posted December 09, 2006 02:29 AM              

Sun Square Moon 1°05
Sun Opposition Mars 3°42
Sun Trine Jupiter 5°18
Sun Opposition Saturn 5°27
Sun Sextile Ascendant 0°31
Moon Trine Mercury 7°26
Moon Square Mars 2°37
Moon Square Saturn 6°32
Moon Trine Uranus 6°42
Mercury Trine Neptune 4°26
Mercury Opposition Pluto 3°36
Venus Trine Jupiter 5°00
Venus Opposition Saturn 4°51
Mars Trine Ascendant 3°11
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0°09
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 5°49
Saturn Trine Ascendant 5°58
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°50

Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

Do you think this means I will never get married.... what does my future love life look like based on my astrology chart?

Also here is my complete information...
May 8 1984
9:48 am
Queens, New York, USA

posted December 09, 2006 04:20 AM              

um joking aside, i think venus trine jupiter is a good aspect to have, yes you have a nasty venus opp. saturn but nothing in your chart really screams "lonely spinster"...

posted December 09, 2006 06:12 AM              

i have squares and oppositions in my chart....on my third marriage...been with him for 18 years almost...it aint perfect, but we are still here!!

What happened to the Aqua guy...did you guys split?

posted December 09, 2006 02:52 PM              

First (from Dec. 02- Feb. 03) it was Mr Aqua... Feb 8, 1984 Brooklyn NY 11 AM

Then (from Mar. 03- May 03)it was Mr Taurus... April 26th 1982 Senagal, West Africa 9 pm

And then (from Sep. 03- July. 04) was Mr. Cancer... July 5th 1980 Asmara, Eritrea, East Africa Birthtime unknown

And since Mr Cancer I have been single ever since

Why do I keep attracting these kind of men? And in my chart do you see me ever reuniting with my ex (in prticular MR. CANCER) because I really loved him and I still do! But do you think he loved me (astrologically)?

posted December 09, 2006 03:01 PM            

From Steven Forrest: http://www.stevenforrest.com/lovehandles.html
To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are
two immutable premises:
There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.
There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people.

From Marcia Sacks: http://www.mountainastrologer.com/sacks1000.html
Just as there is variety but no perfection in horoscopes, there can be love and companionship but no happily-ever-after in relationships. However, even folks with very difficult horoscopes can have healthy, successful relationships if they can accept that relationships require work. I think of it like gardening: You need seeds, soil, nourishment, water, and maintenance to grow something of beauty.
Remember that relationships are not a cure for depression. Other people cannot obliterate your feelings of loss, lack, and limitation. If you feed yourself positivity through affirmation and imagery, if you pat yourself on the back and nurture yourself, you will begin to attract more positive, supportive people in your life.

From Bill Herbst: http://www.billherbst.com/
Human beings are not signs of the zodiac, and astrology neither reveals nor determines the quality of our consciousness. The expresson of our charts is largely a function of our maturity, rather than the other way around. Our species is chock full of human beings who are mired in seemingly permanent adolescence, no matter what their age or elevation in culture. In terms of spiritual development, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. Nonetheless, the water exists. We choose.

posted December 09, 2006 03:39 PM            

I find myself wishing you would go back to this username…..
You said you read the quotes I put up – but did you really??
For instance, you wanted to know why you attract “losers”. I don’t know why you’ve termed these men like that – is it because they departed your life?? One quote said:
“If you feed yourself positivity through affirmation and imagery, if you pat yourself on the back and nurture yourself, you will begin to attract more positive, supportive people in your life.”

Here’s a song – the lyrics are in fun, but also quite serious: Love Yourself

I don’t see any point in yearning after a love that has departed. 99 times out of 100 they do not return. Do you understand why you are remaining in this place of longing for something that was never meant to be and is gone?? I get this image of you standing at a crossroads, watching his back as your Cancerian walked away. You’ve remained at this crossroads waiting and hoping for him to come back, or for anyone to come by and pick you up. It seems you are waiting to be rescued from your loneliness. Howzabout visualizing a more proactive future for yourself: You turn your back on the road the Cancer walked away down. You choose one of the other roads that lead away from the crossroads. You pursue something that you love to do…..

People come into our lives for a reason – usually to teach us something. Some remain, some depart. Perhaps you need to understand yourself better before you can maintain a stable long-term relationship….. astrology is a wonderful place to start!! How about posting your current chart with transits?? My astro.com is full up…..

posted December 09, 2006 04:16 PM              

Did I read you dob right are you 22?

If so, I was in the middle of a marriage breakdown then and went on to go through another just after the age of 30. I thought I would NEVER find a secure relationship.

I am with someone almost 18 years now...we have been true to each other all that time and like I said earlier, although it aint perfect there is strong love there...

Dont lose you will find love...you are very very young!!

Dont you have a little boy/girl with the Aqua if I remember rightly?

posted December 09, 2006 04:48 PM            

Honey, all the astrology aside, i have a piece of advice for you (and this is going off the vibes I'm getting from your post) - it is YOU who determines your happiness in life, whether you'll find love, whether you'll marry ...

Natal or predictive astrology can give you a very good idea of the circumstances in your life or what you're likely to encounter, but by no means does a bad Venus aspect(s) dictate your life. Think of it like this - it gives you that deeper insight into your predisposition or perhaps a warning as to how your life is likely to go if you do nothing to change it, and you can take it how you like. If you see some negative aspects there, it is up to YOU to change things.

I've been through some very painful experiences, and a few years back, I thought everything was pre-ordained, and that we had to accept whatever comes our way. Because of this, I foolishly gave up true love & ended up in a marriage that was an absolute nightmare - it took all this to open my eyes to the fact that I could have prevented it, that _I_ could've taken charge of my life. Now I see that we have SO much more power than I gave us credit for. You can either to choose to accept what happens in life lying down, or determine that you _will_ be happy no matter what comes. And happiness has a way of drawing more happiness & love into your life. I really do agree with 'zala - it would be good for you to go back to "iamlove"... and believe it. And, I'm sure your life will turn out wonderfully..

posted December 10, 2006 08:24 PM              

Me and that Aqua fella broke up Feb. 2003! He was a lier and he cheated on me.

I dont know why I have such bad luck with men! I really love my self and I'm patiently waiting.... but I just want to know tht I have something to look forward to in the love department. I don't feel that I'm so young either because a lot of women my age already have children.

I understand the common sense part and I already love myself and I have friends.... etc....and live my life but I just want to know the truth about my future, in the way of astrology.

posted December 10, 2006 08:30 PM              

I feel the same way about that timing thing. And do I really have to wait until I'm 27 to find my husband that would be good to me as I'am good to him. All I want is true love and happiness that GOD will be pleased with!

posted December 10, 2006 08:35 PM              

Thank you for those words of encouragement! I just feel so lonely here in this world! I wish I knew why!

I do have positive friends, that I hang out with on a regular basis! And I really do love myself a whole lot not in a conceided way, but I love myself because I find that I'am a nice person. And I always felt good about myself ever since I was a young child.

But my only issue is finding true love, compassion and understanding from a man!