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T O P I C R E V I E WjavawebThere is a guy I’ve known since childhood that I’m interested in romantically. He is the mysterious type like myself (not in a weird way, but just a very sweet, private person). I know that we are both attracted to each other but things currently are complicated in my life and I am not ready to get into a relationship any time soon. However, I think he is a really cool person and would like to get to know him better, even if it’s just a friendship. Like I just honestly want to hang out and listen to music together since we’re music geeks lol I want to convey this to him.My first question was: what will be his reaction to my confession? ( that I like him and don’t want to be in a relationship, but I’d still like to get to known him better regardless) Result: Page of PentaclesSecond question: what will be the outcome of us getting to know each other deeply post-confession? Nine of Wands ReversedI think with the nine of wands reversed I feel that there may be outside (or inner?) conflicts...? Or someone putting their guard down? My life is kinda messy right now (an ex who won’t leave me alone) and I’m sure his career is keeping him busy. Part of me is thinking about not telling him at all, but I’ve been feeling the need to get this off my chest since we knew each other as teens!! LolAny help? I only read oracle cards so tarot is always new territory for me...Thanks in advance <3javawebIf you feel called to pull cards too, I don’t mind MoonMystic Hello Javaweb - Your first card answer -(Page of Pentacles) Regarding his reaction to your confession. He may see your confession as an opportunity. ~ Nothing bad. This is a more serious minded energy. Unlike a wand, where getting you in the sheets would be his first intent - generally. In your case, he might revear you as someone special. Yet he is likely slow to get serious as well. He might treasure this news. Seeing you differently. It is a slow, methodical energy. I can't say but it seems doubtful he'd push for a quick relationship. I think you and he may be on the same PAGE. 9 Of Wands - rev Yes "guard down" ~ The caution, defensiveness that 'secret interest' is let down. You both can breath relief at this point. There's no knowing unless you throw your gauntlet in to show your intent. So you are right to try *if you want this, don't let an ex stop you. I pulled clarifying cards. Damn! you got both 10s! Again - Same Page. For your Page Of Pentacles, 10 Of Wands. The feelings you are carrying in regards to holding in these feelings, wishes to pursue this further with him has mounted to such a heavy burden. Suffice to say - you are going with the flow to confess and let life lead you on this journey. Your clarifying for Rev - 9 Of Wands was 10 Of Cups! A happy receptive card. The two of you will share emotion, enjoyment - possibly celebrate. Most of all - no more guarded energy or exhausting worry. ♡ If I can help further, let me know. All the best to you. javaweb quote:Originally posted by MoonMystic: Hello Javaweb - Your first card answer -(Page of Pentacles) Regarding his reaction to your confession. He may see your confession as an opportunity. ~ Nothing bad. This is a more serious minded energy. Unlike a wand, where getting you in the sheets would be his first intent - generally. In your case, he might revear you as someone special. Yet he is likely slow to get serious as well. He might treasure this news. Seeing you differently. It is a slow, methodical energy. I can't say but it seems doubtful he'd push for a quick relationship. I think you and he may be on the same PAGE. 9 Of Wands - rev Yes "guard down" ~ The caution, defensiveness that 'secret interest' is let down. You both can breath relief at this point. There's no knowing unless you throw your gauntlet in to show your intent. So you are right to try *if you want this, don't let an ex stop you. I pulled clarifying cards. Damn! you got both 10s! Again - Same Page. For your Page Of Pentacles, 10 Of Wands. The feelings you are carrying in regards to holding in these feelings, wishes to pursue this further with him has mounted to such a heavy burden. Suffice to say - you are going with the flow to confess and let life lead you on this journey. Your clarifying for Rev - 9 Of Wands was 10 Of Cups! A happy receptive card. The two of you will share emotion, enjoyment - possibly celebrate. Most of all - no more guarded energy or exhausting worry. ♡ If I can help further, let me know. All the best to you. Thank you so much MoonMystic. This seems to resonate as he seems very cautious and doesn't let people into his life easily. I have some kinks to iron out in my life, but this motivates me to "confess" and get to know him as a friend first MoonMystic Hi Javaweb, you're welcome. I'm happy it helped.My fingers are *crossed* this goes well for you both! RandallBump!javawebHaha I haven’t told him yet. I should be seeing him in the next three weeksjavawebUpdate: I’m flip flopping as to whether I should tell himnow as in soon, or a few months…..I know my “confession” will be well received regardless, but still debating (and overthinking haha) the timingjavawebAsked the cards when is the best time to confess to him and I got the High Priestess.Feel like the universe is telling me to wait and be patient. Focus on myself in the meantime. I will get signs telling me when the right time will be.athenaiaI agree Java, wait and be patient. Tell him some time after June 11th. javaweb quote:Originally posted by athenaia:I agree Java, wait and be patient. Tell him some time after June 11th. Thank you!RandallBump!javawebBecause of current life circumstances, I'm not planning to tell him until maybe 2022 lol But I will keep you all updatedRandallBump!RandallBump!RandallBump!javawebOk, if not this month or next then 2022 for sure! I still need space and time to heal. If anything, my priority is building a friendship firstjavawebUpdate: I told him and while he said that he finds me attractive too and would be interested in a relationship, unfortunately he is currently is in a relationship at the moment. He did end off with saying, "Who know what time will tell though..." There is still mutual respect and care between us, and I respect his relationship and don't wish any ill intent. So yea, who knows! I feel relieved if anything and glad the feelings are mutual.Like you said @MoonMystic, he treasures the news and does revere me as someone special.RandallBump!
