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T O P I C R E V I E WintuitivefishHey there I was looking back and since we had a nice exchange before, would you want to do it again?SpritualjourneyHey! Sure, we can exchange some more. I can do it now for the next 30min then heading out but will be back later tonight.My question: What's going on in his head/how's he feeling about what I said last night? Was his apology related to this sincere?What's your Q?intuitivefish great !So my q - What are his ( A ) thoughts surrounding me right now? does he miss me, want to talk to me sort of thing? or anything of that sort for you I get - ( i dont use cards)I get that yes he knew he had to appologize but the way he said seems to me like he said more to get it out of the way rather than to make sure you feel it was from the heart.I feel in his head he is still a bit confused, not entirely wrapped his head around what you told him. He feels sort of like yes you two can move on from the issue but maybe he still has something to say but is holding back.He would like things to go back to light and no drama/problems. As he feels any "deep" talking, he is just not up to it. He does want to make things ok but just doesnt feel like talking it out. I feel he does respect you but is still in the "hmmm ok " stage where he isn't even sure himself.SpritualjourneyThank you! Your reading definitely resonates. Queen of clubs-potential girlfriendAce of heart-troubles lifting6 spades-discouragementknight of clubs- good friend/admirerFrom these I would say that A does see you as someone he potentially wants to be in a relationship with, but for some reason is hesitant. He does like you and I feel like he just needs a bit of time to decide what he wants to do.Do you want to keep going? How does he really feel about me? Where is our relationship headed in the next 2 months?intuitivefishIt makes sense Thanks !yes lets go on, why not Well he is my ex, and we had ups and downs and he is (not sure if still ) currently with someone so that would be probably why he is hesitating. For you - I do actually feel he does have feelings for you, I just feel he is well lazy about it. He would like you to do all the "work". Express yours so he can express his, talk about it so he feels more sure and safe to say what he feels and so on. I feel he would be sad if things ended as he does care about you and likes spending time with you, and likes your point of view in life, even if he might not agree with it. I feel you make him feel nice about himself and you boost up his confidence.But also, too much of the relationship is on you and he sort of just felt overly lazy about it.I feel the next 2 months need to be a rebuilding of trust and the bond you had when you started, I feel you need to recive more compassion and more fire. I feel you do need to guide him into what you want. I do sense a good positive flow will come, but slowly, it will not turn over night. Yes you might have a hick up here and there but I also feel these show you both care. And more work needs to be done. I do feel you are headed in a better direction a more " together" direction.MY Q - What outcome might come if I were to reach out and contact him? ( a simple Hi )would he ignore it or respond?and would it be a good decision , or would it make things "worse" i.e. would he take it as sign of some sort of weaknessSpritualjourneyThanks, very much resonates OK for you I asked what can you expect if you contacted him:4 hearts-indecisiveness 10 diamonds-improvements4 spades-small worries7 hearts-unreliable feelingsOK so based on the cards, it doesn't seem like it's a good idea to contact him, just because it doesn't seem like he's going to be receptive to it. He is already 'confused' and this will just add to it. I don't think you'll get a negative response from him, just not the immediate response you're hoping for.On another note, not related to card reading but more personal advice, should you chose to take it is don't worry/think about what HE wants and how he's going to react, listen to your heart and see what YOU want. Take some time for introspection and see why you want to contact him? Is it because you miss him, and you're lonely? Was your relationship that amazing that you truly feel he's worth 'fighting' for? If you feel that not contacting him is something you will regret down the road, then do it. If he 'rejects' you, well know that you are worthy and absolutely amazing and that someone who is better suited for you will come along. I need to step out now but can continue tonight if you'd like intuitivefishThank you.Yes, it makes sense.Well, he is just not some ordinary ex me and him have been in contact even when broken up, we just cannot seem to end it totally. and its not lonelyness, its a connection I havent had with any other man and I know from his side there is still that connection there...I feel contact needs to come soon to change the " up in the air " energy that surrounds us right now.He is known for sometimes ignoring some texts and replying when he feels the time is right.You just comfirmed by thoughts on this I'd love to continue when you come back I will leave another question for you.Can a mutual female friend ( initial is I ) be trusted in regards to the whole situation ? Would she try to steer me away for the other girl to have a better chance?SpritualjourneyJust quickly checking in on my phone, will be back tonight with your reading Glad the last one resonated.My next Q: What does J (male) want from me & where do you see our relationship going?intuitivefish quote:Originally posted by Spritualjourney:Just quickly checking in on my phone, will be back tonight with your reading Glad the last one resonated.My next Q: What does J (male) want from me & where do you see our relationship going?Well i actually feel very positive