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T O P I C R E V I E Wfrankie2912I've just begun a relationship with a long-time friend...our first few times of having sex were just alright, but each time it gets better and BETTER...We both have a very hard time finishing. For me, it's next to impossible (I had NEVER finished with a guy, from intercourse alone)..and he has a very hard time, too. However, he was able to bring me to orgasm and I was able to bring him to orgasm three times within 2 hours..he claims that two times a night is next to unheard of, and three times had NEVER happened before..the third time was like his soul was leaving his body. He actually whimpered. Talk about a major ego boost for me, LOL!I have also had pretty much no sex drive for almost a year...and suddenly it's back full force with him. I just can't get enough of him. It makes me wonder why we didn't f*ck sooner...like, years ago, when he first started showing interest in me..I guess good things come to those who wait, haha...Anyway, it's been great, and I just wanted to share my happiness because sex is fun and wonderful and amazing and everyone should have a partner that helps them break through their walls like we just have with each other..I hope it stays this way.Interestingly enough, our synastry has NONE of the typical passion/sex aspects! asclibrasagsunyou are extremely luckywhen is it my turn? I want the same lol...ail221probably a good transit, venus transits to your natal mars, mars transit to your natal venus, venus/mars transits to your natal pluto, and Pluto transits to your natal venus/mars/pluto. frankie2912well..none of those planets are doing that, BUT...tMars has been closely conjuncting my Moon..right now it is at 3 degree orb, separating..maybe that's it..also, jupiter has just started to transit my 8th house..could that have something to do with an expanding sex life?ail221Jupiter transiting the 8th house works too, house of transformation, shared resources aka shared intimacy, less vulnerability during that time, emotional guards being let down, increase in psychological sexual understanding etc.LonakeCheck progressions and solar arcs too Plus I think you have Pluto on your Sun maybe?Hera quote:Originally posted by frankie2912:Interestingly enough, our synastry has NONE of the typical passion/sex aspects! Yeah, I wonder if they're not somehow overrated, though. I feel they help with the initial attraction, the fireworks, but the actual sexual compatibility, IMO, is somewhere else (like in 8H rulers' aspects for instance). I've had amazing chemistry with someone, only to have one of the worst sex of my life! Ugh. Everyone is talking about the Yin/Yang pairing for attraction, but I wonder if it's not about alignment between the sex significators as well. I intend to test the theory soon with someone with a Sag Mars (I'm Aries Mars) and Virgo Venus (I'm Taurus Venus). No Mars/Venus aspects between us as you can imagine. The attraction is there, now I wonder about the compatibility, though. It's still early stages and it will take a while for me to warm up, but when I'll know, I'll share. I'm pretty sure smth's going on in your Progressed synastry and composite for not hooking up sooner. There is a timing for everything hehe. Ceridwen quote:Originally posted by Hera: I've had amazing chemistry with someone, only to have one of the worst sex of my life! Ugh. I find this is NEVER really being talked about, sadly. Chemistry/ Attraction can be intense, and the actual sexual compatibility can be lacking, which will be quite disappointing.I was thinking, after checking everything else, maybe this could happen with synastric attraction aspects (and I subscribe def. to the 8th house ruelr theory ), but disappointing aspects between sexual significators in composite or Davison?Talking about that chemistry, I have a weak (4-5 degree) trine of my Venus to a guy`s Mars in synastry; and while I do like him, there is not that overwhelming strong longing to be near him. But ONCE I have crossed some invisible line and am in his proximity, just basically standing close, for me the attraction is extremely intense: We have a Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus in Davison.But it is really only there when I sort of am around him, which had me puzzled for quite some time now.Faith quote:I find this is NEVER really being talked about, sadly. Chemistry/ Attraction can be intense, and the actual sexual compatibility can be lacking, which will be quite disappointing.^ I had amazing chemistry with a guy that I used to talk to mainly over email and the phone. Long distance relationship. My sun formed a grand trine with his Venus and Mars.From the way we were talking, we thought the physical chemistry was going to be out of this world once we met up...but it wasn't, not at all!We had moon square moon...I just blame that.Meanwhile, I can be arguing with my husband and still be so physically attracted to him that I cave in because of that. (I think that is my Mars trine his moon, and my Pluto conjunct his moon....but I don't know.)hippichickUnfortunately I, and I am learning, dont go there without amazing chemistry..But I am finding out that it always bites me rear in the end.For a while, I am not wearing the red letter "A" but a big "FO"....O, and the most amazing chemistry fills the missing leg of my 3 fixed crazy tsquares, which is a Scorpio asc~peregrinehigh five!frankie2912Things just keep getting better with this guy...he says things like, "wow, what are you doing to me??"