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Topic: Cancerian Jealousy/Posessiveness
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luna*tic12
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: toronto, ontario, canada
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted November 03, 2008 11:01 PM
 
Calling all Cancers - Do you guys experience a lot of jealousy and posessiveness in relationships? I felt extremely touchy about my ex interacting with other women in certain manners, and that was I think the crux of the reason for the break up.
What is also interesting is that he was a Scorpio, who are supposed to be the jealous and posessive ones, but he was probably the least jealous or posessive man I have ever met. Cancers - how do you cope with your jealousy? ------------------
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cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2819
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted November 04, 2008 02:07 AM
well i think the cancerian jealousy is within bounds and at pretty normal level .it might be same for possessiveness but i am pretty sure cancers are by nature too gentle to hurt soemone bcos of these two factors .
they might brood and curse but hurting someone is not always their way .
And as far as containg jealousy is concerned , there is no specific way .
each has its own way .
i learnt from my expresiences ,still learning .
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Scorpionic Web
Knowflake Posts: 812
From: Pennsylvania
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 04, 2008 02:43 AM
Possessive, jealous woman? Sounds like the kind of girl I need.Lunatic- I'm sure others have asked you here, but do you have anything to say about your Sun and Moon being in mutual reception? I apologize, you're asking for insight, only to get me asking you for insight, but I'm very curious about the Cancer Sun and Leo Moon woman. On Halloween, I saw a Cancer girl whom I've always found so pretty but have never spoken with, and I believe she has a Leo Moon. After her band played, she just stood in the corner alone for much of the night. I'm almost certain that she is single. I love the beautiful emotion within Cancer eyes. She looked into my eyes far longer than other girls do, and I just wanted to walk up to her, give her a hug, and let her Cancerian claws dig into me and not let go. IP: Logged |
ScorpioCentaur
Knowflake Posts: 72
From: Montreal
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 04, 2008 03:39 AM
Luna*tic,As a Scorp myself, and, as a jealous person myself...I find cancers to be jealous to the extreme.
One of the most jealous people I know, she's a coworker..is so jealous I can barely work with her. I feel very self-concious around her because it seems everything and everyone sparks her jealousy and retaliatory personality. She has sun, mercury and mars in Cancer with moon in Taurus and Venus in Leo. I find her personal planets are a recipe for pure jealousy from what I am wearing, how I've done my hair, my boyfriend (she has her own) etc...
As far as your ex Scorpio boyfriend not being jealous..maybe he has strong Sagittarian influences or maybe he's just better at hiding it. Scorp is just as jealous and possessive as Cancers are, just Cancers are a lot more naive and transparent..Cancers are the fourth sign on the wheel whereas Scorps are thhe 8th..we have a lot more experience in being able to hide our insecurities and faults.
Also, I myself have been experiencing a lot of jealousy issues with my current boyfriend. I've posted about this on here already because my jealousy seems to be at its peak. I have close conjunctions with my sun and venus to my boyfriends pluto. How does his pluto aspect your personal planets?
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MoonPixie
Knowflake Posts: 616
From: New York, New York
Registered: Oct 2005
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posted November 04, 2008 04:23 AM
Cancer Sun and a Scorpio Moon. Gotta represent.Jealousy and possessiveness come hand in hand most of the time. If I'm being jealous, it's because you're being too liberal in sharing whatever it is that I feel is mine and mine alone. For me, that's sexual affection. Sexual affection is far more than just sex. The thing that hurts me that most is emotional infidelity such as finding more pleasure (attraction) in communicating and physically being with someone else. Simple flirting is not a big deal, unless there's motive behind it... then that means it's "verbal sexual affection" and that does not please me at all. If I'm possessive, it's because I'm jealous... & then the cycle of darkness begins! If I girl flirts with my boyfriend, I don't get jealous. I usually find a lot of pleasure in knowing someone is envious of something I have, lol (Scorpio Moon and Pluto in the 1st, say what?!?)... Unless he starts to reciprocate in an inappropriate way, leading her to believe that something could happen between them two. It's at that moment that I find the hidden sawed off shotgun and go nuts. Just playing! That's when I get really ****** and we fight and mostly likely I break up with you. Otherwise, I'm not naturally jealous. I've always been more liberal with my love and I find guys who are warm to their friends to be sweet. Must be the Pisces Mars.
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Green Fairy
Knowflake Posts: 1024
From:
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted November 04, 2008 07:11 AM
I'm more possessive than jealous. I have a "you're only mine" mentality. As if my partner was an object. Sh____y I know.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4700
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 04, 2008 09:53 AM
Cancer sun/ 8th house moon
Hmmmm, I don't think I've properly coped with my jealousy/possessiveness TBH. I know I'm good at not showing it (virgo moon in the house!) but then it kind of comes out with my actions. And also, when Im alone or in the comfort of my own home...I tend to intensely brood over it, snapping at anyone who crosses my path because of it.
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If I'm being jealous, it's because you're being too liberal in sharing whatever it is that I feel is mine and mine alone. For me, that's sexual affection. Sexual affection is far more than just sex. The thing that hurts me that most is emotional infidelity such as finding more pleasure (attraction) in communicating and physically being with someone else. Simple flirting is not a big deal, unless there's motive behind it... then that means it's "verbal sexual affection" and that does not please me at all.
Yeah, thats kind of the root of my jealous/possessive feelings as well. It was the reason for the demise of my short lived affair with a gemini at the beginning of this year. But you know what? I don't understand how someone can mess with one's feelings like that just for kicks? Its ridiculous.
And LULZ, Luna*tic your scorp sounds alot like my ex-scorp, my guess is that he's *very* good at hiding his jealousy....until it explodes at the last minute from holding it in. My ex had a pisces moon/ alot of planets in sag too. But its my belief that Sag influenced ppl get jealous too...they are fire after all. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
mblover
Knowflake Posts: 508
From:
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted November 04, 2008 09:59 AM
Cancer Sun/Leo Moon/Leo Rising/Sun and Moon in 12th HouseThat is a very high Jealous/Possessive yet a very quiet introvert placement.. Meaning, you will feel very fearful and insecure when your love interest is around other women, but you can't talk about it with your love interest. If he is a Scorpio... You should not fear and rather talk straight through this topic.. IP: Logged | |
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