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T O P I C R E V I E WLoadedPistil...as we were saying...@moonstruck87 What is M thinking about "us" while we're apart? What will be his intentions when he comes back?------------------Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ RisingSvātī NakshatraLostTaurusWow... :/LP, care to take a stab at this?:Thanks dear. If you don't mind, just pull a few cards and see if you can get a feel for this:Originally posted by LostTaurus:Lol...no worries honey, its not nearly as serious as all that - at least for my part. No, I mainly ask because I get the sense that he developed some feelings that maybe he didn't expect (or maybe doesn't know how to feel about?) so he's going to every effort in the world to "disprove" (?) them?I know just how incredibly weird and ridiculous that must sound (it does to me, trust me), but I can feel that I pop into his mind fairly frequently, and then he gets irritated at himself (and me!)because he thinks about me...what the hell is that?! Either that, or he is intentionally messing with me psychically. I definitely hope it's not the latter, because that would make him a MAJOR creep!moonstruck87Idk why we got shut down? I feel bad nowmoonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil:What is M thinking about "us" while we're apart? What will be his intentions when he comes back?Hey! Thanks for your patience- I had to get my little man to sleepI pulled five of cups, the emperor rx, nine of swords These cards all have to do with anxiety/loss. Where is M? Did he not want to go? Five of Cups is Emotional Disappointment. The emperor rx is ego/immaturity. Be careful because the ego mixed with emotions over logic is not a good combination.Nine of swords surprised me bc this is a very harsh card. Did your farewell end badly? This card's image always gets to me - you can see the pain and mental anguish As for your question about his intentions when he gets back - quite a sunnier spread...Knight of wands - energy, unexpected event, spontaneous, He will feel confident and on top of the world Nine of wands - he's been hurt but he's not down. He will be feeling strong and perservere. He will keep going no matter what.The hierophant - his intentions won't be selfish, I think this is a good sign because it indicates shared feelings/blending, harmonyPlease comment! Those two spreads are vastly different :-O I'm feeling a little off tonight so I hope this resonates moonstruck87@LT - off to do the clarity spread(s) now! BRB!LoadedPistil quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87:Idk why we got shut down? I feel bad nowI don't. LostTaurus quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I don't. You are a li'l SPITFIRE Miss LP!! moonstruck87@LT I pulled one card & I think she speaks for herself here...The high priestess I think your intution is spot on about him...I feel she is showing you are a bit of a mystery to him and this may be what is irritating to him. I sense she also says he doesn't get the whole picture. He isn't understanding his feelings at this time.Hope this helps dearmoonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: You are a li'l SPITFIRE Miss LP!! hahahaha! You both crack me up I didn't get to see the whole original conversation going on in the other thread so I think I missed something & that's perfectly okay LostTaurusWow! I didn't really expect quite such a CLEAR message as that, but it'll work. I just hate to have bad energy with anybody, ya know?Do you have more qs? Either of you?moonstruck87@LP and @LTSooooo what you said about CTB is SPOT ON...like wow...you both described him in very accurate ways no one else hasSo if either of you (or both of you, whatever works) are up for it please pull cards for me for the following questionShould I pull away some (since he is at a comfortable / arrogant spot thinking he's done enough when clearly not!!!) How can I shake it up a bit...make him doubt that he's what I want without him backing off completely? I want to keep him interested but have him step up his game like 10x hahaI want to know how to really get to him without making him think I'm uninterested - I think you both get what I mean Thanks ladies! This has been fun! Keep the questions coming at me too if you'd likeLoadedPistil quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: Hey! Thanks for your patience- I had to get my little man to sleepI pulled five of cups, the emperor rx, nine of swords These cards all have to do with anxiety/loss. Where is M? Did he not want to go? Five of Cups is Emotional Disappointment. The emperor rx is ego/immaturity. Be careful because the ego mixed with emotions over logic is not a good combination.Nine of swords surprised me bc this is a very harsh card. Did your farewell end badly? This card's image always gets to me - you can see the pain and mental anguish As for your question about his intentions when he gets back - quite a sunnier spread...Knight of wands - energy, unexpected event, spontaneous, He will feel confident and on top of the