..."you're doing crazy things to me..good crazy, not bad crazy.."....he even says these things in front of his friends, and they say they have to hear him talk about me all day LOL..I find it so intriguing that he is coming undone..and he's not the only one. I find myself feeling like a different person around him...when I'm with him I feel sexier, more feminine, younger (even though we're basically the same age..he's only 6 months older), it's strange. and I checked our progressed charts if anyone cares to take a look.First I'll post our synastry, and composite...and then our progressed ones. I included some of the sex and love asteroids ..Eros, Juno, Lust, Lilith..also included the Vertex. I heard that Vertex contacts in synastry indicate a feeling of love and recognition "out of the blue"..like it was unexpected. This would be very true for us!So what do you guys think??Synastry: Composite: Progressed Composite: CeridwenAh it is so uplifting to hear about positively passionate mutual experience on here! Keep talking. I love hearing those stories.CeridwenLet me point out a few aspects that got my attention here:synastry:- his Mars conjunct your LUST in the sign with the greatest stamina and a very earthy appetite (they may not always admit to it though)With that falling in your 3rd house, is there a bit of sexy dirty talk involved? Or is communication a turn on for you? Just curious. If that 3rd house figures in here.It seems his Mars sextiles your Venus - on its own it would probably not be indicative of voracious sexual appetite and chemistry, BUT there is a nice slightly sparkly sexual compatibility coming with it (Lotiswhite had a good definition of sextiles somewhere on here).Also you have a DW of Mars-Jupiter, as his Jupiter is conjunct your Mars on the cusp of the 5th house, which is sexual per se.There might be a good deal of positive enthusiastic sexual energy with this. It is different than the more smoldering sexual aspects, but there is a very strong energetic and positive vibe with this. You really like to "play". A total boost in confidence.- then there is his Lust conjunct your uranus - a sudden flaring up of sexual attraction. Interstingly his Lust is in his 3rd house as well, which means it is going to turn up in the composite as well, so talking might be quite the aphrodisiac to both of you?I can`t really see the other aspects. If you want to display asteroid aspects, you can click in the little box: Show all aspects on astro.comHowever, I would keep the orbs really tight, or there will be so many lines in the chart, noone can realy see anything anymore. composite:- LUST in the 3rd house widely conjunct Neptune, which makes the sexual attraction considerably more spiritual and flowing, and not just as selfcentred as Lust-aspects sometimes can be.The Square to Venus increases the "hotness"factor even more, but of course Venus squaring Neptune also might make one prone to indulge in fantasies, either being not totally realistic about the nature of a connection, or simply enjoying dreaming with each other. - Moon in Pisces trine Pluto enhances the depth of the emotional experience; with it being tied to Vertex, probably it came so totally out of the blue. I thnk it fits with you having known each other for quite some time and just now discovering each other for real.If you are interested in other sexual asteroids I would also check for:- Aphrodite (1388)- Adonis (2101)- Cupido (763)and even Nessus (7066) - the centaurs are quite a sexual bunch.and Pan (4450)In the progressed composite the (Sun conjunct Pluto) in Scorpio trine Eros in Pisces got my attention. That looks quite erotic and intense.frankie2912Yes, talking is a huge turn on for me! It's funny you mention that because I was about ready to call it quits with him until one night when we stayed up til 4 am talking about all sorts of interesting things..and that conversation had me sold..I was hooked. Yes, there is a lot of dirty talking going on...which is also surprising because for me, in the past, that has always been an area of insecurity for me..I was never confident enough to talk dirty to anyone but with him, we both talk dirty to each other and that really plays a major part of our sexual relationship.It's so crazy, i really never thought anything was there between us until we actually touched each other. It's insane chemistry...we can't keep our hands off each other. He's really into showing me off, too. We've only been "official" for a week, and he's been telling everyone he knows about us..hehe, it's pretty cute.. So here is a synastry and composite with those additional asteroids, and I included the aspect lines..yes it is a little hard to read, I know..lolI'm on the inside (even though the outside name says Frankie..that's not the guy's real name) What exactly does asteroid Adonis mean? Because just yesterday I was telling him (my boyfriend) that he has a perfect body and he was like, "Haha..I'm going to start calling myself Adonis." Hmm.. :PCeridwenAdonis was a most beautiful young man, dazzling as a matter of fact. And he was the only one Aphrodite/ Venus ever loved.She was of course having many affairs, including one with Mars, but she was totally mesmerized with that mortal young man and genuinely despaired and mourning his death.It is said that before all roses were white and it was his blood that made roses red.