things from J, I feel he has stronger feelings than you thought. I feel he would like to give you gifts and show how he feels that way.I feel he would like to show you , but also that there might be another girl that likes him. I feel J didnt turn her off but is not so interested in her. He would be the sort of man to show with flowes and chocolate that he cares. I feel he would like to keep good contact with you and see more of you. He would like dates and special time with you only,not a group thing.I feel J is more open and more confident than other guys you were interested in, maybe even has more experience in relationships.SpritualjourneyWhat you've described is exactly what my feeling was about J. Except, I wasn't aware of another woman being interested in him. We are currently friends and live in different countries but I will be visiting in 2 months.OK for you, I pulled angel cards instead.Mystique-keeping charging ahead and don't take no for answerLet yourself receiveLeila-take time to meditateFrom these and my intuition I would say that regarding I, for the most part, yes you can trust her but to a certain extent. She doesn't have malicious intent, but may not necessarily be giving you the best advice/suggestions for you. Let yourself 'accept' her suggestions/advice BUT always listen to your gut as well. The guides are suggesting that meditation would be very beneficial for you and perhaps when you come across a moment of uncertainty, take some time to meditate and connect with your higher self.If you'd like to continue, my next Q, what do you see coming up for me in the next 2 months regarding love/romance? Thanks intuitivefishI am glad we have a good connection and that I resonate with you.In regarding love, for a bit more time I do not see something serious. I do see that you will continue to try with one man but only small steps will be happening. I still see you wanting more and the feeling of more fulfillment. I keep feeling you as not fully happy with the ones who surround you right now. You need someone to take charge and show you real romance and relationship.Sorry I do not see you commited to someone just yet. I can see you having fun and having men in your life, but I do see it still not at the stage you wish for it to be.I do see happiness in your life, and I can see you in a good relationship, but not just yet.- on the woman I saw around J, it may very well be just flirting or someone who he hangs out withMy Q - not sure what the situation is with A and the girl he is with so that is my question. Where are things now with A and the girl Ethanks SpritualjourneyFor A & E's relationship I got:Archangel Gabrielle- communicationTime to move onYvonne-I always interpret as needing loveSo I would say that their relationship is rocky & lacks communication and deep love. It seems like it's time to move on from this relationship for both of them, but I don't feel like any changes will happen in tje immefiate future.Ok, my last Q for tonight: When do you see me in that committed relationship & what will he be like?If you ever want to ask Q or exchange, you can also email me at spiritualjourney81...account is gmail intuitivefishI feel there might be a relationship for you around spring time, not too long. I feel that then is also when you will know exactly what you want and you will seek for only that, wont go any lower in what you want. I might say a committed relationship will start and be in the making then. I feel someone either your age or a bit younger ? but not years, more like months. Also I am not sure about this but lighter hair, light brown but not blonde.I feel this man will be a bit more mature in his way of acting, someone who will take care of you. I feel the start will be easier than previous starts you had, he will show his intentions straight, no wishy washy behaviour, you will know he likes you. (you will have no need for asking psychics lol ) I get this man will be very good for you and will help you heal things from your past. It wont all be rosy and easy, but I certainly feel it will be easier in the start then usually.Well thats it for tonight, I might just take you up on that offer but here or email is fine with me. SpritualjourneyThanks! It was really nice exchanging with you intuitivefishYou too I sent you an email lol( with this nick name ) in case it goes into spam
My question: What's going on in his head/how's he feeling about what I said last night? Was his apology related to this sincere?
What's your Q?
So my q - What are his ( A ) thoughts surrounding me right now? does he miss me, want to talk to me sort of thing? or anything of that sort
for you I get - ( i dont use cards)
I get that yes he knew he had to appologize but the way he said seems to me like he said more to get it out of the way rather than to make sure you feel it was from the heart.I feel in his head he is still a bit confused, not entirely wrapped his head around what you told him. He feels sort of like yes you two can move on from the issue but maybe he still has something to say but is holding back.He would like things to go back to light and no drama/problems. As he feels any "deep" talking, he is just not up to it. He does want to make things ok but just doesnt feel like talking it out. I feel he does respect you but is still in the "hmmm ok " stage where he isn't even sure himself.
From these I would say that A does see you as someone he potentially wants to be in a relationship with, but for some reason is hesitant. He does like you and I feel like he just needs a bit of time to decide what he wants to do.
Do you want to keep going? How does he really feel about me? Where is our relationship headed in the next 2 months?
Well he is my ex, and we had ups and downs and he is (not sure if still ) currently with someone so that would be probably why he is hesitating.
