chart? There's a lot that can be extracted out of it too...I could try reading it for you
hey hun, thanks for offering to help!! i have never really worked w/ horary before, would you be willing to help me? how do i do it? thanks <3
Horary is pretty simple, like drawing a natal chart... It's advised to do it only once, at the time you felt you couldn't stand not knowing the answer to your question...
You should go to astro.com and draw, in the extended charts, an event chart (exactly alike to a natal chart, you just click on event instead of the female/male). It's up to you whether you use the time you'll draw the chart or the time you posted your message on this board, but I think it'd be better to use the one on here. Anyhow, copy and paste the chart here and I'll get around to read it.
You should phrase your question in an affirmative way, like "does he want to see me?" And we can go from there and see what the chart says for reasons
quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Hey!Horary is pretty simple, like drawing a natal chart... It's advised to do it only once, at the time you felt you couldn't stand not knowing the answer to your question...You should go to astro.com and draw, in the extended charts, an event chart (exactly alike to a natal chart, you just click on event instead of the female/male). It's up to you whether you use the time you'll draw the chart or the time you posted your message on this board, but I think it'd be better to use the one on here. Anyhow, copy and paste the chart here and I'll get around to read it.You should phrase your question in an affirmative way, like "does he want to see me?" And we can go from there and see what the chart says for reasons
we cant see each other b/c that's impossible right now so i phrased the question in a similar way. i used yesterday since my emotions were much stronger at that particular time... now ive kind of numbed myself to it.
thank you so much again. <3 this means a lot to me, since my energies are scattered about the whole thing and if it is worth it - why he hasnt contacted me. its like, did i do something wrong? im not sure. i feel emotionally wounded.
the question was phrased as "does he still care about me?"
quote:Originally posted by SilverFeather:I agree, Horary is much clearer in its answer than Tarot, tarot is vague and can be read from many different angles.Ask Hera, she's the expert of Horary in LL.
true, i feel this may work. thanks! maybe i can ask hera as well.
Could you post the grid for the aspects? I can see Venus squaring Mars (your and his significator, respectively) but I can't tell the degree of the orb...
quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Yeah, I'm nowhere near Hera's level, so hopefully she can give her imput Could you post the grid for the aspects? I can see Venus squaring Mars (your and his significator, respectively) but I can't tell the degree of the orb...
ok! sure thing <3 here is the rest of the chart:
You're Venus, he's Mars. You're both squaring by 6º and in angular houses, which implies your last meeting was six, now seven, days ago.
You're in Sagittarius. You're avid for answers and ready to act if need be. You're dignified by term and you're in his first house, so he's very attracted to you. He's also the faster of the planets, so I'd say he's more keen on you than he might've let on.
He's in Leo. Is he proud, fun and creative? This suggests he is. But Leo's also self-centered at times. He's dignified by term and in your 4th house, so I'd say you feel very comfortable with him, like you've know him intimately all your life, and you really like him.
But remember, the square means obstacles, so you'll both have to overcome them to keep a relationship at the moment.
Now, why did he vanish? He's opposing Neptune. I'd interpret this as a fear to go after what he really wants (you), or that he isn't sure what he wants or even that he's not feeling very confident right now.
But, good news! He's trining Moon, which is your co-significator and holds the story behind the question. I'd say he's going to contact you in six (now five) days.
I think I can answer one of your questions, but it's not as clear as you might've liked: he's keeping his distance to see what he wants out of this relationship. It's likely he sees you having a very fairy-tale-ish, even fantasized relationship, and he's trying to come to terms to what he really feels about you and what he's going to do about it.
I think this relationship will work, but you have to be patient and wait for his answer, instead of charging in and tearing it out of him.
