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T O P I C R E V I E WSpringtimeflowerHi Peaceful,Here's what I got:Looks like you haven't put much energy out there to meet that special person. You feel as though you won't meet that person, but only you can change your thoughts. Work seems to be taking center stage and a new offer will come, which in the end will be successful on a material level. You may also benefit from others financially at this time. All of this may not bring you the full joy you would like, since a partnership is what you feel you need. Don't let pessimism cloud your meeting that special someone. Set a goal and think about what it is you really would like (physical features, etc.) in the partner for you.Hope this helps,SpringpeacefulcloudsThanks spring, I do go out and have quite an active social life I travel quite a lot (business/personal) and never really have any problems making new acquaintances, however while sometimes I see interests, I can't force attraction from my side.It's because while you are right I would like a partnership, I know it's not necessarily what I 'need'. Despite approaching 30s, I don't have any pressure in me to have a family or get married, which is why it may be a bit hard for me to push myself to settle. Your reading of the work side of things is accurate, plus, I actually never have any problems career wise because I'm confident and absolutely trustful about my worth since I work for a personal cause. It's just my love-life is less solid, possibly because I don't have the 'cause' behind it. I'd like a partnership that would help both sides grow as a person, but may be that is too arbitrary of a 'vision'.thanks for your help Springtimeflower quote:Originally posted by peacefulclouds:Thanks spring, I do go out and have quite an active social life I travel quite a lot (business/personal) and never really have any problems making new acquaintances, however while sometimes I see interests, I can't force attraction from my side.It's because while you are right I would like a partnership, I know it's not necessarily what I 'need'. Despite approaching 30s, I don't have any pressure in me to have a family or get married, which is why it may be a bit hard for me to push myself to settle. Your reading of the work side of things is accurate, plus, I actually never have any problems career wise because I'm confident and absolutely trustful about my worth since I work for a personal cause. It's just my love-life is less solid, possibly because I don't have the 'cause' behind it. I'd like a partnership that would help both sides grow as a person, but may be that is too arbitrary of a 'vision'.thanks for your help You're welcome Peaceful. The "one" I've been writing to didn't pop up (or maybe I didn't see him) until after I made an actual goal to get married. Everything else kept me busy and paid the bills, but I hadn't put that out there. Just felt the need to share.Best wishes,Spring
Here's what I got:
Looks like you haven't put much energy out there to meet that special person. You feel as though you won't meet that person, but only you can change your thoughts.
Work seems to be taking center stage and a new offer will come, which in the end will be successful on a material level. You may also benefit from others financially at this time. All of this may not bring you the full joy you would like, since a partnership is what you feel you need. Don't let pessimism cloud your meeting that special someone. Set a goal and think about what it is you really would like (physical features, etc.) in the partner for you.
Hope this helps,Spring
It's because while you are right I would like a partnership, I know it's not necessarily what I 'need'. Despite approaching 30s, I don't have any pressure in me to have a family or get married, which is why it may be a bit hard for me to push myself to settle.
Your reading of the work side of things is accurate, plus, I actually never have any problems career wise because I'm confident and absolutely trustful about my worth since I work for a personal cause. It's just my love-life is less solid, possibly because I don't have the 'cause' behind it. I'd like a partnership that would help both sides grow as a person, but may be that is too arbitrary of a 'vision'.
thanks for your help
quote:Originally posted by peacefulclouds:Thanks spring, I do go out and have quite an active social life I travel quite a lot (business/personal) and never really have any problems making new acquaintances, however while sometimes I see interests, I can't force attraction from my side.It's because while you are right I would like a partnership, I know it's not necessarily what I 'need'. Despite approaching 30s, I don't have any pressure in me to have a family or get married, which is why it may be a bit hard for me to push myself to settle. Your reading of the work side of things is accurate, plus, I actually never have any problems career wise because I'm confident and absolutely trustful about my worth since I work for a personal cause. It's just my love-life is less solid, possibly because I don't have the 'cause' behind it. I'd like a partnership that would help both sides grow as a person, but may be that is too arbitrary of a 'vision'.thanks for your help
You're welcome Peaceful. The "one" I've been writing to didn't pop up (or maybe I didn't see him) until after I made an actual goal to get married. Everything else kept me busy and paid the bills, but I hadn't put that out there. Just felt the need to share.
Best wishes,Spring
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