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dustib | Would you care to exchange? I just a text to ML and told him I was done with his games. Can you tell me how he feels about that and is it done between us? Thanks |
LostTaurus | Hi dustib. I get the sense he's...perplexed. Is/was he aware your feelings were maybe a bit more intense/invested than his? |
dustib | Yes he was aware of this. What do you see happening... if anything? |
LostTaurus | Honestly, I see you walking away. While I don't feel like he's intentionally 'playing games', I also don't feel like he's ready to invest on the same level you are. However, he feels like a young man who does like you, so he's content to 'let things roll' while he can. Does this resonate? |
dustib | It does resonate...while I do like him, I was in no way ready to jump into anything and that is the frustrating part of it all. I just want to spend some time with him and see what may or may not happen but yes I feel you are correct. Will he ever try to come back into my life? |
LostTaurus | quote: Originally posted by dustib: It does resonate...while I do like him, I was in no way ready to jump into anything and that is the frustrating part of it all. I just want to spend some time with him and see what may or may not happen but yes I feel you are correct. Will he ever try to come back into my life?
Believe it or not? I have a sense he will. Won't be soon at all, but I don't think you've seen or heard the last of him. (...and yes I really would tell you if I felt he wouldn't)
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LostTaurus | I don't think you and I have ever exchanged before, have we dustib? |
dustib | I think we did exchange before. I use Lemonade if you have any questions. |
LostTaurus | Hmmm... then your energy is very different than when we have before. Don't let this get you down. It's not a matter of him devaluing you in any way at all, I promise - just a matter of his not being ready to step into that space that you've prepared (if that makes sense?). It would appear that I am 0 for 2 for the only question that I have at the moment, so I'll take that as a sign that I'm just not supposed to know Rain check? |
dustib | Absolutely! I'm here whenever you have one. Can I ask 1 last question... when he comes back will it be for a relationship? Thank you again |
LostTaurus | quote: Originally posted by dustib: Absolutely! I'm here whenever you have one. Can I ask 1 last question... when he comes back will it be for a relationship? Thank you again
When he comes back, it will be with a more sincere intent, yes. But (and please let me stress this) I don't see this for quite some time, so please don't 'wait' for it or hold your life up. Other things have to happen for you both first. |
dustib | He actually did text me last night after the text I sent to him and told me he would see me this week. Not holding my breath...and am meeting someone new tonight so hoping that goes well. |
LostTaurus | quote: Originally posted by dustib: He actually did text me last night after the text I sent to him and told me he would see me this week. Not holding my breath...and am meeting someone new tonight so hoping that goes well.
Eh...this attempt is different. Not insincere, but casual. He wants to salvage the connection, but he's not ready for what you want with him. The "someone new" tonight will be a decent distraction for a little bit anyway. |
dustib | thanks! yes that is how I see this guy tonight....for some reason I'm drawn to ML and it's frustrating since it is 1 sided. LOL |