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sister golden hair | Just curious what you think, especially you Virgos out there..... I've read alot about Virgo's seeking ideal mates, and holding out a long time to find them. If they met them, and feel like they are unavailable, how long is a Virgo willing to wait for someone once they've found that "perfect" person? |
Virgo/Aries75 | I know someone who I feel is my Twinsoul = perfect for me. I love him dearly and would do ANYTHING for him.... Well, anything but WAIT! We've been off and on for years, both having relationships in between. So I'll come back to him and see if we can be together, if we can't I move on and figure maybe in the future things will be better. Could be my Aries Moon, but I have Sun, Mercury, AND Venus in Virgo so.... Edited to add: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with. I've spent years alone rather than settle. But I wouldn't wait *on purpose* for one specific person. |
Battle of Evermore | "Edited to add: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with. I've spent years alone rather than settle. But I wouldn't wait *on purpose* for one specific person." Oh, I TOTALLY agree with that. I'm a Virgo and I even have a MAJOR Leo 7th house stellium. I can't really answer that... I try to stay away from men who are unavailable. If I find one I really like and find out that he's taken I'll just wait and see if I can find somebody else. If he's single before then, then that's great, but I'm not going to sit around and wait on somebody who I might never have a chance with. I will not compete with another woman either. The man likes me enough to only be interested in me, or he's gone!
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SexyScorp103 | I only wish I wouldnt wait around .. I have Moon in Virgo, my persistence adn "patience" comes form my sun in scorpio. be thankful you dont wait around, no matter how pathetic it may seem it is one of the hardest things to overcome when you have fallen for someone. |
tifavirgo85 | I do have an ideal mate... but when someone catches my eye i haft to have them... |
Unmoved | quote:
"Edited to add: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with. I've spent years alone rather than settle. But I wouldn't wait *on purpose* for one specific person."
Yes, I agree with you and BoE (hi there BoE) on this, even though my sun is the only planet in Virgo. It still has a hold I suppose. I would say that due to my Virgo sun, I tend to have a finicky inclination about hygiene in men. They have to take regular baths. LOL... There must be a certain amount of refinement, not excessively but just basic good manners, being polite and presentable in public, and definitely a sense of duty and responsibility is needed. I don't know if this can be found, but a guy who has a naughty streak in a well behaved way i.e. adventurous but NOT reckless because I value a sense of fun as well as security. I suppose this is very Capricorn like with a smidgen of Aquarius visionary. Oh, before I forget... AMBITION is needed. I don't require a guy to be loaded, but if he has dreams and is passionate about achieving them, that's cool. And, as quoted above, if a guy like that does not come along, then I am glad to wait. I couldn't be bothered spending my precious time with a man I am not interested in. added: I have Venus in Virgo too. How could I forget... |
Green Fairy | quote: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with.
Definitely.But i only got a Virgo rising. |
NeptuneLove | quote: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with. I've spent years alone rather than settle. But I wouldn't wait *on purpose* for one specific person.
same here sister Virgo now that we Virgos gathered here we should have a party ! |
EighthMoon | Unmoved...I know an Aqua sun/Virgo moon/Venus Cap man that fits your ideal description perfectly! He's finicky about neatness and cleanliness...wouldn't even hug me if he came home sweaty til he took a shower! Very practical financially...and awesome in investing in future security...all with a bit o' the wild streak. Might be great if ya found one whos moon conj your sun! 8th |
Unmoved | 8th- oooh ooooh... wannna hook me up? kidding. I have an Aqua too who has my hands full currently. and... I wouldn't wanna hug him while sweaty either. hee hee, Well, with my Virgo Sun and Venus, and my Cancer Moon... your guy sounds wonderful!!! It's good to know that my ideal does exist. |
Dulce Luna | quote: Edited to add: I will spend a lot of time alone rather than be with someone I'm not REALLY into and don't have a certain "spark" with. I've spent years alone rather than settle. But I wouldn't wait *on purpose* for one specific person.
Ooooooo, I also completely agree with this statement and I'm a virgo mooner.
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comica23 | Virgo AC here - with Aries stellium.. I'd wait for someone as long as I can still sense some chances (and while I'm still interested :P ), but if the chances are small, then I wouldn't really wait, but rather give a chance of meeting someone else for myself. ^_^; Even if I love someone a lot, if we're not meant to be together, then why should I still wait? I still want to find happiness.. ^_~; |