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Topic: Aspects that allow you to live with someone without the desire to kill them
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WaterNymph
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posted October 04, 2005 01:35 PM
 
There are people in my life that I love oh so dearly ( both romantic and platonic ). They mean the world to me…and I trust them completely  If they ever needed me, I’d be there in a heart beat. Whatever’s mine, is there’s.*passes bucket to whoever needs it* HOWEVER - if I share a place with most of them for more than a week…possibly two - I’m about ready to kill them.
I think some relationships are perfect as long as you’re not roommates…or whatever. Soooo my question is…what aspects ( if any ) would make it easy for you to live with someone? Thanks a bunch  IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
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posted October 04, 2005 01:48 PM
Hi Nurse Neptune! How about the aspect of transiting daily Valium to your natal Stomach?!?
Forgive me, I'm feeling silly today..... Seriously though, what do you have in/what house is Libra? Have I seen your chart?? Do you have any Saturn to NN or Asc or MC or Venus aspects?  'Zala IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted October 04, 2005 01:51 PM
lol  long time no talk zala 
I have Libra Pluto, in the eighth. And a seventh house Moon.
Wait! Are you trying to guess if I’m a bad roommate? IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted October 04, 2005 01:57 PM
 @ AzalakshWater - It's hard to find a room-mate that has the same ideals about house and home as you. So what do you look for? Someone with a 4th house cusp of the same element as you. Ideally, the same sign but that may be asking too much. How about someone with the same moon element as you? That may work. I think you definately have to look at the 4th house cusp and any planets contained within, as well as the condition of the planet that rules the sign on the cusp. I suppose it would be usefull to look at moon sign too. I'm currently living with an Aries with a Leo moon and a Libra with an Aries moon. I have Aries on my 4th house cusp. All I can say is, so far so good. But I'm the neat freak of the bunch, which annoys all of us at times. The Aries is the fix-it girl, the bug killer, and the "tell people where to go" person. The Libra deals with the landlord and the bills. I just clean, cook fab food, and solve personal problems. We make a good team, all in all. (although I'm not crazy about doing dishes  ) IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted October 04, 2005 01:58 PM
NM ~ I edited my post a little -- didn't I see your chart along with sadness about a newly discovered Pisces Asc?? Can't find the thread.....'Z IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted October 04, 2005 01:58 PM
I think I've been guilty of this a few times myself. A stiff drink can work wonders "I just clean, cook fab food, and solve personal problems." Lion: You need a place to stay?
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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury and uranus
Libra moon, pluto and asc. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted October 04, 2005 02:11 PM
Lioneye, great advice thanks. *edited I’ve got Cancer in my 4th.
“So what do you look for?” I have a Virgo Moon singleton…need I say more?
“How about someone with the same moon element as you?” that could def work, but I don’t know many Taurus & Cap Moons…except this one Libra girl.
I don’t except too much, as long as they don’t touch my stuff - and respect my space. “Lion: You need a place to stay?” incidentally I might be living with a Leo…with Pisces Moon - and possibly a couple of Aquas - nothing’s in stone yet tho. “A stiff drink can work wonders”
“Do you have any Saturn to NN or Asc or MC or Venus aspects?” yes, Saturn trines my NN and ASC…is that good or bad.
Btw thanks for the replies you guys IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
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posted October 04, 2005 02:22 PM
Deputy #6 ~“Do you have any Saturn to NN or Asc or MC or Venus aspects?” yes, Saturn trines my NN and ASC…is that good or bad. Do you really want me to answer that with the mood I'm in?!?!? (**slaps cheeks, wipes stupid grin off face**) But seriously, I have one interp that says Saturn to any of those other three may indicate that you are sometimes inclined to feel that you're better off staying by yourself, or prefer to be alone..... lioneye has a good theory, but I've lived with all four elements harmoniously, so we're back to looking at houses (4th) and aspects..... 'Z IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted October 04, 2005 02:27 PM
Ooh, WaterNymph - Aquas can be hard to live with. They tend to have quirks and some principles that are not typical. They'll be great fun, and great freinds, though. But they'll likely bring people home at all hours, and don't necessarily care about how the place looks. They're not the best committment keepers either. (as in paying bills) - Not a hard fast rule - some are fine about that. Depends on other facters in the chart, of course.1scorp -if I'm ever looking for a place to live in your town, I'll definately look you up! We might have TOO MUCH FUN, though. Could be hazerdous to our health! IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted October 04, 2005 02:40 PM
 took me a few seconds to get that.“But seriously, I have one interp that says Saturn to any of those other three may indicate that you are sometimes inclined to feel that you're better off staying by yourself, or prefer to be alone..…”
*gasp* well actually I was an only child for quite some time…so that might explain it.
( still smiling ) Only thing in my 4th house is my NN - from Taurus to Leo, my chart’s empty…cept for NN & Chiron.
Ok aspects to NN
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Oooops my bad - NN aspects are Square Venus & Mars. Trine Saturn & Pluto and opp Neptune. Lioneye
Uh oh  one of the Aquas is my best friend - I’d hate for us to fight…and rune our friendship. Living with someone can seriously spoil things. Well she hasn’t said she would, so maybe I can back out.
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