(in some versions he got resurrected).Kim Falconer writes this on Adonis:"http://www.falconastrology.com/Dell-AsteroidPoints.jpg"Adonis: spellbound love; sexual magnetism; the desire to arouse, please and fulfill the beloved; potent tie"The image I have when it comes to Adonis aspects to Venus or Aphrodite is a sultry athmosphere; violins softly playing through the mist; and a feeling of almost being drugged with sensuality.Of course before Adonis was seen in connection to Venus/Aphrodite, he was als embodying Adonis-Tammuz, being part of the sacred marriage with Inanna (Sumeria), Ishtar (Babylon) and Astarte (Phoenicia).From these goddesses the Roman and Greek Goddess Venus and Aphrodite actually originate.frankie2912Ahh..interesting! Thank you.So his Aphrodite conjuncts my Venus..this must mean he sees me as an ideal lover/woman, right? Or at least my femininity is what he considers sexually appealing?My adonis is at 0 Capricorn, and he has mars in Capricorn..hmm..this stuff is so fascinating
We both have a very hard time finishing. For me, it's next to impossible (I had NEVER finished with a guy, from intercourse alone)..and he has a very hard time, too. However, he was able to bring me to orgasm and I was able to bring him to orgasm three times within 2 hours..he claims that two times a night is next to unheard of, and three times had NEVER happened before..the third time was like his soul was leaving his body. He actually whimpered. Talk about a major ego boost for me, LOL!
I have also had pretty much no sex drive for almost a year...and suddenly it's back full force with him. I just can't get enough of him. It makes me wonder why we didn't f*ck sooner...like, years ago, when he first started showing interest in me..I guess good things come to those who wait, haha...
Anyway, it's been great, and I just wanted to share my happiness because sex is fun and wonderful and amazing and everyone should have a partner that helps them break through their walls like we just have with each other..I hope it stays this way.
Interestingly enough, our synastry has NONE of the typical passion/sex aspects!
when is it my turn? I want the same lol...
also, jupiter has just started to transit my 8th house..could that have something to do with an expanding sex life?
quote:Originally posted by frankie2912:Interestingly enough, our synastry has NONE of the typical passion/sex aspects!
Yeah, I wonder if they're not somehow overrated, though. I feel they help with the initial attraction, the fireworks, but the actual sexual compatibility, IMO, is somewhere else (like in 8H rulers' aspects for instance). I've had amazing chemistry with someone, only to have one of the worst sex of my life! Ugh.
Everyone is talking about the Yin/Yang pairing for attraction, but I wonder if it's not about alignment between the sex significators as well. I intend to test the theory soon with someone with a Sag Mars (I'm Aries Mars) and Virgo Venus (I'm Taurus Venus). No Mars/Venus aspects between us as you can imagine. The attraction is there, now I wonder about the compatibility, though. It's still early stages and it will take a while for me to warm up, but when I'll know, I'll share.
I'm pretty sure smth's going on in your Progressed synastry and composite for not hooking up sooner. There is a timing for everything hehe.
quote:Originally posted by Hera: I've had amazing chemistry with someone, only to have one of the worst sex of my life! Ugh.
I find this is NEVER really being talked about, sadly. Chemistry/ Attraction can be intense, and the actual sexual compatibility can be lacking, which will be quite disappointing.
I was thinking, after checking everything else, maybe this could happen with synastric attraction aspects (and I subscribe def. to the 8th house ruelr theory ), but disappointing aspects between sexual significators in composite or Davison?
Talking about that chemistry, I have a weak (4-5 degree) trine of my Venus to a guy`s Mars in synastry; and while I do like him, there is not that overwhelming strong longing to be near him. But ONCE I have crossed some invisible line and am in his proximity, just basically standing close, for me the attraction is extremely intense: We have a Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus in Davison.
But it is really only there when I sort of am around him, which had me puzzled for quite some time now.
quote:I find this is NEVER really being talked about, sadly. Chemistry/ Attraction can be intense, and the actual sexual compatibility can be lacking, which will be quite disappointing.
^ I had amazing chemistry with a guy that I used to talk to mainly over email and the phone. Long distance relationship. My sun formed a grand trine with his Venus and Mars.
From the way we were talking, we thought the physical chemistry was going to be out of this world once we met up...but it wasn't, not at all!
We had moon square moon...I just blame that.
Meanwhile, I can be arguing with my husband and still be so physically attracted to him that I cave in because of that. (I think that is my Mars trine his moon, and my Pluto conjunct his moon....but I don't know.)
But I am finding out that it always bites me rear in the end.
For a while, I am not wearing the red letter "A" but a big "FO"....