My first question was: what will be his reaction to my confession? ( that I like him and don’t want to be in a relationship, but I’d still like to get to known him better regardless) Result: Page of Pentacles
Second question: what will be the outcome of us getting to know each other deeply post-confession? Nine of Wands Reversed
I think with the nine of wands reversed I feel that there may be outside (or inner?) conflicts...? Or someone putting their guard down? My life is kinda messy right now (an ex who won’t leave me alone) and I’m sure his career is keeping him busy. Part of me is thinking about not telling him at all, but I’ve been feeling the need to get this off my chest since we knew each other as teens!! Lol
Any help? I only read oracle cards so tarot is always new territory for me...Thanks in advance <3
Your first card answer -(Page of Pentacles) Regarding his reaction to your confession. He may see your confession as an opportunity. ~ Nothing bad. This is a more serious minded energy. Unlike a wand, where getting you in the sheets would be his first intent - generally. In your case, he might revear you as someone special. Yet he is likely slow to get serious as well. He might treasure this news. Seeing you differently. It is a slow, methodical energy. I can't say but it seems doubtful he'd push for a quick relationship. I think you and he may be on the same PAGE.
9 Of Wands - rev Yes "guard down" ~ The caution, defensiveness that 'secret interest' is let down. You both can breath relief at this point.
There's no knowing unless you throw your gauntlet in to show your intent. So you are right to try *if you want this, don't let an ex stop you.
I pulled clarifying cards. Damn! you got both 10s! Again - Same Page.
For your Page Of Pentacles, 10 Of Wands. The feelings you are carrying in regards to holding in these feelings, wishes to pursue this further with him has mounted to such a heavy burden. Suffice to say - you are going with the flow to confess and let life lead you on this journey.
Your clarifying for Rev - 9 Of Wands was 10 Of Cups! A happy receptive card. The two of you will share emotion, enjoyment - possibly celebrate. Most of all - no more guarded energy or exhausting worry. ♡
If I can help further, let me know. All the best to you.
quote:Originally posted by MoonMystic: Hello Javaweb - Your first card answer -(Page of Pentacles) Regarding his reaction to your confession. He may see your confession as an opportunity. ~ Nothing bad. This is a more serious minded energy. Unlike a wand, where getting you in the sheets would be his first intent - generally. In your case, he might revear you as someone special. Yet he is likely slow to get serious as well. He might treasure this news. Seeing you differently. It is a slow, methodical energy. I can't say but it seems doubtful he'd push for a quick relationship. I think you and he may be on the same PAGE. 9 Of Wands - rev Yes "guard down" ~ The caution, defensiveness that 'secret interest' is let down. You both can breath relief at this point. There's no knowing unless you throw your gauntlet in to show your intent. So you are right to try *if you want this, don't let an ex stop you. I pulled clarifying cards. Damn! you got both 10s! Again - Same Page. For your Page Of Pentacles, 10 Of Wands. The feelings you are carrying in regards to holding in these feelings, wishes to pursue this further with him has mounted to such a heavy burden. Suffice to say - you are going with the flow to confess and let life lead you on this journey. Your clarifying for Rev - 9 Of Wands was 10 Of Cups! A happy receptive card. The two of you will share emotion, enjoyment - possibly celebrate. Most of all - no more guarded energy or exhausting worry. ♡ If I can help further, let me know. All the best to you.
Thank you so much MoonMystic. This seems to resonate as he seems very cautious and doesn't let people into his life easily. I have some kinks to iron out in my life, but this motivates me to "confess" and get to know him as a friend first
Feel like the universe is telling me to wait and be patient. Focus on myself in the meantime. I will get signs telling me when the right time will be.
Tell him some time after June 11th.
quote:Originally posted by athenaia:I agree Java, wait and be patient. Tell him some time after June 11th.
Thank you!
There is still mutual respect and care between us, and I respect his relationship and don't wish any ill intent. So yea, who knows! I feel relieved if anything and glad the feelings are mutual.
Like you said @MoonMystic, he treasures the news and does revere me as someone special.
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