world Nine of wands - he's been hurt but he's not down. He will be feeling strong and perservere. He will keep going no matter what.The hierophant - his intentions won't be selfish, I think this is a good sign because it indicates shared feelings/blending, harmonyPlease comment! Those two spreads are vastly different :-O I'm feeling a little off tonight so I hope this resonates Well, M didn't treat me how I need to be treated. The relationship between is delicate and I ask for very little from him. He feels what in asking for is too much but will promise it and not deliver after a few days of "trying". I contacted him and he didn't want to talk at the time, so I left it to him and won't chase him. He knows I won't let him sweep it under the rug, so he decided he wouldn't contact me for a while, which was the problem in the first place and has inherently made the situation worse and is probably scared because it's too far gone and now he doesn't know what to say. M never has to be away from me. He just had to come correct. ------------------Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ RisingSvātī NakshatraLostTaurusWOW O.O!!! I pulled 5/Clubs, 4/Diamonds, 2/Hearts... The 5/C & 2/H indicate that this is likely to be a SUBSTANTIAL relationship in the longrun! 4/D indicates that there will likely be delays in getting it there. 6/Diamonds as a clarifier tells me that, if this IS going to be a substantial relationship, you need to begin setting your boundaries of respect clearly now. So yes. Back off and make him at least meet you halfway. What's more, let him know CLEARLY when he does that you expect 100% from him, just as you're willing to give it.moonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus:WOW O.O!!! I pulled 5/Clubs, 4/Diamonds, 2/Hearts... The 5/C & 2/H indicate that this is likely to be a SUBSTANTIAL relationship in the longrun! 4/D indicates that there will likely be delays in getting it there. 6/Diamonds as a clarifier tells me that, if this IS going to be a substantial relationship, you need to begin setting your boundaries of respect clearly now. So yes. Back off and make him at least meet you halfway. What's more, let him know CLEARLY when he does that you expect 100% from him, just as you're willing to give it.Oh goodness. haha. I've definitely felt that this would turn into something substantial. I don't know what it is, just that "feeling"When I'm with him I can clearly see a normal type, domestic futureIt's natural But gosh yes it has been mentally frustrating for meI've been hurt and I over analyze EVERYTHING (words/actions/the whole bit!) I really have to separate myself from thinking of him sometimes. Thankfully, I am a pretty busy lady with work, my little man and always peeking in on here to do exchanges I really appreciate this read. It definitely resonates. I just have to step it up on my part too because setting boundaries/expectations has never been my forte and I know that's why I got walked on by my son's dadI'm afraid of it happening again yet I'm afraid to say something because I don't want to come across needy or demandingBut I do appreciate this reading and the one beforeI was so excited when I saw the High Priestess so I just stopped! But after I typed out the interpretation for you I also pulled the moon and judgement So you can take those cards & their interpretations however you like but I def think the high priestess said her piece!!moonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil: Well, M didn't treat me how I need to be treated. The relationship between is delicate and I ask for very little from him. He feels what in asking for is too much but will promise it and not deliver after a few days of "trying". I contacted him and he didn't want to talk at the time, so I left it to him and won't chase him. He knows I won't let him sweep it under the rug, so he decided he wouldn't contact me for a while, which was the problem in the first place and has inherently made the situation worse and is probably scared because it's too far gone and now he doesn't know what to say. M never has to be away from me. He just had to come correct. Well okay I feel better about the spread now...not better about your situation, but more about what I pulledThe cards don't lie, that's for sure...sometimes their message makes more sense for the querent than for meI got really puzzled thereI hope the 2nd reading about his intentions when he comes back resonated with you and that it comes about! LostTaurus quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: Oh goodness. haha. I've definitely felt that this would turn into something substantial. I don't know what it is, just that "feeling"When I'm with him I can clearly see a normal type, domestic futureIt's natural But gosh yes it has been mentally frustrating for meI've been hurt and I over analyze EVERYTHING (words/actions/the whole bit!) I really have to separate myself from thinking of him sometimes. Thankfully, I am a pretty busy lady with work, my little man and always peeking in on here to do exchanges I