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Topic: alpha/beta females
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thedividedsky
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posted February 03, 2007 12:27 PM
 
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bullhead
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posted February 03, 2007 02:05 PM
alpah all aruond ! (maybe a bit beta in bed and dats about it, LOL)cap sun
taurus moon
aqau venus
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Virgo/Aries75
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posted February 03, 2007 02:40 PM
I think I'm ALPHA in all areas of my life by default simply because when I see something that needs to be done I'll step up and do it while everyone else is twidling their thumbs. lolBut I WISH I was BETA in my relationships. I WANT a guy who's big and macho and stronger than me. sigh. Sun Virgo
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Gemini Nymph
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posted February 03, 2007 03:49 PM
I'm an alpha at work, a "get out of my way/just let me do this myself" kind of aplha. I can be bossy though. Although normally, if I'm in charge of other people, I'm pretty laid back and respectful.In my family, from the time I was very small, any alpha behavior I displayed was beaten down. So I learn to withdraw and emotionally disconnect from my family. They still treat me like that. And I'm still withdrawn and emotional disconnected from them. In my relationships *always* I start out alpha and then end up *sub-beta.* Then I feel like miserible doormat and I want out. I think my problem is I'm looking for a balance with a guy - where we can interchange the roles of alpha and beta. But I haven't found a guy who can or is willing to do that. So once I "take a break" from being alpha, the guy start thinking he's the alpha and I'm his "mommy substitute" and starts throwing tantrums because I'm not wiping his a$$ for him. *sigh* I just watched a segment of Oprah with Gary Zukav, that self-help, spiritual relationship guy who's all pro-emotional and spiritual awareness. Now I'm all pumped to go out a get me an emotionally/spiritual aware man! LOL. I guess that's an alpha thing to say, huh? Gem Sun - 10th
Pis Moon - 7th
Vir ASC What I lack in cardinal signs, I make up with angular houses, baby.
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eatbooks
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posted February 03, 2007 09:08 PM
Im alpha at work and in relationships. I think I need to bring it down a notch, im getting better....virgosun.ariesmoon.aquarising IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted February 03, 2007 09:54 PM
Definitely Alpha in both work and relationships, I am always the one who makes the moves on the guy that holds my romantic interest. And at work I function primarily alone and take the initiative on actions at work(sometimes to my bosses dismay)I don't follow the rules properly. It effects me more so in my personal relationships surprisingly...One of these days I will find a man to make me want to be 'beta'  ------------------
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Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
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sd09
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posted February 03, 2007 10:17 PM
im not femail of course,Is that how u label ppl  IP: Logged |
sd09
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posted February 03, 2007 10:23 PM
Its not my fight,but DO U Fill beta in the bed ,xexe double BB IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri
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posted February 04, 2007 01:25 AM
Im definately alpha in relationships but im also attracted to alpha guys thats why we always fight for power.IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted February 04, 2007 01:54 PM
SD - no, I do not "fill" beta in bed.BUD - I've always gone for beta type guys, but I am less attracted to them nowadays. I like alpha types more now, but not very many of them seem to find me attractive. I think I just need to club one over the head and drag him by his hair back to my cave.  IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted February 04, 2007 02:09 PM
GN ~ quote:
I think I just need to club one over the head and drag him by his hair back to my cave.
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Gemini Nymph
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posted February 04, 2007 02:16 PM
Zala: quote:
That is a tempting scenario sometimes
Yes it is. But i have two things against me: 1) most alpha types I want are a lot taller than me. So I would have to sneak up behind them when they're sitting down, or maybe I could act demure and helpless and then drop something, having them bend over to pick it up. 2) most alpha types I want have a lot more upper body strength and arm reach than me, so not only would I likely fail to knock him unconscious with the first blow, he could easily fight me off.
*sigh* What's an alpha girl to do?
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Fluke
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posted February 04, 2007 02:25 PM
Oy! If a so called alpha male is afraid of an alpha female, he's not really an alpha.....! IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted February 04, 2007 03:03 PM
Alpha all the way...but out of necessity, I think I've become very adept at disguising it. ....Part of being an Alpha female in a male-dominated society is adapting to societal expectations of behavior, while still being quietly victorious in most of our endeavors. We kind of have to "sneak up the back stairs" to our goals sometimes. That could be my 8th house stellium talking too, though. Leo Sun, Mercury, Mars - 8th house
Leo Venus - 9th house
Aquarius moon - 2nd house
Sagittarius asc.
All of my personal planets & angles are in "male" signs. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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Registered: May 2009
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posted February 04, 2007 04:26 PM
Interesting question. I think I'm a "Beta" at work, but mostly out of necessity. I would do much better if I was in a different career where I could be an Alpha...but a loner. I don't like giving orders to people, but I hate taking them as well. Every time someone asks me to do something at work, I cringe. Even though I know it's my job. I HATE having orders barked at me.With my family, I'm definitely an Alpha, but again...a loner. I take charge and come out when it's necessary, but for the most part I stay away and do my own thing. With men...LOL...I'm beta to the point where I'm almost OMEGA! But there's a trick to it. If a man is even SLIGHTLY weaker than me...emotionally or otherwise, I'll pick up on it, and immediately become the boss. But I hate that role. I like to feel feminine, protected, and soft in a relationship, so when I have to be the boss I get turned off. I'm much more attracted to Alpha men. "Me Tarzan, You Jane!" That's my type of guy. Sun - Cap 6th
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thedividedsky
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posted February 04, 2007 05:13 PM
HA!no one of the male persuaion answered the same question on my thread alpha/beta males...... Also, a lot of alphas in the house! Have a great sunday everyone! IP: Logged |
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