Author
|
Topic: Obsession/Lust!
|
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 01:35 PM
Hi; i am a newbiew here I have a problem i have been dating a man for 7 month's now.After three weeks of dating him he got so strange.He calls me constantly because he says he wants to see me.He is really clinging too.I've asked him about his behaviour he told me that he has never felt this for another woman only me.Since the first day he saw me he fell hard for me.He seems possesive now can this turn into an obsession or be dangerous?Why is he that way towards me?Looking at his planets with mine can anyone tell me?Since i don't know that much about astrology,help.Me Cha-born September 15 1974 at 10:30 PM Him-born April 21 1972 IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 07, 2006 02:54 PM
Do you know the cities/states or places you two were born? It helps to have that info for synastry IP: Logged |
Venusian Love unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 04:42 PM
Well he is on the Aries/Taurus cusp and I know many people with this blend. Yes they can be obsessive and clingy. Taurus want security. Aries likes to dominate.
Both can be passionate. http://www.astrology.com/allaboutyou/cusps/ariestaurus.html
------------------ Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars *----------*----------* Things base and vile, holding no quantity, Love can transpose to form and dignity. Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
Venusian Love unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 04:53 PM
Adolph Hitler's birthday is on April 20th. My cousin has that birth date LOL. I told her and she didn't like it one bit LOL.
------------------ Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars *----------*----------* Things base and vile, holding no quantity, Love can transpose to form and dignity. Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 05:48 PM
Hi Libraschoice7.I was born in Miami,Florida.He was born in England but i don't know what city only the country.I really want to know how his birth planets affects my birth planets.If you know, can you tell me.Because if this continues i am going to have to leave him and i don't know how he'll react you know.It really scares me his intensity towards me.I've never had a boyfriend like this before. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 07, 2006 06:16 PM
From the info you gave, I think you guys have a Mars/Pluto tight aspect, which can seem obsessive/complusive quality to the relationship(which may be why he seems to be so clingy). There are also a few squares there, Your Jupiter square his Venus and his Mars. These add alot of excitement,(you make him feel good, may be to overindulgent). That could be some of the reason, I think other people on this board can get more indepth and insight on it. IP: Logged |
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 06:20 PM
Thank you Libraschoice7.I hope someone does tell me something and helps me.To know more about why he's like this.IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 07, 2006 06:47 PM
If his intensity,possessiveness really bothers you that much, you should break up with him period. You don't need somebody to look at the comparison of the charts. Why bother? If you're not happy and comfortable in the relationship,then it's time to make some changes...have a long talk with him about his actions and telling him that he needs to change or to break up with him. What is he doing and saying that makes him come across as intense and possessive?
by the way, He has Sun quincunx Pluto,and that can indicate that he is intense and can express himself with intensity but can cause problems for him. Quincunx is a difficult aspect,and it indicates tension,strain that requires adjustments,revisions to be made. The Pluto quincunx his Sun in Taurus can enhance the possessive nature of his Sun in Taurus too. He has a close orbed Venus conjunct Mars,and that indicates a very passionate love nature. He has Uranus trine that conjunction. That indicates that he can sudden fall in love or lust. He can develop sudden romantic attractions.
You have Mars conjunct Pluto in 5th house,and that indicates that you can have intense romantic relationships with men. Your Scorpio Descendant indicates that you can have intense partners. You have Venus in Virgo in 5th,Juno-Jupiter in Pisces,and Neptune in Sagittarius in 7th t-square. Do you ever find yourself being rather critical and judgmental in relationships as well as can be too idealistic that you want to find the perfect partner? Your Venus in Virgo can be nitpicky,critical,worrying,perfectionist and not easy to satisfy when it comes to love and relationships. That is why Virgo is the fall placement for Venus. Virgo is the opposite sign of Pisces. You have Venus square Neptune . Neptune rules Pisces. Venus square Neptune is similar to Venus in Pisces. It indicates that you have to watch out for illusion,deception,and confusion in relationships. You could end up falling in love with the wrong people and end up being victimized. You can also be a spiritual sacrificing,compassionate in love and relationships too. Your Juno in Pisces emphasizes. Another thing....watch out for looking for your soulmate too much and thinking that somebody is your soulmate when he isn't. Venus square Neptune can be that way due to the idealistic,romantic nature that can be quite illusive,deceptive.
His Moon is in Leo. That could indicate feeling the need for self expression,attention,affection,and to be dramatic. Being a fixed sign, security and stability is important for him. At the extreme,it can end up as possessiveness.
I don't like doing synastry without both having complete birthdata. Ascendant/Descendant axis,Midheaven/IC axis,and planets in house placements are important.
IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 07, 2006 07:03 PM
Mabe you just attract intense people with alot of passion. But it's for you to decide if you want to have a relationship with that kind of person.IP: Logged |
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 07:07 PM
What he's doing is if i go out even with my mother anywhere every 5 minutes he calls me on the cell phone.What are you doing you should be here with me.I say hi to any male friends of mine he gets mad and you can see it in his face he just turns red.Don't get me wrong he has alot of caring qualities about him too.You seem to know about astrology looking at his planets can he change the way he is or is that just written in the stars and he'll be this way forever.Because like i've said before he didn't act this way with his other girlfriends'. IP: Logged |
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 07:10 PM
Libraschoice7 the funny thing i don't all my friends and ex's have been very mellow people.No passion what's so ever.IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 07, 2006 07:17 PM
It seems that he is acting very unhealthy with you. You and he need to sit down and discuss your concerns with him. Honesty is the best policy. Yes..the truth hurts. He needs to know how you are feeling about him. Yeah. He can change if he wants too. After all, we all have free will. Pluto aspects are also indicators of serious soul lessons that involve letting go,transformation,spiritual rebirth. He is responsible for his actions. He can't blame that on the positions of the heavenly bodies at the moment of his birth. He needs to take accountability. He really needs to change his ways so he can have a good relationship with you.
Was he hurt in past relationships that could lead him to be very insecure? That definitely can lead to possessive issues.
I wish you good luck. IP: Logged |
Cha unregistered
|
posted August 07, 2006 08:19 PM
Thank You Libraschoice7,Venusian Love,Glaucus you all have been very helpful.After thinking about my situtation all day today i know what i have to do.Anyway thanks again i really appreciate everyone's helpful advice and astrological knowledge.Take care. IP: Logged |
Salisa unregistered
|
posted August 09, 2006 04:22 AM
Do you think his AC might me in Capricorn or Sagittarius? that would put your sun and some other planets in his 8th house which could contribute to his obsessive behavior.IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 27 From: neverland Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 09, 2006 10:12 AM
do planets falling in ones 8th house cause obsessive behavior of the house person towards the planet person?IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
|
posted August 09, 2006 10:34 AM
VLCousin Adolf...... x IP: Logged |
Venusian Love unregistered
|
posted August 09, 2006 11:18 AM
Lmfaoooo Sue. When she is angry it really comes out in her.
I study her and see Hitler traits LOL.
IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
|
posted August 12, 2006 05:14 PM
Welcome ChaIP: Logged |