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T O P I C R E V I E WAmi AnneIt is really hard not to want to get back at people who hurt you. I find it hard and think most everyone does.However, I had an experience which shows how love multiplies.I was helping an astrologer with her own charts. It was just my casual helping her with some relationships.I have been doing if for about a month, just trying to give her love.I didn't expect anything in return.Well, I had NO idea of her following of people.She published one of my articles and thousands of people starting pouring on my websiteI think 3000 people came as a result of this one article lol------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ValentineNice story Ami, it goes to show that what goes around comes around. We get back what we put out.Ami Anne quote:Originally posted by Valentine:Nice story Ami, it goes to show that what goes around comes around. We get back what we put out.Yep, V!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/RandallRipples.Ami Anne quote:Originally posted by Randall:Ripples.YES, Randall,I love to give things to people and see their eyes light up!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/Ami AnneMy son asked me what I would do if I only had 6 months to live. It would be to give more love. It is scary to do this. I remember as a little kid, I was very giving and my mother told me I was an idiot lolThis stuck with me and made me feel foolish if I gave love, money, possessions etcHowever, it is really the most happiness you can have.You never have to feel unloved if you can GIVE love ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/teaselI rarely want to get back at someone, when they've hurt me. I find that they're hurting for a reason, and who wants to add to that? It's difficult to not respond, and when someone has others believing their lies - responding doesn't help. remembering that they don't really have a clue, helps.I prefer the "good ripples". I loved Joan of Arcadia. A boy was afraid to open a letter from his Mum, who had committed suicide. It's here: http://youtu.be/W3ezM_537Vg?t=3m2s "Helen Girardi: [reading Adam's mom's suicide note] "Dearest boy, my Adam. I dreamed a dream, you and I facing each other in a tiny yellow boat on green water under a blue sky. Me and my son and a yellow boat. And we laugh, and the boat rocks and the ripples spread from the boat to pond to sea to sky and nothing can stop them, and nothing ever will. When you think of me, Adam, know that in a world of pain, you were, and always will be my joy. Love, Mom." Adam Rove: Thank you. Joan Girardi: The ripples were good! "Ami Anne I rarely want to get back at someone, when they've hurt me. I find that they're hurting for a reason, and who wants to add to that? It's difficult to not respond, and when someone has others believing their lies - responding doesn't help. remembering that they don't really have a clue, helps.This is a really important statement and tells us, imo, WHY people are depressed.I think that when people hurt us, we should be angry.That is healthy. If we switch to an intellectual mode, we deny our anger and simmer inward, which is what depression is.This is what I learned from Alice Miller. you should check out her website and books.PS I am not saying we should take ACTION to get back at them cuz we shouldn't but anger needs to be really felt and not pushed down imo------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/teaselBut I don't feel better hurting someone in response. I do understand that anger has its place, but it's destructive. I've lived it for the past several years. Anger might have kept me going for a while, but I resent that it was someone else's anger who got not only me here, but my parents - so much has been affected. I still feel anger, and hurt - I'm so damned hurt. I don't know. I shook Mum off yesterday, when she tried to tell me not to let someone continue to get to me - she let her get to me, in the first place. But I'm scared that I don't have much time with anyone that I love - I keep hearing about losses, and I've already lost a lot. I don't want anger to continue to come between me and my mother. Ami AnneTeaselI am no authority. I am a fellow sufferer lolThey say depression is anger turned inward, so to get rid of depression, one must FEEL angry.You see?One must feel the repressed/suppressed feeling.The action of getting back at someone is something we should not do.We do, at times, but God does not like it lolHowever, the FEELING is important to feel in all it's depth or it turns into depression imo------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/teaselI'd rather obliterate both. I'm getting tired of other people thinking that I'm something I'm not, and why? Because I am angry, for valid reasons - I've been **** on, I don't know how many times, and some so-called friends added to it, or just decided that I was no longer worth knowing. Fair weather friends. I've learned how disposable I am.Thank you for not quoting the above. I've had no intention of talking about personal things here, for months now, but they occasionally come out. I will delete soon. And I got off-topic - I didn't mean to. This thread was supposed to be about your "good ripples". Ami AnneI don't quote you lolYou can talk about anything on my threads, T.I am trying really hard to heal my past, as you are.I found something GREATIt is a CD program from DR Ronnie Freeman. I think I have her name right.She talks about how to come out of being numb.It has changed my life.Check it out, maybe.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/Ami Anne http://www.anxietybusters.com/ It is Freedman.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/Ami AnneTeaselShe even answers her phone herself. I would love for you to call her.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/Ami AnneI, always, try to give love. I don't expect anything in return and when I am down and need some TLC, it always comes back ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
However, I had an experience which shows how love multiplies.
I was helping an astrologer with her own charts. It was just my casual helping her with some relationships.
I have been doing if for about a month, just trying to give her love.
I didn't expect anything in return.
Well, I had NO idea of her following of people.
She published one of my articles and thousands of people starting pouring on my website
I think 3000 people came as a result of this one article lol
------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
quote:Originally posted by Valentine:Nice story Ami, it goes to show that what goes around comes around. We get back what we put out.
Yep, V!
quote:Originally posted by Randall:Ripples.
YES, Randall,I love to give things to people and see their eyes light up!
This stuck with me and made me feel foolish if I gave love, money, possessions etc
However, it is really the most happiness you can have.
You never have to feel unloved if you can GIVE love
I prefer the "good ripples". I loved Joan of Arcadia. A boy was afraid to open a letter from his Mum, who had committed suicide. It's here: http://youtu.be/W3ezM_537Vg?t=3m2s
"Helen Girardi: [reading Adam's mom's suicide note] "Dearest boy, my Adam. I dreamed a dream, you and I facing each other in a tiny yellow boat on green water under a blue sky. Me and my son and a yellow boat. And we laugh, and the boat rocks and the ripples spread from the boat to pond to sea to sky and nothing can stop them, and nothing ever will. When you think of me, Adam, know that in a world of pain, you were, and always will be my joy. Love, Mom."
Adam Rove: Thank you. Joan Girardi: The ripples were good! "
This is a really important statement and tells us, imo, WHY people are depressed.
I think that when people hurt us, we should be angry.
That is healthy. If we switch to an intellectual mode, we deny our anger and simmer inward, which is what depression is.
This is what I learned from Alice Miller. you should check out her website and books.
PS I am not saying we should take ACTION to get back at them cuz we shouldn't but anger needs to be really felt and not pushed down imo
I am no authority. I am a fellow sufferer lol
They say depression is anger turned inward, so to get rid of depression, one must FEEL angry.
You see?
One must feel the repressed/suppressed feeling.
The action of getting back at someone is something we should not do.
We do, at times, but God does not like it lol
However, the FEELING is important to feel in all it's depth or it turns into depression imo
Thank you for not quoting the above. I've had no intention of talking about personal things here, for months now, but they occasionally come out. I will delete soon. And I got off-topic - I didn't mean to. This thread was supposed to be about your "good ripples".
You can talk about anything on my threads, T.
I am trying really hard to heal my past, as you are.
I found something GREAT
It is a CD program from DR Ronnie Freeman. I think I have her name right.
She talks about how to come out of being numb.
It has changed my life.
Check it out, maybe.
It is Freedman.
She even answers her phone herself. I would love for you to call her.
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