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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
It works like Venus opposite Pluto but weaker
What does that even mean
Surely if an aspect brings one to conscious awareness of self, it ceases to be "weak".
If I see my quirks personified by a "minor" aspect that has no accompanying or similar "major" aspect to account for those traits. Surely that aspect is not "minor" in my chart.
Pluto tends to add layers and layers to the planet it touches.
Are you self protective in friendships and very suspicious of who you let in?
Are intimate relationships difficult because of certain push/pull dynamics that unfold? I.e you push those close to you away when you want them close, because you fear betrayal?
Are you jealous(although not expressive) of your boyfriend/girlfriends time spent with friends?
Are you always "prepared" for the worst case scenario of someone cheating on you or catching them in a lie?
Do you secretly think that monogamy is improbable and that its only a matter of waiting for the other shoe to drop?
Do you find yourself at ease with predictable "boring" types(Tau). And may even surround yourself with those who seem a little more sheltered(Cancer type), innocent (Pisces) or disciplined(Cap) in life?
Do you feel frustrated that your intensity of feelings are not fully "appreciated" by those you enter into relationships with?
Do you absolutely find it difficult to yield or let the other person get their way in the relationship? I.e you expect your partner to "fit" into you eg family, friends, aspirations etc. But are less interested or enthusiastic in "fitting" into their life or orienting yourself to their life.
Venus/Pluto aspect suggest dating or getting involved with people who can handle your huge ego and unwillingness to waiver.
Conversely, you may be drawn to people who are as above described. Thus projecting the Venus/Pluto aspect to your associations & having those associations "force" you to yield to their will.