Him: Descendant in Scorpio/7th house? Uranus in 7th house? Is that correct? Saturn the planet of responsibilit is in bed with Neptune, a trine.
No hard aspects, no strong sense of shame
Your Venus is square your Moon, you will feel that the men in your life do not have enough respect for you in your early life-and Venus conjunct Saturn, tends towards responsibility.
Were you attracted to his tough guy image? Maybe you thought he had it together, I think there are lots of tough guys out there, very strong, very macho, but they are hiding weaknesses.
Uranus in the 7th, if he has this, can really need it's own version of commitment, makes the rules.
Stay away from the macho ones. And stay away IMO, from Uranus/7th house.
Natasha