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T O P I C R E V I E W~jane_says~I know this is a desperate attempt, but please bear with me. I have a significant other who had recently had an encounter with an ex at a party claiming they didn't get together in a physical sexual way. However, I found a saved conversation online that occured two days after the meeting up. There was quite a bit of reminiscing and some talk to hooking up but no confirmation of it of a later date or that night. He would go back and forth being mean towards her and then reminiscing of how it wasn't meant to work out and that in the end he may have meant to be single. He seemed to confide in her while chiding her promiscuous behavior. They also discussed me and her words were harsh towards me about my appearance and such. He didn't defend me instead he said he was just dealing with me, but did say he's happy once. It was so back and forth, but I am deeply hurt and feel cheated on. After confronting him, he said she's just a **** and always will be. She does have a very bad reputation. That he never hooked up with her, has always been faithful. By the way he's never given me reason to think otherwise until now, although he's not above a little light flirting. But in the end, he said they were just words and that it didn't mean anything. That more than anything he was doing it to rile her up, which I'm not totally convinced of. I'd just like to know where he is coming from as his main excuse is they the hurtful words like wanting to be single and sleep around basically. She said she was available and to let him no but the convo ended and he didn't set anything. My thing is do I trust. I know he loves me, and that being pregnant and insecure has put some strain on our relationship. Just from an astrological point of view, is he capable of cheating and lying without so much as a blink. Here's his info: Gordon, Nebraska. 7:07 pm Sept 17, 1976. If anyone can help me out I'd greatly appreciate it. We've since worked things out but it's still brimming beneath.AcousticGodI recommend waiting it out. Work on getting closer rather than retreating.~jane_says~Thanks. I'm definitely trying my hardest. By the way if this helps I'm may 22, 78 hardin, mt, usa, 4:12 pm...thedividedsky...MysticMelodyHe doesn't like her promiscuous behavior because it makes him jealous and it's not "pure". When she called you ugly or whatever, if he didn't want to confront her he could have just said, "Well, it was nice catching up, I gotta go."*"Lips Of An Angel"Honey why you calling me so late?It's kinda hard to talk right now.Honey why are you crying? Is everything okay?I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loudWell, my girl's in the next roomSometimes I wish she was youI guess we never really moved onIt's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weakAnd I never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angelIt's funny that you're calling me tonightAnd, yes, I've dreamt of you tooAnd does he know you're talking to meWill it start a fightNo I don't think she has a clueWell my girl's in the next roomSometimes I wish she was youI guess we never really moved onIt's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weakAnd I... never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angelIt's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weakAnd I... never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angelAnd I... never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angelHoney why you calling me so LATE?Jazzebelhe needed a closure. And used this last convo to lash out at her all the anger he had inside. And the left-over love feelings for her too. I think with that last conversation, he said what he had been waiting to say for a long time. I personaly don`t think he`d cheat on you with her. oh by the way, I am a Virgo too.MotherkonfessorHe is the Virgo, right?No, he won't cheat on you. He couldn't live with the self-recrimation of such an act, if you are pregnant with his child. I am a Virgo, and even if my partner wanders... if I love, I LOVE, and I am not going anywhere.Its okay, dear.... don't fret.MKsue gI am married to one....a Virgo.....I cannot every imagine him cheating on me....even though i put him through hell at times!As MK says "dont fret"I have found Virgo people to be one of the most honourable signs of all....."the server"......decent and true BlueEyes24I'm a Virgo and unfortunately I have cheated in the past (never again)....but I agree with what was said above...if a Virgo truly loves you, they will NOT cheat. I am very loyal and committed when I love someone.Natural111Ditto to what everyone else said.I have cheated, and do cheat but not on someone I am sure about and know, know, know, I'm in a real relationship with. That is, it is spoken, like he says, be my girlfriend and I be your guy. Then, I won't cheat. And if I feel he's cheating, I'll simply break up with him. Or, if it's hard to break the ties, I won't break up physically, but psycologically and emotionally, I won't be his anymore, though I'll go through the motions and thus be susceptible to cheating. So, I don't know. That's just me. I don't know. My faithfullness hinges on me trusting him. sthenriI don't know about that, a married virgo asked me to cheat with him a few months ago and he is known for being very committed and very married for many years. Then again I am a Taurus/6th house sun so I attract a lot of virgos and I was vulnerable and emotional that night. I don't think he would have gone there if I was not needy. I guess what I am saying is watch the Lady. (of course I told him no, and cut off contact)That's my suggestion.Natasha~jane_says~THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for taking the time to help me out and give me sound advice. We've been fighting less since this situation. I've been trying to be less demanding and bossy(something that's been alienating him from me) and giving him space. It's working so far for us, but I still think about the convo a lot. I've decided to believe him (my mom sees a psychic and he has said to ask her about went on, so that's enough for me) and not bring up the conversation.Thanks again, I appreciate it.~jane_says~By the way, just out of curiousity. How does his Moon in Cancer play into all this? I've heard that they truly never forget or toss away the past and all that goes along with it.
After confronting him, he said she's just a **** and always will be. She does have a very bad reputation. That he never hooked up with her, has always been faithful. By the way he's never given me reason to think otherwise until now, although he's not above a little light flirting. But in the end, he said they were just words and that it didn't mean anything. That more than anything he was doing it to rile her up, which I'm not totally convinced of. I'd just like to know where he is coming from as his main excuse is they the hurtful words like wanting to be single and sleep around basically. She said she was available and to let him no but the convo ended and he didn't set anything. My thing is do I trust. I know he loves me, and that being pregnant and insecure has put some strain on our relationship. Just from an astrological point of view, is he capable of cheating and lying without so much as a blink. Here's his info: Gordon, Nebraska. 7:07 pm Sept 17, 1976. If anyone can help me out I'd greatly appreciate it. We've since worked things out but it's still brimming beneath.
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"Lips Of An Angel"
Honey why you calling me so late?It's kinda hard to talk right now.Honey why are you crying? Is everything okay?I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud
Well, my girl's in the next roomSometimes I wish she was youI guess we never really moved onIt's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weak
And I never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angel
It's funny that you're calling me tonightAnd, yes, I've dreamt of you tooAnd does he know you're talking to meWill it start a fightNo I don't think she has a clue
Well my girl's in the next roomSometimes I wish she was youI guess we never really moved onIt's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weak
And I... never wanna say goodbyeBut girl you make it hard to be faithfulWith the lips of an angel
It's really good to hear your voice say my nameIt sounds so sweetComing from the lips of an angelHearing those words it makes me weak
Honey why you calling me so LATE?
No, he won't cheat on you. He couldn't live with the self-recrimation of such an act, if you are pregnant with his child. I am a Virgo, and even if my partner wanders... if I love, I LOVE, and I am not going anywhere.
Its okay, dear.... don't fret.
MK
As MK says "dont fret"
I have found Virgo people to be one of the most honourable signs of all....."the server"......decent and true
I have cheated, and do cheat but not on someone I am sure about and know, know, know, I'm in a real relationship with. That is, it is spoken, like he says, be my girlfriend and I be your guy. Then, I won't cheat. And if I feel he's cheating, I'll simply break up with him. Or, if it's hard to break the ties, I won't break up physically, but psycologically and emotionally, I won't be his anymore, though I'll go through the motions and thus be susceptible to cheating.
So, I don't know. That's just me. I don't know. My faithfullness hinges on me trusting him.
That's my suggestion.
Natasha
Thanks again, I appreciate it.
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