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Topic: "Becoming" My "Husband"'s Character
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Xena unregistered
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posted March 05, 2007 07:54 AM
As some of you on here might know, I was married to Mr. Aqua for 7 years. I don't know whether it's a consequence of having been together for that length of time, or what...but I seem to have absorbed a ton of his attitudes and character traits (not all bad), which I play out in my life now (of course, there is still plenty of me left). What's going on? And I'm wondering whether he (we don't communicate now) has picked up traits from me, and has actually become more aggressive/openly emotional. Is this a common phenomenon? IP: Logged |
shirty unregistered
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posted March 05, 2007 09:53 AM
Hi Xena,Can I ask what your placements are? IP: Logged |
Xena unregistered
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posted April 09, 2007 07:36 AM
Sun & Merc in 8th in Aries. Moon, Venus, Jupe, Desc in 6th in Pisces. Mars & Sat in 10th in Gem. Uranus in 2nd in Libra. Neptune in 3rd in Sag. Pluto in 1st in Libra. Virgo Asc. Mutable GC - yeah - I do find myself unconsciously absorbing, "copying" if you like, character traits from the people I live with - kinda imitation syndrome - it's as if living with others "reflects" on me in some way. Numerology (as in house numbers) also plays a part in my self-expression. For example, I find living at house numbers that add up to 4 slightly depressing (as in the way in which they emphasize family/work responsibilities). Does anyone else find this happens to them?
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thirteen unregistered
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posted April 09, 2007 11:18 AM
Ive been married for 11 years. Yes i do things that he would have done and i also notice many times that he acts like me. I always say it when it happens. I think two people absorb each others energies. It used to bother me but not anymore. It seems like a natural occurrance if you are living with someone.IP: Logged | |