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Topic: The Single Most Dangerous Planetary Sign
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neptunewinds
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posted March 06, 2007 11:19 PM
 
for a relationship would be, in my opinion, VENUS in ARIES. For me I find that I am almost in love with the chase, and once I have the most amazing woman at home, and the chase is gone, well I need to find it elsewhere. It also doesnt really allow me to just have calmness at home at be happy, I almost need a little fire always brewing in the relationship, which most women I have dated find very attractive. What are your reflections on this aspect and what do you find to be the single most dangerous aspect in a relationship. I need to be more precise I think. The single most dangerous factor in another persons natal chart, something that could threaten a relationship. My constant pursuit of other women, although harmless, is very scary for the women who date me.------------------
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pearlized
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posted March 06, 2007 11:48 PM
I have venus in aries in 2nd house but i am a very tame one.
thank god i have an active imagination!
i love the thrill of the chase in fact i am good at having a lover chase me until i "catch" them. 
my 7th house saturn in leo restricts any wild my crazy thoughts from becoming reality though. It takes a lot for me to act on my emotions/thoughts/fantasy's.
Moon sextile Venus
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Opposition Neptune
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CoralFrequency
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posted March 07, 2007 03:48 AM
To me friendship comes first. If a person can't spark me on a mental friendship level and consistently BE a good friend.. they'll definitely lose me sooner than they've found me. People (men and women) who declare (either vocally or through body language) "those I am attracted to are there for ONE purpose and ONE purpose only and that purpose is purely sexual" become almost invisible to me. I literally obstruct them from my vision and pretend they are not there, can't hear them, can't see them.. just *not* listening.. I realise this is immature, but otherwise it upsets me too much and I know my own limits. It feels to me as though they ignore the depth of life, the very thing that makes us all human and bonds us on a deep spiritual level. They create and re-enforce (socially created) sexual rifts, that are actually a complete illusion.. because NO separation exists on a spiritual level. There is no "I begin here".. and "you end there".. or "he has a penis and I have a vagina.. wow I wonder if I could get him? Look that other guy also has penis.. could I get him as well perhaps? Wow lookit all the penises flying around.. I wonder how many I could get in ONE day?" Sorry if any of this sounds mean but this attitude makes my stomach turn upside down. PS. I'm an Aries.. with Aries Venus (29th deg) .. almost Taurus.. so I'm not entirely sure it isn't Taurus. My Venus is in the 11th. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
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posted March 07, 2007 03:56 AM
Also, my best friend is a Pisces/Taurus Moon.. Aries Venus and Mars. She has been in a relationship for 2 years..She never cheated and is still very much so in love with him. I don't actually agree that Aries Venus is always fickle. It depends on the person who has the placement and their value system. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted March 07, 2007 06:01 AM
My lover is pisces sun and rising with leo moon, venus and mars in aries (2nd H).He is very loyal, but he likes to chase. Thats why I let him chase me! It keeps it interesting. lol IP: Logged |
Tauro
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posted March 07, 2007 07:24 AM
I have venus in aries in the 7th house. I fall in love quickly and i kind of like the chase...mmm not really, i don't like relationship games really because i take it pretty seriously. Venus in aries people are pioneers in love and shoulden't settle for anything less than their romantic dreams so i've been told by an astrologer. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted March 07, 2007 09:09 AM
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Venus in aries people are pioneers in love and shoulden't settle for anything less than their romantic dreams so i've been told by an astrologer.My love is like that. Luckily he thinks I'm perfect. Silly silly boy! I sometimes feel he thinks I'm too good to be true (too good for him anyway which is ridiculous, but he has self-esteem issues), but I don't know how he can cos he's seen the absolute worst in me that nobody else ever has. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted March 07, 2007 10:03 AM
Neptune -
I've dated a couple of men who had venus in Aries, and they were actually VERRRRY different. One was a Gemini. You'd think that he would have been the one who got easily "bored" and tempted to stray. Not even close! He was one of the most faithful men I've ever met in my life. I never, ever worried about him running around on me. He went to great lengths to insure that I knew this. He was completely committed. Part of this could have been due to the fact that he had a Libra ascendant, and a cancer moon...so security, and a partnership were very important to him.
The second one...Taurus sun & Moon. Venus AND Mars in Aries...exact conjunction. Boy oh boy did he love his conquests! However, I should also mention that he was the most straightforward, honest man I've ever known. When we first started dating, he came right out and said that he didn't want "monogamy." Ok, I should have walked away, but I was 21 and cocky, and I figured I could turn him around. Well, leopards don't change their spots do they! It was a challenging relationship to say the least, but it was also the most important one in my life. It ended up lasting almost 3 years with a lot of ups and downs, and we're still friends. With my own venus in Scorpio I crave intensity and passion myself, and I also bore easily. So, the sparks that constantly flew between us kept us both interested. We were both jealous, and posessive, and when his eyes would wander, my vindictive Venus would go out and set my sights on someone else as well, but I'd always discreetly make sure he found out. Fight. Make-up. Fight. Make-up. That was our nature. Very dramatic, very passionate, and both very aggressive. I wouldn't consider either one of my venus in Aries experiences "bad." Actually, I rather like that placement. I think it brings a childlike innocence to the way a person with this placement gives their love. The Taurus used to playfully cover me in kisses all over my face - even in public. I always found that so endearing and adorable. I don't think it's the worst placement for venus by any means. I'd check Scorpio for that! LOL...
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Atlenta
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posted March 07, 2007 10:11 AM
I think dangerous planetary signs are those that have the propensity to cause the bearer to self-destruct. Not a danger to other people, but to themselves.IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted March 07, 2007 11:10 AM
I would have to disagree very very much so with the venus in aries. I agree with CoralFrequency 2nd post in fact. my aries moon likes the chase more than my gfs venus in aries. She is very stable and loves the commitment. Not to say that I am not, but I think a little conflict makes things more interesting. She does not, just peace 24/7 which is fine..But I want to stir it up a little... IP: Logged |
neptunewinds
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posted March 07, 2007 11:36 AM
Coral! That is exactly how I feel as well. I cannot stand the man who is looking for the quick score. I just happen to like being playful, but not in a sexual way. I am very loyal to those I love, but I have always wondered what that Venus in Aries really sparks me to do, it is in my 4th house. My relationship with my mother has always been one of fire when I was a child and all the way up through my middle 20's, still trying to work some of that heat out. I think I am just in love with love, or the exchange of loving female energy, never is it a sexual conquest or physical gratification am I looking for, quite the opposite. Which as you could see, could be much more scary for my girlfriend when I just love to love people(emotionally) ------------------
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aqua inferno
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posted March 07, 2007 11:46 AM
Interesting! I have venus in aries too, though I really don't do the chase thing.If Romeo were real, he'd have Venus in Aries. You know the story...he loves Rosaline, can't live without her, she's his everything, no one else compares etc etc then he meets Juliet and it's Rosa-who? I've experienced this many many times. I'm in love, it's deep, I have no doubt this person's amazing, no one can compare - other men just don't exist... Until he does something stupid, and it's like...I loved who? I would imagine with maturity, it gets easier. ******* I want to add, obviously not everyone's with venus in aries is like this. ------------------
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