hi dreamccups,in the synastry between the two of you, there showed very few aspects.
his mercury in virgo conjuncts your virgo moon in the 8th house.
his moon in aquarius conjuncts your saturn in the 1st house.
your sun cancer sun trines his neptune in scorpio.
your mars and pluto in the 7th house square his saturn.
your saturn squres his venus.
the other aspects (like 3 or 4) are generational.
i did not see very much, except for mental understanding, and differences in understanding in the synastry. but, depending how evolved the both of you are, you can take the relationship to any direction that you'd like.
auriel, would you take a look at this when you get a chance? perhaps i am missing something.
aphrodite