posted June 09, 2007 09:51 PM              

new to this. but I've got synastry question.

First off I am a lady whom is interested in another lady and was wondering if that has any bearing on our planets and their attraction.

I am a Aries, Aquarius rising with a Cancer moon.
Mercury and mars in Taurus, & a venus Gemini

She is a Cancer, Scorpio Rising with a Leo Moon.
Mercury in Gemini, Mars in Libra, Venus in Taurus.

But our suns are in each others 6th house? I would like to understand how that effects our interaction.

Also, is their much possibility for her to be attracted to me? Cause I get buzzed by her eyes and could afford to get drunk on her disposition alone.

I know the rest of our houses, but didn't want to clog this message board up.

hope someone out there could help???

posted June 10, 2007 07:58 AM            

I'm not sure how or even if synastry changes for same sex couples. I don't imagine that it would be that different, the reason I say that is because I've noticed with my most favourite female friends, I have exact Venus-Mars aspects , where if we were gay or if one of us was a guy... IT WOULD BE ON!!! Hahaha. But instead we have these fun, giddy friendships where jealousy and cattiness doesn't seem to come into play, like it commonly can with a lot of female friendships...

That said, it's really hard to see exactly what is going on between you and your girl, you really need to see the exact degrees of planets in each of your charts for a good synastry reading.

I've personally had a lot of experience with 6th house placements in romantic relationships and, I'm sorry to say... I don't like it at all. It feels like work. There can be inequality, and one partner can end up like the taskmaster to the other, or best case scenario, "taking care of" the weaker one... Which isn't bad. But I want a lover and a partner and a friend... not a daddy I need to answer to.

All of my serious relationships have been with Pisces men and Pisces is entirely in my 6th house (intercepted!)... Others may have different experiences and interpretations... but that is my take on it.

posted June 10, 2007 11:53 AM              

Hmm, so with both our Sun's in each other's 6th house, we would be too demanding to each other?

hmm...her moon is in my 5th house, My moon in her 9th house.
both my mercury & mars are in her 7th house
my venus in her 8th house

argh, what does it all mean?

posted June 10, 2007 01:10 PM              

well, I don't know if I know how to do that.

but here :

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posted June 11, 2007 01:08 AM            

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I've noticed with my most favourite female friends, I have exact Venus-Mars aspects , where if we were gay or if one of us was a guy... IT WOULD BE ON!!!

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posted June 12, 2007 08:20 PM              

like she has a cancer sun and I have a cancer moon?

posted June 13, 2007 12:14 AM            

check the degrees of the sun/moon conjuction, that is a really good connection!

i've cut and pasted cafeastrology what they say.. it's a great site good luck!

When the Sun in one chart forms an aspect to another person's Moon
Sun-Moon aspects in synastry are highly touted, with good reason. The Sun and the Moon are natural companions in the sense that they complement each other. When they come together in synastry, yin meets yang, day meets night, the subconscious mind meets the conscious mind, and so forth.