You don't see us ever getting married? That's rough. I'm 27 and he's 34. He acts more like he's in his mid-twenties. I look a little younger. Always getting "looks" for taking a baby out. He's always prioritizing recreational baseball l, video games and other sports over helping me with our baby. I want him to have a life other than being a father but I just feel like he overdoes. Like I've been alone with her all day and he's already home from work but is going to go to the batting cages. It's always something like that. We don't live together but he comes over frequently but I never know when I'm going to get help and god forbid I get pushy with wanting to know bc our whole relationship then sprials into the gutter.
He still lives with his parents. "Eventually" will move in with my daughter and I. I don't think he's cheating or being shady like that but it's frustrating bc I put up with so much just bc I think he's loyal. And my daughters father now.
I'm sure he feels burdened. I know I do. I work 46-50 hour weeks and generally take care of my daughter by myself whenever I'm not working. Always trying to keep him interested, tone down my personality, and keep things together. I had to take a vacation week off work just to catch up with stuff around my place for babyproofing.
I wish I knew if all this with him was going to pay off because I really am overwhelmed not having a more supportive partner.
Him and I have been on/off and we were completely done in February. I actually started to talk to someone else and he was very serious about me. When I let my now boyfriend know, he turned around and confessed all his love, said he wanted to live together and get married, be a family. But now I feel like those feelings wore off. And I might have missed out on someone who really liked me and wanted to make my life easier, have more kids etc.