posted October 22, 2004 01:03 PM              

And it would be interesting to know of any that went very QUICKLY, yet lasted.

posted October 22, 2004 01:57 PM              

But we had many upsets at the start. I am not into short courtships, but for a Gemini moon it can last, because it's normal.

and you have that 3rd house moon so you must like quick courtships, am I right?

Let me edit this to say I have noticed the quick courtships work if the man is not the life of the party and at home he really likes to BE HOME.

If he wanders around at 11pm talking about wine and chatting on the phone, and he's alone with you, that's a bad sign. If you are looking for a courter, look for a man who is a bit traditional and not a partier. It's impossible to party, be wined and dined every night and get courted too.
Fast or slow.

The way you can tell you are being courted is when he says he wants to spend more time alone with you-And he doesn't mean he wants sex!

That's the best time ever! When you just look at each other and cuddle and you know you are being courted. That can go on for a day and that's it, he's in love. So if you get that good cuddling, with no sex involved, or fondling, just sparks flowing, it's an intimate, warm hot chocolate feeling. Then you know you can jump in.

I've jumped in enough to know,
that usually happens with me and Libras, or sometimes Virgos, Cancers, or Sags.

Good Luck, I hope you find another Libra type, or someone with strong Libra placements,

posted October 23, 2004 01:06 AM              

I hooked up with 2 Capricorns, and they were pretty weird about calling the relationship what it was turning into - a relationship. So I'm assuming they all take a lil while to warm up to that idea.

Cancers have all jumped right in immediately with calling me their girlfriend.

Leo was a bit iffy, he would have rather just made out forever I think. I broke up with him after 2 weeks so I can't tell you how long he would have taken with considering me a gf.