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Topic: Scorpio Moon with Scorpio Moon
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MJCap unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 05:09 PM
Please help me figure out if I'm wasting my time with this guy. We are always arguing and can't seem to know how to communicate. I'm currently involved with another scorpio mooner. Do you guys think two scorpio moons can get along?
We only seem to do well in the bedroom department. mine: Sun in capricorn, moon in scorpio, asc in scorpio. His: Sun in Cancer, moon in scorpio IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 12, 2005 05:18 PM
Oh yeah your suns oppose each other that could be good and that could be bad and for some reason in this case I feel it is not good. Other then for the sex..IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 07:02 PM
relationships are about compromise- so find someone and if you are attracted make it work, or find someone you like and get attracted. It's not going to be perfect either way but with Scorpio rising arguing is not your thing. It's draining and you need an objective.Your partner needs another outlet besides arguing with you, and sex with you. Scorpio moons are intense and need lots of hard work, school, objectives outside of the love interest, and then the arguing and mystery end. He maybe too tired for sex but there's always fooling around: Try being more accepting of your differences, and offer to cuddle more and have sex less, Scorpio risings can come off as all or nothing and that can make someone fight. My moon is cancer 8th house and causes many fights with Scorpio ascendants. I am a veteran of these relationships and I know the sex is always very, very hot, the best ever, but it fizzles because of the arguing. Couples fight because it's healthy to increase respect, and to grow and change. If you can't accept it then it gets worse. Bring issues out before your partner has to bring them to your attention. Try to separate your sex life from your arguments as they are about your life outside of the home and have nothing to do with your emotional needs. Do protect your intimacy and privacy from others, it's not helpful to try and fix all the problems, just keep them out and tell your partner to leave his poor friends problems outside the door. Water moons have trouble with boundaries and bringing home problems from work. Keep professional and private separate. Natasha Taurus Cancer moon Aries Venus IP: Logged |
MJCap unregistered
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posted October 13, 2005 12:47 PM
Thank you for your replies. I really appreciate it. Being a scorpio moon, I always seem to feel what the other person feels. I get the feeling that our moons repell eachother. One of us is always feeling hurt and therefore, we turn into revenge mode and do or say something to hurt the other. My question is: Do you guys think that we really do feel other people's feelings or is my mind playing games on me? It's hard to let him go because I feel this strong connection with him and feel that he feels the same. I have tried to be blunt and just come out and say what I feel but it only seems to scare him away. Needless to say, he's almost 10 years younger than me. Any insights will be greatly appreciated. IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted October 13, 2005 01:49 PM
You really do feel his feelings but the negative ones too: try to tune into positive feelings, ones to do with things that make you happy, or work, and family. then once these issues are dealt with you can turn to less significant things.Too often another water moon will have everything going on, the weekend, the past, work, life, love in his head. You can't figure out what's good or bad in someone else's head. Go with the things that make you happy and he will pick up on it, strangely enough when you are happy he will be too even if his life isn't going well. I believe they call this a shared identity. Since he is younger stick to school, and work issues since water moons care very much about career. Natasha
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