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anni17 | ok you don't have to scroll down far on this site to see that there are troubles galore with cancer men! now i too am joining this confused by cancer club.... i was with a cancer boy for 1 month.. i guess it got pretty intense prtety fast, but my relationships have a habit of doing that as i really prize them, and invest a lot into them and he seemed reciprocal he told all his friends he really really liked me and 'wanted to stay with me for ages' other things suggested he was in it for the long-haul including: 1. when i was asking him what to wish for on the 1st star of the night, he responded ' that we stay together for aaaages!'; 2. he has told me i am beautiful many times, that he is 'crazy about me', 'adores'me and that i 'changed his life'; 3. he often joked about how he wanted to grow old and said, a couple of times, 'grow old with me'. also, my brother told me that altho it was weird to say so soon, he could imagine us staying together for a really long time, even getting married . (i didnt pass on that message haha as im quite sure it would scare any young guy)things were good, we were happy together ... then one night he suddenly said it was moving too fast and he called it off. just like that. the reasons he listed were that he was not ready for a relationship, he had too much other stuff going on his life (if he does, i certainly didnt know anything about it!.. one problem was that i felt he didnt open up to me as much as i'd like) and that he wasn't 'emotionally ready to sustain feelings for one person'. of course i assumed he had feelings for someone else, but he assured me he had 'feelings for nobody at the moment' (which didnt hurt any less). later when i tried to talk about it he got defensive & wouldn't say anything to explain it to me further... yet he is adamant he wants to remain 'friends' since then (about a week ago) i have avoided all contact in order to give him the space he craves and let me sort through my own emotions (which are going crazy) does anybody have insights or clues to what might come to pass in the future??? he is a cancer sun, scorp moon, cancer mercury and gemini venus.. i dont know his ascendant as it would be kind of creepy to ask his birthtime ha ha i am a libra sun, moon, venus & mercury and taurus ascendant if anyone would care to shed some light i would be SO grateful
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ghanima81 | It would be beneficial to see your whole charts, as far as getting an astrological viewpoint that's more complete... I think his Gemini Venus could be wishy-washy... and that Scorpio moon is rather secretive. Don't be shocked when cancers get defensive... he seems quite watery, but is probably rather closed off until he really REALLY trusts someone. But it would be good to know the houses and how your aspects interplay... Good luck! Ghani |
winky_winky | where is his mars? u already provided this info? only mars is rather important 4 men i think........... |
winky_winky | well his cancer mercury would be prone to express thoughts sort of on and off depending on his moods i would assume... but scorpio moon... he knows what he wants... rather intense bloke no? |
anni17 | wait now im confused. i entered his d.o.b into 2 sites and 1 lists him as a libra moon, and the other a scorpio moon :S hmmmm and his mars is in aries. |
anni17 | sorry for being annoying but does anyone have further insights? ive tried to avoid all communication with him recently cos when i do i invariably get upset and say something i later regret.. distance is easier but i do miss him.. he told my sister he thinks i hate him now.. hmm thats all to update i guess |
lechien | as ghanima81 mentioned maybe post the charts? i'm just a beginner at this so i can't give you much insight astrologically, but one thing is that if i'd known this forum at the time i would not have dated that cancer guy back then myself! oooph! |
Meduza | anni17, what happened with your guy?
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bunnies | If I recall ghanima you are an Aqua. Hey! Isn't it a relief to see us Aquas getting a break and someone else being beaten up for a change. I was seriously beginning to doubt my capacity to l..lo...lov..... Oh I'm sorry. I need to lie down in a darkened room while someone hovers with the Tylenol... |
Unmoved | bunnies, you're right. Last year there was carnage against Aquas, now it's Cancer. It must be a transit thing. |
Meduza | aquas are yummy, in my opinion... |
anni17 | meduza, in answer to your question... nothing. we have remained out of contact. |