O, and the most amazing chemistry fills the missing leg of my 3 fixed crazy tsquares, which is a Scorpio asc~
First I'll post our synastry, and composite...and then our progressed ones. I included some of the sex and love asteroids ..Eros, Juno, Lust, Lilith..also included the Vertex. I heard that Vertex contacts in synastry indicate a feeling of love and recognition "out of the blue"..like it was unexpected. This would be very true for us!
So what do you guys think??
Synastry:
Composite:
Progressed Composite:
Keep talking. I love hearing those stories.
synastry:
- his Mars conjunct your LUST in the sign with the greatest stamina and a very earthy appetite (they may not always admit to it though)
With that falling in your 3rd house, is there a bit of sexy dirty talk involved? Or is communication a turn on for you? Just curious. If that 3rd house figures in here.
It seems his Mars sextiles your Venus - on its own it would probably not be indicative of voracious sexual appetite and chemistry, BUT there is a nice slightly sparkly sexual compatibility coming with it (Lotiswhite had a good definition of sextiles somewhere on here).
Also you have a DW of Mars-Jupiter, as his Jupiter is conjunct your Mars on the cusp of the 5th house, which is sexual per se.There might be a good deal of positive enthusiastic sexual energy with this. It is different than the more smoldering sexual aspects, but there is a very strong energetic and positive vibe with this. You really like to "play". A total boost in confidence.
- then there is his Lust conjunct your uranus - a sudden flaring up of sexual attraction. Interstingly his Lust is in his 3rd house as well, which means it is going to turn up in the composite as well, so talking might be quite the aphrodisiac to both of you?
I can`t really see the other aspects. If you want to display asteroid aspects, you can click in the little box: Show all aspects on astro.com
However, I would keep the orbs really tight, or there will be so many lines in the chart, noone can realy see anything anymore.
composite:
- LUST in the 3rd house widely conjunct Neptune, which makes the sexual attraction considerably more spiritual and flowing, and not just as selfcentred as Lust-aspects sometimes can be.The Square to Venus increases the "hotness"factor even more, but of course Venus squaring Neptune also might make one prone to indulge in fantasies, either being not totally realistic about the nature of a connection, or simply enjoying dreaming with each other.
- Moon in Pisces trine Pluto enhances the depth of the emotional experience; with it being tied to Vertex, probably it came so totally out of the blue. I thnk it fits with you having known each other for quite some time and just now discovering each other for real.
If you are interested in other sexual asteroids I would also check for:
- Aphrodite (1388)- Adonis (2101)- Cupido (763)
and even Nessus (7066) - the centaurs are quite a sexual bunch.and Pan (4450)
In the progressed composite the (Sun conjunct Pluto) in Scorpio trine Eros in Pisces got my attention. That looks quite erotic and intense.
Yes, there is a lot of dirty talking going on...which is also surprising because for me, in the past, that has always been an area of insecurity for me..I was never confident enough to talk dirty to anyone but with him, we both talk dirty to each other and that really plays a major part of our sexual relationship.
It's so crazy, i really never thought anything was there between us until we actually touched each other. It's insane chemistry...we can't keep our hands off each other. He's really into showing me off, too. We've only been "official" for a week, and he's been telling everyone he knows about us..hehe, it's pretty cute..
So here is a synastry and composite with those additional asteroids, and I included the aspect lines..yes it is a little hard to read, I know..lol
I'm on the inside (even though the outside name says Frankie..that's not the guy's real name)
What exactly does asteroid Adonis mean? Because just yesterday I was telling him (my boyfriend) that he has a perfect body and he was like, "Haha..I'm going to start calling myself Adonis." Hmm.. :P
Kim Falconer writes this on Adonis:
"http://www.falconastrology.com/Dell-AsteroidPoints.jpg
"Adonis: spellbound love; sexual magnetism; the desire to arouse, please and fulfill the beloved; potent tie"
The image I have when it comes to Adonis aspects to Venus or Aphrodite is a sultry athmosphere; violins softly playing through the mist; and a feeling of almost being drugged with sensuality.
Of course before Adonis was seen in connection to Venus/Aphrodite, he was als embodying Adonis-Tammuz, being part of the sacred marriage with Inanna (Sumeria), Ishtar (Babylon) and Astarte (Phoenicia).
From these goddesses the Roman and Greek Goddess Venus and Aphrodite actually originate.
So his Aphrodite conjuncts my Venus..this must mean he sees me as an ideal lover/woman, right? Or at least my femininity is what he considers sexually appealing?
My adonis is at 0 Capricorn, and he has mars in Capricorn..hmm..this stuff is so fascinating
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