really appreciate this read. It definitely resonates. I just have to step it up on my part too because setting boundaries/expectations has never been my forte and I know that's why I got walked on by my son's dadI'm afraid of it happening again yet I'm afraid to say something because I don't want to come across needy or demandingBut I do appreciate this reading and the one beforeI was so excited when I saw the High Priestess so I just stopped! But after I typed out the interpretation for you I also pulled the moon and judgement So you can take those cards & their interpretations however you like but I def think the high priestess said her piece!!I can tell you, that 6/D is the one it all hinges on, and the one which urged me to tell you to start setting boundaries NOW because it is a card that portends marriage, but one with issues if they're not headed off at the pass. the 2/H portends marriage too. You deserve WAY better than a contentious marriage girl!As for the Moon? _And_ Judgment??? Wow....moonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: I can tell you, that 6/H is the one it all hinges on, and the one which urged me to tell you to start setting boundaries NOW because it is a card that portends marriage, but one with issues if they're not headed off at the pass. You deserve WAY better than a contentious marriage girl!As for the Moon? _And_ Judgment??? Wow....I absolutely deserve better! I already had one ****** marriage :-O Bleh! But that's for another story time hahahaYES!! Those cards are all so strong & I used the full deck as always. Major messages there.The High Priestess and The moon happen to be my 2 favorites...maybe bc I'm a cancer...Idk LostTaurus quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: I absolutely deserve better! I already had one ****** marriage :-O Bleh! But that's for another story time hahahaYES!! Those cards are all so strong & I used the full deck as always. Major messages there.The High Priestess and The moon happen to be my 2 favorites...maybe bc I'm a cancer...Idk That's kinda cool, I REALLY didn't expect that!!moonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: That's kinda cool, I REALLY didn't expect that!!Well if you're happy, I'm happy! LostTaurus*giggle* Well, I am just going to let it 'play out' and see where the chips fall. The psychic game playing I've been feeling going on isn't really my bag - he knows I'm empathic, so I think a part of him may be doing this to be snarky which I hate - so I'm going to reserve judgment (HAHA..get it?? I so fun-ny!) for now, but I won't discard any possibilities either. Thanks for the fun tonight!!! moonstruck87 quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus:*giggle* Well, I am just going to let it 'play out' and see where the chips fall. The psychic game playing I've been feeling going on isn't really my bag - he knows I'm empathic, so I think a part of him may be doing this to be snarky which I hate - so I'm going to reserve judgment (HAHA..get it?? I so fun-ny!) for now, but I won't discard any possibilities either. Thanks for the fun tonight!!! Thanks to you and LP also!!!LoadedPistil😘😘😘😘😘------------------Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ RisingSvātī Nakshatra
@moonstruck87 What is M thinking about "us" while we're apart? What will be his intentions when he comes back?
------------------Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ RisingSvātī Nakshatra
LP, care to take a stab at this?:
Thanks dear. If you don't mind, just pull a few cards and see if you can get a feel for this:
Originally posted by LostTaurus:Lol...no worries honey, its not nearly as serious as all that - at least for my part. No, I mainly ask because I get the sense that he developed some feelings that maybe he didn't expect (or maybe doesn't know how to feel about?) so he's going to every effort in the world to "disprove" (?) them?
I know just how incredibly weird and ridiculous that must sound (it does to me, trust me), but I can feel that I pop into his mind fairly frequently, and then he gets irritated at himself (and me!)because he thinks about me...what the hell is that?! Either that, or he is intentionally messing with me psychically. I definitely hope it's not the latter, because that would make him a MAJOR creep!
I feel bad now
quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil:What is M thinking about "us" while we're apart? What will be his intentions when he comes back?
Hey! Thanks for your patience- I had to get my little man to sleep
I pulled five of cups, the emperor rx, nine of swords
These cards all have to do with anxiety/loss. Where is M? Did he not want to go? Five of Cups is Emotional Disappointment. The emperor rx is ego/immaturity. Be careful because the ego mixed with emotions over logic is not a good combination.Nine of swords surprised me bc this is a very harsh card. Did your farewell end badly? This card's image always gets to me - you can see the pain and mental anguish
As for your question about his intentions when he gets back - quite a sunnier spread...