For you - I do actually feel he does have feelings for you, I just feel he is well lazy about it. He would like you to do all the "work". Express yours so he can express his, talk about it so he feels more sure and safe to say what he feels and so on. I feel he would be sad if things ended as he does care about you and likes spending time with you, and likes your point of view in life, even if he might not agree with it. I feel you make him feel nice about himself and you boost up his confidence.But also, too much of the relationship is on you and he sort of just felt overly lazy about it.I feel the next 2 months need to be a rebuilding of trust and the bond you had when you started, I feel you need to recive more compassion and more fire. I feel you do need to guide him into what you want. I do sense a good positive flow will come, but slowly, it will not turn over night. Yes you might have a hick up here and there but I also feel these show you both care. And more work needs to be done. I do feel you are headed in a better direction a more " together" direction.
MY Q - What outcome might come if I were to reach out and contact him? ( a simple Hi )would he ignore it or respond?and would it be a good decision , or would it make things "worse" i.e. would he take it as sign of some sort of weakness
OK for you I asked what can you expect if you contacted him:4 hearts-indecisiveness 10 diamonds-improvements4 spades-small worries7 hearts-unreliable feelings
OK so based on the cards, it doesn't seem like it's a good idea to contact him, just because it doesn't seem like he's going to be receptive to it. He is already 'confused' and this will just add to it. I don't think you'll get a negative response from him, just not the immediate response you're hoping for.
On another note, not related to card reading but more personal advice, should you chose to take it is don't worry/think about what HE wants and how he's going to react, listen to your heart and see what YOU want. Take some time for introspection and see why you want to contact him? Is it because you miss him, and you're lonely? Was your relationship that amazing that you truly feel he's worth 'fighting' for? If you feel that not contacting him is something you will regret down the road, then do it. If he 'rejects' you, well know that you are worthy and absolutely amazing and that someone who is better suited for you will come along.
I need to step out now but can continue tonight if you'd like
Well, he is just not some ordinary ex me and him have been in contact even when broken up, we just cannot seem to end it totally. and its not lonelyness, its a connection I havent had with any other man and I know from his side there is still that connection there...I feel contact needs to come soon to change the " up in the air " energy that surrounds us right now.He is known for sometimes ignoring some texts and replying when he feels the time is right.You just comfirmed by thoughts on this
I'd love to continue when you come back
I will leave another question for you.
Can a mutual female friend ( initial is I ) be trusted in regards to the whole situation ? Would she try to steer me away for the other girl to have a better chance?
My next Q: What does J (male) want from me & where do you see our relationship going?
quote:Originally posted by Spritualjourney:Just quickly checking in on my phone, will be back tonight with your reading Glad the last one resonated.My next Q: What does J (male) want from me & where do you see our relationship going?
Well i actually feel very positive things from J, I feel he has stronger feelings than you thought. I feel he would like to give you gifts and show how he feels that way.I feel he would like to show you , but also that there might be another girl that likes him. I feel J didnt turn her off but is not so interested in her. He would be the sort of man to show with flowes and chocolate that he cares. I feel he would like to keep good contact with you and see more of you. He would like dates and special time with you only,not a group thing.I feel J is more open and more confident than other guys you were interested in, maybe even has more experience in relationships.
OK for you, I pulled angel cards instead.Mystique-keeping charging ahead and don't take no for answerLet yourself receiveLeila-take time to meditate
From these and my intuition I would say that regarding I, for the most part, yes you can trust her but to a certain extent. She doesn't have malicious intent, but may not necessarily be giving you the best advice/suggestions for you. Let yourself 'accept' her suggestions/advice BUT always listen to your gut as well. The guides are suggesting that meditation would be very beneficial for you and perhaps when you come across a moment of uncertainty, take some time to meditate and connect with your higher self.
If you'd like to continue, my next Q, what do you see coming up for me in the next 2 months regarding love/romance? Thanks
In regarding love, for a bit more time I do not see something serious. I do see that you will continue to try with one man but only small steps will be happening. I still see you wanting more and the feeling of more fulfillment. I keep feeling you as not fully happy with the ones who surround you right now. You need someone to take charge and show you real romance and relationship.Sorry I do not see you commited to someone just yet. I can see you having fun and having men in your life, but I do see it still not at the stage you wish for it to be.I do see happiness in your life, and I can see you in a good relationship, but not just yet.
- on the woman I saw around J, it may very well be just flirting or someone who he hangs out with
My Q - not sure what the situation is with A and the girl he is with so that is my question. Where are things now with A and the girl E
thanks
So I would say that their relationship is rocky & lacks communication and deep love. It seems like it's time to move on from this relationship for both of them, but I don't feel like any changes will happen in tje immefiate future.
Ok, my last Q for tonight: When do you see me in that committed relationship & what will he be like?
If you ever want to ask Q or exchange, you can also email me at spiritualjourney81...account is gmail
Well thats it for tonight, I might just take you up on that offer but here or email is fine with me.
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