i'm not very good at past things but if you can give me your synastry chart or birth days and times I might can figure things out.A lot of times when you have venus to the southern node from another person then you were husband and wife from a past life.
I met mine a few months ago, my venus to his southern node. It is true things he just knew in some degree that connected on many levels, first time I thought soulmates could possibly exist because we could think things at the same time, ideas etc. Very unreal even for me and I have been with someone where we could finish each other sentences.
The bad part is when there is a southern node connection, you meet in this lifetime to finish out the Karma between you. Similar scripts will be played out to heal or settle the Karma.
Obviously he was abusive in my past life, did some really hurtful things to me then when I broke up with him, went back to see my ex he got ****** and says I hurt him or at least that is how the script played out in this lifetime.