Knight of wands - energy, unexpected event, spontaneous, He will feel confident and on top of the world Nine of wands - he's been hurt but he's not down. He will be feeling strong and perservere. He will keep going no matter what.The hierophant - his intentions won't be selfish, I think this is a good sign because it indicates shared feelings/blending, harmony
Please comment! Those two spreads are vastly different :-O I'm feeling a little off tonight so I hope this resonates
BRB!
quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87:Idk why we got shut down? I feel bad now
I don't.
quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I don't.
You are a li'l SPITFIRE Miss LP!!
The high priestess
I think your intution is spot on about him...I feel she is showing you are a bit of a mystery to him and this may be what is irritating to him. I sense she also says he doesn't get the whole picture. He isn't understanding his feelings at this time.
Hope this helps dear
quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: You are a li'l SPITFIRE Miss LP!!
hahahaha! You both crack me up
I didn't get to see the whole original conversation going on in the other thread so I think I missed something & that's perfectly okay
Do you have more qs? Either of you?
Sooooo what you said about CTB is SPOT ON...like wow...you both described him in very accurate ways no one else has
So if either of you (or both of you, whatever works) are up for it please pull cards for me for the following question
Should I pull away some (since he is at a comfortable / arrogant spot thinking he's done enough when clearly not!!!) How can I shake it up a bit...make him doubt that he's what I want without him backing off completely? I want to keep him interested but have him step up his game like 10x hahaI want to know how to really get to him without making him think I'm uninterested - I think you both get what I mean
Thanks ladies! This has been fun!
Keep the questions coming at me too if you'd like
quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: Hey! Thanks for your patience- I had to get my little man to sleepI pulled five of cups, the emperor rx, nine of swords These cards all have to do with anxiety/loss. Where is M? Did he not want to go? Five of Cups is Emotional Disappointment. The emperor rx is ego/immaturity. Be careful because the ego mixed with emotions over logic is not a good combination.Nine of swords surprised me bc this is a very harsh card. Did your farewell end badly? This card's image always gets to me - you can see the pain and mental anguish As for your question about his intentions when he gets back - quite a sunnier spread...Knight of wands - energy, unexpected event, spontaneous, He will feel confident and on top of the world Nine of wands - he's been hurt but he's not down. He will be feeling strong and perservere. He will keep going no matter what.The hierophant - his intentions won't be selfish, I think this is a good sign because it indicates shared feelings/blending, harmonyPlease comment! Those two spreads are vastly different :-O I'm feeling a little off tonight so I hope this resonates
Well, M didn't treat me how I need to be treated. The relationship between is delicate and I ask for very little from him. He feels what in asking for is too much but will promise it and not deliver after a few days of "trying". I contacted him and he didn't want to talk at the time, so I left it to him and won't chase him. He knows I won't let him sweep it under the rug, so he decided he wouldn't contact me for a while, which was the problem in the first place and has inherently made the situation worse and is probably scared because it's too far gone and now he doesn't know what to say. M never has to be away from me. He just had to come correct.
So yes. Back off and make him at least meet you halfway. What's more, let him know CLEARLY when he does that you expect 100% from him, just as you're willing to give it.
quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus:WOW O.O!!! I pulled 5/Clubs, 4/Diamonds, 2/Hearts... The 5/C & 2/H indicate that this is likely to be a SUBSTANTIAL relationship in the longrun! 4/D indicates that there will likely be delays in getting it there. 6/Diamonds as a clarifier tells me that, if this IS going to be a substantial relationship, you need to begin setting your boundaries of respect clearly now. So yes. Back off and make him at least meet you halfway. What's more, let him know CLEARLY when he does that you expect 100% from him, just as you're willing to give it.
Oh goodness. haha. I've definitely felt that this would turn into something substantial. I don't know what it is, just that "feeling"When I'm with him I can clearly see a normal type, domestic future
It's natural
But gosh yes it has been mentally frustrating for me
I've been hurt and I over analyze EVERYTHING (words/actions/the whole bit!)