Again, let me know if any (or nothing ) resonated to you!
quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:Ok, here we go. Please, keep in mind that I'm still learning, so if I get anything wrong, let me know. You're Venus, he's Mars. You're both squaring by 6º and in angular houses, which implies your last meeting was six, now seven, days ago.You're in Sagittarius. You're avid for answers and ready to act if need be. You're dignified by term and you're in his first house, so he's very attracted to you. He's also the faster of the planets, so I'd say he's more keen on you than he might've let on.He's in Leo. Is he proud, fun and creative? This suggests he is. But Leo's also self-centered at times. He's dignified by term and in your 4th house, so I'd say you feel very comfortable with him, like you've know him intimately all your life, and you really like him.But remember, the square means obstacles, so you'll both have to overcome them to keep a relationship at the moment.Now, why did he vanish? He's opposing Neptune. I'd interpret this as a fear to go after what he really wants (you), or that he isn't sure what he wants or even that he's not feeling very confident right now.But, good news! He's trining Moon, which is your co-significator and holds the story behind the question. I'd say he's going to contact you in six (now five) days.I think I can answer one of your questions, but it's not as clear as you might've liked: he's keeping his distance to see what he wants out of this relationship. It's likely he sees you having a very fairy-tale-ish, even fantasized relationship, and he's trying to come to terms to what he really feels about you and what he's going to do about it.I think this relationship will work, but you have to be patient and wait for his answer, instead of charging in and tearing it out of him.Again, let me know if any (or nothing ) resonated to you!
thank you so much! <3 this was quite accurate, good job. it did resonate with me and i appreciate you taking the time to help, it means a lot. it brought me a real peace of mind when i read over it.
yes, from the time you posted yesterday it'd been about 1 week since i had contacted him, i havent messaged him since. we'd talked one on one about one or two days before that.
im very relieved to hear that he may be more attracted to me than he has let on, maybe he just isnt sure like me on what to do b/c we live in two different countries. its been a struggle since i do feel so genuinely connected to him like fate brought us together but we're so far away. </3 its like we can both tell how strong the 'pull' is in both a sexual and spiritual/emotional way [which is rare for me to have both] and its like... should we act on it or not, because we are so far away? i wanna be honest and say i have an open heart, i would even go to him if i could and be with him if i had to travel [like to visit initially] but i dont wanna come on too strong about anything.
its interesting b/c he is a sagittarius sun so i think its a good thing that venus was in sagittarius, maybe it shows how deeply we are connected. i feel the fun, creative, proud thing could very well be true, he seems like he could be that way - he's very sweet and open minded, he's a wonderful guy. the fact that mars opp. neptune here just kinda tells me what i'd been guessing, that life and prob. his job is pulling him under which sucks. maybe also he just isnt sure of what to do or say about the whole thing or where to go from here. should i soon be very honest about how i feel on our connection or would it creep him out? i agree i shouldnt tear anything out of him either!
its awesome that mars trined my co-significator to show we'll likely be in contact in the next week which gives me hope.
thanks again <3
quote:i wanna be honest and say i have an open heart, i would even go to him if i could and be with him if i had to travel [like to visit initially]
quote:should i soon be very honest about how i feel on our connection or would it creep him out? i agree i shouldnt tear anything out of him either!
If things go as planned, he's going to contact you on Tuesday, Wedsneday at the latest. And things will go on smoothly, according to that trine.
Good luck!
Could you please let me know if things turn out or not the way I said??? It'll be much appreciated
quote:Originally posted by filleaspirant:That's you in Sagittarius indeed. I don't really think it has to do with it being his Sun sign, but more to do with how you feel right now. I'd honestly wait for him to contact you. I know you want things to change (what with you trining Uranus), especially because you're squaring Neptune and feels like this is the relationship, but you should really let him work out his own things. If things go as planned, he's going to contact you on Tuesday, Wedsneday at the latest. And things will go on smoothly, according to that trine. Good luck!Could you please let me know if things turn out or not the way I said??? It'll be much appreciated
I'd honestly wait for him to contact you. I know you want things to change (what with you trining Uranus), especially because you're squaring Neptune and feels like this is the relationship, but you should really let him work out his own things.
this all makes sense. i see what you mean about the sagittarius venus being me wanting to be open and honest about how i feel. maybe the neptune square is making me feel emotional and like the whole thing is fated... i think i will wait, and take your advice. everything you've said has been calming and truthful. i'll definitely let you know about what happens. <3
How are things now? Did he get in touch with you?
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