posted December 28, 2005 01:03 PM            

Any other theories/experiences?

Anyone know what a DC in Cancer says about what I'd be fulfilled by?

posted December 28, 2005 06:36 PM            

From my personal experience, the DC can either influence the type of person you are attracted to OR the way you yourself act in partnerships- a side of you that comes out only in intimate relationships. For some people the DC reveals both.

Another interesting thing- I've noticed that the DC often shows the kind of person you are drawn to while fairly young. Almost like they represent the first type of relationship challenge you have to battle through to get to the other side and then you are no longer so drawn to them. Am I making any sense?
You know how there is the theory that we act more like our ascendant as we get older?
Well, I feel like we act more like our DC in relationships when we are young.. and we are drawn to those kind of people. And then this transition happens when we've had enough of that type of energy and we begin to project more of our rising sign and be less drawn to people with our DC sign.

ok.. that was a confusing paragraph.

posted December 28, 2005 07:37 PM            

both were when i was very young... getting out of the 2nd now... although venus retro has me at a standstill right now....

posted December 28, 2005 08:13 PM            

Well I think DC is somewhat like how you are in a relationship and what kind of partners are the best for you. Its always opposites, because you see opposites are from compatible elements (like earth and water or fire and air) and they're also challenging (its opposites) so its the best combination cause then you don't get bored, but its not that bad either.

posted December 29, 2005 12:03 AM              

That wasn't confusing at all. I think it's one of the most important points about the DC. And you might want to start a thread on it, even if you are not conducting a full on test, that way others can benefit from thinking about their own experiences, as well as start some dialogue with others in order to learn even more.

It's always amazing to see how across the board things can be.

posted December 29, 2005 01:01 AM            

I don't know if that makes any sense, but...

posted December 29, 2005 10:08 AM              

That's an interesting theory.

posted December 30, 2005 04:17 AM              

I have got DC too In Gem...I need a person whom I can talk to or I would get bored. Talk on the phone for long.No problem. Air signs get attracted to me more. There were
Libras,Aquas and Gems. That make sense.

posted December 30, 2005 11:25 PM            

Have you ever met someone you instantly liked but whom you were not like?

This is how the Descendant works, its a complimentary opposite.

the yin to your yang

posted December 25, 2006 09:55 AM              

But anyway, (sorry for digressing) I always wanted to appear as unusual and creative as I feel - the entire inventive eccentric genius ensemble and intellectual aloofness with likeability of course..but nah. I usually don't care much about the aqua in others; admittedly sometimes, I feel rather intimidated by these folks who possess these qualities.

And so this is how it is and remains: I equal a social recluse, lacking in flamboyant bravura of the leo. Although not subjected to the eclectic avantegarde title, I am socialy dysfunctional in spite of it. Meanwhile, communication lines are severed...retrogade mercury (even though it's supposed to be exalted in aqua!), venus square saturn and uranus...and aqua STILL seems like something I've always yearned to be and been rejected for.

It's funny though because most of the aquas I know in my personal life are unfortunately flaky and extremely conventional. On the rare occasion that I've met an aqua worthy of long-term friendship, etc., it has been disappointingly fleeting.

I do think that I attract Leo and Aqua men, though to some extent. I don't really know though because I've never really been in a satisfying relationship. I think I unconsciouly do go for sagittarius rising at times. And my friends tend to be Scopios or Pisces with Aries qualities.

Ah...I feel like a social failure. I either attract the most unlikely, random, stalker types or nothing at all, and that's concerning to those commensurate of my age. Otherwise, strange male English or Philosophy teachers like me.

posted December 26, 2006 01:09 AM              

On topic, Aquarius is my DC and no Im not attracted to all Aquas that pass me by..some of em im really repelled by actually -- but its strange how many friends have moon or venus in aqua in my 7th, esp female. I went through a BIG phase tho being attracted to my MC sign [aries] - always admired their strength, ego, innocence ...looked up to them and thought by being in a relationship with them those qualities would sorta infuse me, haha. pretty strange, huh. Oh well - learned what I needed to learn.

But for me, now anyway, Im attracting a lot of my 5th house type [Uranus and Neptune are there]. So lately theres been a long string of guys who are stubborn, some sorta substance abuse and just out and out BIZARRE - you know the types who cant stop moving for one second even tho theyre standing still?

posted December 26, 2006 01:12 AM              

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Anyone know what a DC in Cancer says about what I'd be fulfilled by?

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