I really have to separate myself from thinking of him sometimes. Thankfully, I am a pretty busy lady with work, my little man and always peeking in on here to do exchanges
I really appreciate this read. It definitely resonates. I just have to step it up on my part too because setting boundaries/expectations has never been my forte and I know that's why I got walked on by my son's dadI'm afraid of it happening again yet I'm afraid to say something because I don't want to come across needy or demanding
But I do appreciate this reading and the one before
I was so excited when I saw the High Priestess so I just stopped! But after I typed out the interpretation for you I also pulled the moon and judgement
So you can take those cards & their interpretations however you like but I def think the high priestess said her piece!!
quote:Originally posted by LoadedPistil: Well, M didn't treat me how I need to be treated. The relationship between is delicate and I ask for very little from him. He feels what in asking for is too much but will promise it and not deliver after a few days of "trying". I contacted him and he didn't want to talk at the time, so I left it to him and won't chase him. He knows I won't let him sweep it under the rug, so he decided he wouldn't contact me for a while, which was the problem in the first place and has inherently made the situation worse and is probably scared because it's too far gone and now he doesn't know what to say. M never has to be away from me. He just had to come correct.
Well okay I feel better about the spread now...not better about your situation, but more about what I pulled
The cards don't lie, that's for sure...sometimes their message makes more sense for the querent than for me
I got really puzzled there
I hope the 2nd reading about his intentions when he comes back resonated with you and that it comes about!
quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: Oh goodness. haha. I've definitely felt that this would turn into something substantial. I don't know what it is, just that "feeling"When I'm with him I can clearly see a normal type, domestic futureIt's natural But gosh yes it has been mentally frustrating for meI've been hurt and I over analyze EVERYTHING (words/actions/the whole bit!) I really have to separate myself from thinking of him sometimes. Thankfully, I am a pretty busy lady with work, my little man and always peeking in on here to do exchanges I really appreciate this read. It definitely resonates. I just have to step it up on my part too because setting boundaries/expectations has never been my forte and I know that's why I got walked on by my son's dadI'm afraid of it happening again yet I'm afraid to say something because I don't want to come across needy or demandingBut I do appreciate this reading and the one beforeI was so excited when I saw the High Priestess so I just stopped! But after I typed out the interpretation for you I also pulled the moon and judgement So you can take those cards & their interpretations however you like but I def think the high priestess said her piece!!
I can tell you, that 6/D is the one it all hinges on, and the one which urged me to tell you to start setting boundaries NOW because it is a card that portends marriage, but one with issues if they're not headed off at the pass. the 2/H portends marriage too. You deserve WAY better than a contentious marriage girl!
As for the Moon? _And_ Judgment??? Wow....
quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: I can tell you, that 6/H is the one it all hinges on, and the one which urged me to tell you to start setting boundaries NOW because it is a card that portends marriage, but one with issues if they're not headed off at the pass. You deserve WAY better than a contentious marriage girl!As for the Moon? _And_ Judgment??? Wow....
I absolutely deserve better! I already had one ****** marriage :-O Bleh! But that's for another story time hahaha
YES!! Those cards are all so strong & I used the full deck as always. Major messages there.
The High Priestess and The moon happen to be my 2 favorites...maybe bc I'm a cancer...Idk
quote:Originally posted by moonstruck87: I absolutely deserve better! I already had one ****** marriage :-O Bleh! But that's for another story time hahahaYES!! Those cards are all so strong & I used the full deck as always. Major messages there.The High Priestess and The moon happen to be my 2 favorites...maybe bc I'm a cancer...Idk
That's kinda cool, I REALLY didn't expect that!!
quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus: That's kinda cool, I REALLY didn't expect that!!
Well if you're happy, I'm happy!
quote:Originally posted by LostTaurus:*giggle* Well, I am just going to let it 'play out' and see where the chips fall. The psychic game playing I've been feeling going on isn't really my bag - he knows I'm empathic, so I think a part of him may be doing this to be snarky which I hate - so I'm going to reserve judgment (HAHA..get it?? I so fun-ny!) for now, but I won't discard any possibilities either. Thanks for the fun tonight!!!
Thanks to you and LP also!!!
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