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T O P I C R E V I E WjamAnybody with more experience out there who can tell me how I should handle this man?3 months of caring and loving, lots of mental, intellectual and physical stimulation - slowly getting closer. Then he fails with a business plan - and suddenly seems to be completely off balance. Gets needy like a child for one weekend. Then, the next thing I know, he holds a speech on his need for freedom and disappears ("catch up with you later").I am a Cap Lady with Libra rising, Venus in Aquarius, Moon in Aries, Jupiter + Uranus in 12th house (uhuuu ...weird mix myself). Having been through a claustrophobic marriage experience (with an extremely possessive Leo man) I know about the freedom issue - and surely did not restrain him nor force him to be with me.There are many indications that this relationship is meaningful in a karmic sense.Should I simply be patient?Err, maybe I should mention, that Mr. Aquarius is 8 years younger than me ...jamRandallWelcome to Lindaland! ------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca ClarkCarloHi jam Yes, you have to be very patient with Aquarius people, just ask Randall See, all Air signs are uncontainable. And Aquarians, more than any other sign, do not allow themselves in relationships to fit any definition! This is very important and profound to understand. Yes, all Air signs will slip free of restrictions. Yet Aquarius will never let itself be pinpointed to an exact definition of a relationship. Oh, they will marry, sure...yet somehow they will, at least in their own minds, and likely to the outside world, defy actual definition. Ask anyone involved with an Aquarius: "Are you married to him/her? Significant others? Dating?" And chances are you will never get a straight answer, if you get an answer at all! Because they don't even know! The Aquarius won't let them define it in the first place. Maybe Randall will offer some more insight, since he is a Cappy and his girl, Auriel, is an Aquarius...And it is not so much a function of age, I don't think...just understand, Air signs need ample room to breeze around, plenty of air to breathe, all of them. They travel, they stay in motion. You call them for a dinner you planned with them the next day and they announce they are moving abroad for a few years, and they are on their way to the airport. Aquarians are unpredictable, most Air signs are I think, except Libra. Air flits, even Fixed Aquarius people who may give the illusion it is settled down with a husband or wife and even kids...yet in its mind, it will not allow a definition of relationship to be definite, even with its partner. So enjoy him while you got 'em, cuz he may be gone tomorrow (hopefully not, yet Air never remains in one place for too long)Be Blessed,CarlojamHey Carlo, txs for your help. What tends to confuse me maybe is the my experience with my Dad. He is Aquarius (rising Scorpio), and one of the most balanced and stable beings I ever met. It was always my mum's part, later mine, to explore the universe and be crazy. He always was the eternal loving husband, the dedicated father waiting patiently until his girl(s) came back from their latest adventure. It takes him a-g-e-s to decide sth, rather Libra-style - uhuuu, no such thing as surprise. That's my territory. How irritating to be confronted with a totally different kind of Aqua-man?!Anyway, he may well be eternally un-sure about whatever, at least, one thing I know: he has no chance to get bored with me ... jam------------------"Your smile is your credit card, and your currency is your love" Suede - PositivityCarlo
3 months of caring and loving, lots of mental, intellectual and physical stimulation - slowly getting closer. Then he fails with a business plan - and suddenly seems to be completely off balance. Gets needy like a child for one weekend. Then, the next thing I know, he holds a speech on his need for freedom and disappears ("catch up with you later").
I am a Cap Lady with Libra rising, Venus in Aquarius, Moon in Aries, Jupiter + Uranus in 12th house (uhuuu ...weird mix myself). Having been through a claustrophobic marriage experience (with an extremely possessive Leo man) I know about the freedom issue - and surely did not restrain him nor force him to be with me.
There are many indications that this relationship is meaningful in a karmic sense.
Should I simply be patient?
Err, maybe I should mention, that Mr. Aquarius is 8 years younger than me ...
jam
------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark
Yes, you have to be very patient with Aquarius people, just ask Randall See, all Air signs are uncontainable. And Aquarians, more than any other sign, do not allow themselves in relationships to fit any definition! This is very important and profound to understand. Yes, all Air signs will slip free of restrictions. Yet Aquarius will never let itself be pinpointed to an exact definition of a relationship. Oh, they will marry, sure...yet somehow they will, at least in their own minds, and likely to the outside world, defy actual definition. Ask anyone involved with an Aquarius: "Are you married to him/her? Significant others? Dating?" And chances are you will never get a straight answer, if you get an answer at all! Because they don't even know! The Aquarius won't let them define it in the first place. Maybe Randall will offer some more insight, since he is a Cappy and his girl, Auriel, is an Aquarius...
And it is not so much a function of age, I don't think...just understand, Air signs need ample room to breeze around, plenty of air to breathe, all of them. They travel, they stay in motion. You call them for a dinner you planned with them the next day and they announce they are moving abroad for a few years, and they are on their way to the airport. Aquarians are unpredictable, most Air signs are I think, except Libra. Air flits, even Fixed Aquarius people who may give the illusion it is settled down with a husband or wife and even kids...yet in its mind, it will not allow a definition of relationship to be definite, even with its partner. So enjoy him while you got 'em, cuz he may be gone tomorrow (hopefully not, yet Air never remains in one place for too long)
Be Blessed,Carlo
Anyway, he may well be eternally un-sure about whatever, at least, one thing I know: he has no chance to get bored with me ...
------------------"Your smile is your credit card, and your currency is your love" Suede - Positivity
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