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T O P I C R E V I E WthebigelizaHey yall.The new guy Ive been seeing is giving me mixed messages,and I was wondering if anyone could see how he would react in love?ALL his chart descriptions talk of him being very agressive in love,but he is not acting like that at all.Instead he says he wants to take it really slow.He is a Taurus Sun,with Aries moon,merc,and Venus. I will post his chart,you guys let me know what you think?I have never felt a love like this before,I'd really love to know what potential you see here.Lots of Love to all , ElizaHis Chart: and here is mine: composite: thedividedskymaybe he is one of those "beyond his years" kind of guys, sounds like a smart idea to go slow.....with all the heartache out there from relationships that start and end too fast.I hope things are well with you two.....!!!With a stellenium in his first house, that looks interesting...did you try to google what that may signify? Or hopefully someone could tell you on here.virgotaurustaurusThis is just what I'm thinking, but I think his Sun in Taurus might make him slower to advance in a relationship, and with the Taurus need for security, he might be making sure there is security between you and him before he makes a big move. Mars in Scorpio can come off as rather cool, but they don't easily let people in, so he might be holding you back a little bit. I'm not sure just how much the Aries is influencing him, and I wish I knew how to read the first house stellium, but he does have that first house Taurus sun so that is most likely where his superslowness comes from, he may not make fast moves, especially including the Scorpio Mars. He does however seem like once he's swept off his feet he might be a really passionate active person. thebigelizaYeah things are still going extra slow.My heart is starting to sink because I dont think he feels the same way as I do.thebigelizawell,things are almost over between us.I dont understand at all.He left me an email with the subject heading "My Sweet Eliza" and then the whole email was excuses for why he cant be in a relationship right now.But at the same time he says in the email that he loves me several times,I just dont understand.I totally fell for him,and he is just so gone,so distant.We havent seen each other since last friday and he hasnt called me since also.My heart is brokenPassionate Pisces022586Hello sweetie,I have had the EXACT thing happen to me. I feel that if he loves you he will be back. Try to ask if you can talk to him in person therefore, you will have a chance to ask questions in regqrds to the relationship. maybe he is going through something in his life and needs time. My only advice that I can give you is to stay strong. I know this is an old saying but if all else fails you must give him space nobody likes to be smothered. If its love he will find his way back to you and vice versaaren't your planets Libra/Scorpiotherefore all of his aries planets oppose your sun. whoa i bet thats mesmerizing!P.S. this sounds very uranian to me, for that whats me and my ex had(that i'm still not over had). Stay Strong Sweetietaurean_scorpioni had a similar thing happen between me and an Aqua with Moon & Mars in Aries...I was heartbroken as well and left confused. Still recovering from it. I'm sorry to hear that Elizathedividedskyhows it going eliza?thebigelizaWell, Chris and I have hardly been seeing each other.I saw him monday for the first time in a week,we watched a movie together,he was flirting.He kissed me goodbye,its like why is he doing these things if he said he doesnt want a relationship?Well,my friends forced me out of the house the other night to go see our friend (he is a DJ) play out at this puppet house, and I met a really nice guy there.He actually contacted me through myspace the next day and wanted to get together.He is a Pisces come to find out,I have never really known any Pisces.He is so sweet and funny,but it is weird because I still have intense feelings for Chris but it seems like he just wants to play "love games" or something with me, where as this new guy I met Jon,He actually said he would love it if I was "his girl".I dont know I am so confused.I will post this guy Jon's chart,you guys let me know what you think of all of this astrologically,or in any other way of course.I have plans to go to dinner with the new guy Jon tonight,I am excited but not in a nervous way.For some reason I am very comfortable around him,where as with Chris there is this crazy energy between us,its almost uncomfortable.I heard that energy comes with oppositions,and Chris and I have sun opposite moon both ways.Well,let me know what your take is on all of this,it would be hugely appreciated!!! Love and Light to us all,Eliza Libra/Scorpio/AquariusThis is Jon: thedividedskyI think this guy seems less self involved.......more family/relationship oriented even with his virgo/aqua. His venus is conjuct your asc, which may mean that you both notice each other, and feel attracted.thebigelizaYeah he is alot less self involved.He is really sweet to me,but I cant help thinking about Chris.This always happens to me,you want what you cant have or something.I feel like just giving up and being alone.I am afraid this guy is just gonna do the same thing to me,or worse get another girl behind my back or something.Last night was really great with the new guy,I just got the vibe that all he wants is sex.I wish I could just be happy being alone.I just have such an urge to find "the one" maybe its me being a Libra,but I really dont want anything more except to find my true one.Well in your opinion,do you think either of these guys would be right for me?Im really feeling like giving up right now.On life.thedividedskyNever give up! Life is too precious....and......there are so many special and wonderful people out there just waiting to meet you!It all takes time and plenty of patience, though, as we all know. Experiencing love is such a great feeling, but don't feel that if you aren't experiencing it right now, that you are any less important, or your life. Being alone has always been difficult for me,too, but I have found that I had put up with things I should not have in the past, just because I was in a "relationship" and it was better than being alone. I have learned that lesson now.Love's breath will blow again........
His Chart:
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I hope things are well with you two.....!!!
With a stellenium in his first house, that looks interesting...did you try to google what that may signify? Or hopefully someone could tell you on here.
Mars in Scorpio can come off as rather cool, but they don't easily let people in, so he might be holding you back a little bit.
I'm not sure just how much the Aries is influencing him, and I wish I knew how to read the first house stellium, but he does have that first house Taurus sun so that is most likely where his superslowness comes from, he may not make fast moves, especially including the Scorpio Mars. He does however seem like once he's swept off his feet he might be a really passionate active person.
I have had the EXACT thing happen to me. I feel that if he loves you he will be back. Try to ask if you can talk to him in person therefore, you will have a chance to ask questions in regqrds to the relationship. maybe he is going through something in his life and needs time. My only advice that I can give you is to stay strong. I know this is an old saying but if all else fails you must give him space nobody likes to be smothered. If its love he will find his way back to you and vice versa
aren't your planets Libra/Scorpio
therefore all of his aries planets oppose your sun. whoa i bet thats mesmerizing!
P.S. this sounds very uranian to me, for that whats me and my ex had(that i'm still not over had).
Stay Strong Sweetie
I'm sorry to hear that Eliza
His venus is conjuct your asc, which may mean that you both notice each other, and feel attracted.
It all takes time and plenty of patience, though, as we all know. Experiencing love is such a great feeling, but don't feel that if you aren't experiencing it right now, that you are any less important, or your life. Being alone has always been difficult for me,too, but I have found that I had put up with things I should not have in the past, just because I was in a "relationship" and it was better than being alone. I have learned that lesson now.
Love's breath will blow again........
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