posted October 25, 2006 12:42 PM              

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Anyone been through transiting Saturn opposing (or squaring) their natal Venus? What was it like? Any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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posted October 25, 2006 01:02 PM              

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I have it in my natal chart.
Saturn in Capricorn/6th opposite Venus in Gemini/12th.
It gives you feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, sadness, unhappiness, whatever you can think of in that direction. Feelings of being unloved, a hunger for affection, etc....And I think it can make you defensive in your assocations with others esp. in female/male relationships, not because you want to, but you're afraid of being hurt and believe you can't trust him/her.

Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer

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posted October 25, 2006 01:40 PM              

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posted October 25, 2006 02:07 PM            

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My natal Saturn opposes my natal Venus. I don't know what to tell you about it.

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posted October 25, 2006 07:36 PM            

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Saturn square Venus in the natal. Here's what it's like.

* If you have a crush on someone, you'd rather DIE than tell them if you are not 90% sure it is mutual.
* If you have a crush on someone, you will eye them from afar to see if they are interested on their own. If they do not show interest or are ambiguous, you do nothing.
* If you have a crush on someone, you will make a point of conspicuously IGNORING them (while secretly sneaking looks) in public, and yet make sure that you are in their vicinity whenever possible. You want them to notice you and come over to you, but you will NOT let them know you like them. What if they don't like you back and then they know you like them? That is SO EMBARRASSING.
* If they find out that you like them and they don't like you back, you will never be able to speak to them again. You will probably run away to avoid them forevermore.
* You do not flirt. Ever. On pain of death, you would not flirt, you would not let someone know that you found them attractive and wanted to boink them.
* If someone that you like IS obviously attracted to you and is clear about it, you probably won't have any of these problems, though. He just has to prove himself a lot before you will let your guard down.
* You will NEVER ON PAIN OF DEATH say "I love you" first. He'd better say it first, because you just KNOW you will scare him away forever if you do.
* You CANNOT do a casual fling, or just sex. It's full-on boyfriend or nothing for you. God help you if the guy interested in you doesn't want to commit, because you will not be able to deal with "casual." Relationships are not "fun" for you, they are deadly serious, and you don't date "just to have a good time with a man."

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posted October 25, 2006 07:43 PM            

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posted October 25, 2006 07:44 PM              

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I have this right now--Saturn Squaring my Venus until July. It's a bit horrible. You do feel very unloved, and unafraid about love and not very confident... if someone I really like looks at me the wrong way I think they're thinking bad things about me..and it just makes you kind of sensitive in love---sort of what I think Pisces act like when they like someone but don't think the other feels the same way. That's the best way I can describe it.

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posted October 25, 2006 07:49 PM            

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It both sucked and blew at the same time. I have Venus / Sun in Sagittarius. When Saturn was in Gemini opposing my natal Venus - tPluto was also in Sag conjuncting my Venus. I felt like the meat in a cosmic sandwich. I had married during my Saturn return (ouch- with 6 planets piled in Taurus in my 8th house) and then divorced when Saturn was so kind as to make a meal out of me in Gemini.

Damn, those were some hard times. Worse was when Saturn went into Cancer and completed my T-square LOL...

The biggest lesson learned? Always pay attention to those red flags when you meet someone. Rushing into something or turning a blind eye only causes worse turmoil down the road.

**** This is what I found on Transiting Saturn / venus contacts:

Venus is the planet of love and happiness. When Saturn transits with a stressful aspect to your natal Venus, problems in intimate relationships will tend to surface, as well as with money. That’s what all the books tell you. What they don’t say is that you can also have difficulties with other areas of your life. Check the houses that have either Libra or Taurus on the cusp (beginning). If, for example, you are born with the sign of Libra on the cusp of your 6th House (work and co-workers) and Saturn transits with a stressful aspect (conjunction, square, or opposition) to your Venus, you could have difficulties with your co-workers, or loose your job. All this while you are being extra careful with your love life, because that’s what the astrology books said! You have to check the house that Venus is in as well. If it is in the 4th House, for instance, you could have extra expenses connected with your home, or difficulties with a parent. Remember, Saturn transits tend to bring problems to the surface. If you have loose ends in any area that Saturn hits, it cuts them off. As always, plan ahead. See where Saturn is going to hit, and take care of potential problems well in advance. If you happen to work in the arts, Saturn transiting in stressful aspect to your natal Venus could indicate a dry spell when your inspiration takes a vacation. Conversely, inspiration could be as strong as ever, but circumstances may prevent you from producing. The harmonious aspects (the sextile and trine) are usually quiet, stable times in relationships and financial matters. These periods are usually not too important. Saturn has its biggest effects during the stressful transits.

http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/transitsSaturn18.4.htm

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posted October 25, 2006 10:25 PM              

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* You will NEVER ON PAIN OF DEATH say "I love you" first. He'd better say it first, because you just KNOW you will scare him away forever if you do.
* You CANNOT do a casual fling, or just sex. It's full-on boyfriend or nothing for you. God help you if the guy interested in you doesn't want to commit, because you will not be able to deal with "casual." Relationships are not "fun" for you, they are deadly serious, and you don't date "just to have a good time with a man."

--Gosh, SOOOOOOO true. You nailed it.
However, I haven't been in any serious relationships so I don't positively know about this, but I think commitment would be hard for me because of intimacy and trust. I know already that I have much trouble in that area.

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posted October 25, 2006 11:02 PM            

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You guys are associating Venus with love only, it also has to do with money so squared transiting Saturn can show financial issues also.

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posted October 25, 2006 11:07 PM            

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posted October 26, 2006 07:00 AM              

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Jen, jen jen! So accurate!! Of course in the most upsetting way, but yes -- very true to my experience!

The venus sq saturn transit is just a temporary nightmare, Blue, thats all

The rest of us should make up those lists for other Venus aspects.. Id be so interested in what love is like from the view of Venus conj Sun for example.

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posted October 26, 2006 08:17 AM              

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Thanks for the replies guys... it's actually not me who has this transist going on... but this person has transiting Saturn opposing their natal venus AND squaring their mars.

And Jen, I thought I had it bad with venus conjunct pluto in my natal chart....
That venus/saturn sounds like a tough aspect to have...

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posted October 26, 2006 09:40 AM            

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what about venus conjunct saturn in natal...
by sign-not degree-would it not manifest as strongly? or would it manifest at all?
i would think that it would manifest somehow-maybe not quite as strongly.

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