posted October 08, 2003 02:57 PM              

I have been surrounded by Sags my whole life..and at work (for some reason they gravitate to the hospitality industry)

They sound right on to the descriptions of their sign...and sometimes with a Sag man it is hard to tell if they are interested because they have a rather scattered consciousness.. they are very earnest, however.
I just wanted to tell you two things...first, they sometimes don't know what comes falling out of their mouth. It will seem tactless and mean.. its not their fault, really- just a tendency of the sign. They will be honest, just not very polite about it. With your Cancer moon, it might upset your sensitive emotional nature..and if you have a Leo Asc, it might make you withdraw from them...
Perhaps your Aquarian detachment will help balance out dealing with a scattered Sag.

posted October 08, 2003 06:32 PM              

After time you will find out that they really do care, it takes a while but they do, they just hide it well. Plus they are a little into looks so make sure not to get too frumpy, it's easy for me to do that.

posted October 08, 2003 08:09 PM              

Dean.

posted October 09, 2003 02:36 AM              

So, I can't relate at all. I have a virgo moon and an Aries Asc maybe that has something to do with it.

I know this about me. I lose glasses, keys, clothing, you name it, I'll lose it.
I am not tactless with those I know. I think I'm more so with those I don't know and may never see again.
If I don't care (Care, as in, don't care to be around them) then I will be blunt
but I try to never hurt anyone.

I don't think Sag's are critical by nature, maybe your boss has a virgo moon. I can be very critical at times.

Sag's (me anyway) are very restless!! This contributes to the sense of impulsivness. BUT, we're nice and fun and great friends.

posted October 09, 2003 10:54 AM            

I think it is more like, we want to know exactly what we are getting into before we commit. All too often people just jump into things and then have to pay later.

That is not to say that us Saggies haven't had our fair share of impulsive commitments where we had to learn the hard way about being patient. That is something we can learn from a good Virgo friend.

For the record, I am a sag female with an aries moon and virgo rising. My brother is a sag with a scorp moon and pisces rising. Both of our parents have cancer moons, which makes them more prone to sensitivity and hurt feelings from our arrows.

In any case, I would have to say that yes, we can be very harsh, spastic, fun, heartbreaking, afraid of getting close, and yet, there is nothing we wouldn't do for a friend or family member.

My brother was difficult for his Scorp wife to tie down. They had been best friends since they met in the 8th grade and didn't start dating until his second year of college. She was like him in that she loved sports, camping, working out, hiking and traveling.

You will never catch one of us Archer babies if all you do it sit. We need constant bantering, stimulation, CONVERSATION. When we say something stupid "TELL US!!!!" The worse thing you can do is keep in in, because we have to have things out in the open. That is our nature, because we can be totally scatterbrained, we need to keep things where we can see them. LOL... That is also why we are so brutally honest. It is hard as hell to keep lies straight when you are always on the run.

Now, I would think that an Aqua girl could understand a Saggie a bit more, but I think your Cancer moon might be making the emotional part hard. My Aries moon does make me a bit more emotional we well, especially this Aries moon tonight.

As far as the physical. I can totally understand where your Sag is coming from. Wow, it is so hard to explain this part of us. Sometimes I can be so incredibly touchy feely with my guy, then I am lost in my own world and I am not affectionate. The guy I have been with for a while is pretty cool about it. It's taken years for us to get to this point, and we still fight. Two nights ago he said I was being a total weirdo and was rebuffing all his moves. He was right, I was feeling wimpy from my cold and from stress. Then....I did something so un-Saggie, I cried. He never really sees me cry, but I did and he wiped away my tears.

Anyway, give us a chance. Yeah, we are weird, but so are Aquarians, that is why we get along so well. You probably stopped him in his tracks with your electricity and now he's wondering what to do. So when we freak, we get close and run.....get close and run..LOL...luckily, we trip, we fall, and we come back.

You're boss sounds kind of like a bear. I would take him or her to the side and tell them how you feel. That the roller coaster is just not acceptable. They will understand and appreciate your honesty.

posted October 09, 2003 11:00 PM              

BTW, I just find the coincidences in this thread interesting:

thesag Sag sun, Virgo moon, Aries rising
jason Sag sun, Virgo moon, ? rising
pidaua Sag sun, Aries moon, Virgo rising
me Gem sun, Virgo moon, Sag rising

One thing I've noticed though is the "back-stabing". A Sag best-freind of mine did it to me with my then GF and I did it to a Libran best-friend (and am still his ex, but don't speak to him). Do you guys experience this? I haven't met any other Sages, but I once had a Sag pen-pal who stopped writing to me after I asked this. I'm just curious...

Dean.

posted October 10, 2003 02:58 AM            

Heres the story,we have been kind of friends but there have been some kisses etc of a definitely non platonic nature.

Anyway a few weeks ago he asked me out on a date, I genuinely couldnt make it. Couple of weeks pass and then last week I asked him if he would like to get together this week. He said yes, and he would come back to me to fix a day/time etc.

He hasnt even mentioned it again!! He has been his usual friendly self with me, but nothing about making the date. So this is why I'm confused.Its almost like he has completely forgotten the conversation ever happened.

posted October 10, 2003 07:18 AM              

I was not very assertive about fixing up dates until my Libra now, and then after one date I let him know I was available and then called him and dropped by instead of the other way around. He really took to that and was relieved. I would never wait on a call or wait on a date because what happens is that he may get afraid to make a move for fear of being too aggressive and back off. Then he is so sensitive he sees you not saying anything as a rejection and mopes.

Sags and Libras are very sensitive that way and require some push, tell your Cancer Moon you are showing concern and caring and that's very sexy to a man. Make or Offer a small gift with your sweetest smile and say "I've been looking forward to being alone with you..."

posted October 11, 2003 01:31 PM            

Backstabbing and Saggies? Well, I think it has more to do with our inability to keep our mouths shut and our pathologic need to tell the truth, no matter how it hurts. I have learned to become more diplomatic and just observe versus having to blurt things out.

posted October 20, 2003 08:23 PM            

I found my Aquarius friend to be VERY uncooperative at times, it was HIS way or NO way. He lacked any kind of spontanity and was rather boring. He was very routine oriented, and hated any kind of change. He was standoffish, not affectionate and would rather slit his wrist than pay anyone a compliment, and he NEVER admitted if he was wrong about anything.

Me on the other hand, a Sag woman and very proud it, am smart AND intelligent. I am spontaneous and make friends with almost all that I meet. Once you are my aquantice/friend, you have a loyal friend in me. I am loyal, should have been a Leo, for I will be your friend to the end, and will defend your honor if the situation arises. The only thing that truly pushes my buttons is just total ignorance. When people do not stop and think about their actions towards other people, that just irritates me to death. This world is made up of all kinds of people and not just me...therefore, kindness should be universal. Love don't slander. And when people become ignorant towards others, that is the last straw with me, and unfortunately my thoughts/actions and words can become somewhat ruthless and sometimes contrary to what I originally "preach"..but I am only human... Overall I find myself to be a wonderful friend and mate to those around me.
Just my 2 cents

posted October 31, 2003 02:55 PM            

That is so true and so beautiful.