Lol I dont even know where this popularity comes from but I am glad if I help atleast 1 person.I first want to tell you, that fighting in relationships (family,love and work) has been a prominant topic this month, I do think there is something going on with the energy that is pushing people to face their problems and stop pushing them aside.
I dont see this fight you had as a downward spirall I see it actually as just that, problems from the past that are rising again, maybe only masked up into new problems but them stem from the past. I do see you will make up, but that also there will need to be some good talking, which I mean is when the heat is off and when ego is off. I do feel that it might have to come from you and he will follow your lead but make sure that you dont start a blame game but try and resolve the issues at hand.
I do see light at the end of the tunnel and do see you work through it.