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posted July 31, 2007 10:06 PM            

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what usually indicates that a person wont have much of love life. My venus is in the fifth house and I'm 15 and have no luck with guys.

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posted August 01, 2007 05:08 AM              

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There is no aspect that indicates lack of love in life. There are however, aspects which can indicate possible umm.. 'love difficulties'.. You must be talking about the kind of love you get from a romantic kind of relationship..
(imo)Saturn square Venus in the natal chart can make it hard for an individual to express love and affection openly and easily as well as to receive it, maybe growing up they didn't receive much love from their parents or were abused in some way etc. they are usually reserved in the love department for fear of being hurt. Saturn square Venus would be a hard aspect to deal with i would imagine.

By the way, you're only 15! Theres heeeaps of lovin time to be had ahead!

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posted August 02, 2007 07:03 PM              

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You don't hold any store by the old classic Venus in Virgo as the erm, for want of a better term, mark of a spinster?

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posted August 02, 2007 07:10 PM            

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Seriously, don't worry about it. Most guys are jerks, it takes time to find one worth your time anyway. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 15. What exactly is your problem with them? Do you have trouble talking to them, or are you just picky and having a hard time finding one or what? If anything, Venus in the 5th is probably not as immediately passionate enough for immature boys your age to appreciate. Let's face it, MOST boys that age are immature. They want instant gratification and don't want to wait for you to warm up to them.

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posted August 02, 2007 08:09 PM            

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my venus is in vigo and i've never really known what to say to guys i'm scared they are going to be rude. but my crush has venus in virgo too do you think he feels the same way about girls.

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posted August 02, 2007 08:22 PM            

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Oh, I see. Well about the only thing I can say to you is try to relax and find something you have in common. It's much easier to talk about something that you like and know a lot about. They usually aren't rude to you unless you start to stalk them or something crazy like that. It depends on what the rest of his chart looks like, but I'd be willing to bet he probably feels the same way about girls to some extent.

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posted August 02, 2007 08:25 PM            

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well we were born on the same day and year so we have all the same planets except for the ascendant.
were both leos with gemini moons and venus in virgo. what do you think his type would be with those planet placements.

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posted August 02, 2007 08:44 PM            

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Oh, well yeah, he probably feels very similar to you. Of course the rising sign says a lot too, but with Gem and Leo, I can't imagine either of you being super shy or anything once you get to talking. I don't know if I could date someone with such a similar chart. I kind of like people who compliment me instead of being really similar to me. But that's just me. I'm not exactly an expert, but I would think he would be kind of aloof and proud with girls and have a hard time having intimate conversations at first. I'd play it cool with this guy, be laid back and make him feel comfortable... plus a tiny bit of admiration probably wouldn't hurt with a Leo. "Wow, you do that really well.. that's awesome." You know what I mean.

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posted August 02, 2007 09:05 PM            

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I heard that venus in virgos usually will like someone until they start liking then they dont like them until they quit then they start likeing them. so maybe i should start flirting and then all of a sudden quit you know. by the way what are you planets?

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posted August 02, 2007 09:25 PM              

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If your Venus is the 5th house then that will open the Virgo up a bit I would have thought. If you're only 15 then at least you missed what has afflicted my Venus in Virgo, which is that Pluto conjunct Uranus stellum in Virgo/Libra.

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posted August 02, 2007 09:33 PM              

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You're only 15. I didn't have a love life at 15 either.

Now, if you reach 40 and have no love life till that point, then yes, that'll sad.

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posted August 02, 2007 09:36 PM              

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There's lots of people in that situation Green Fairy.

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posted August 02, 2007 09:43 PM            

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I thought i was some kind of freak because alot of girls at my school are dating plus my 12 year old neighbor has had a boyfriend. no bidy ever told me how to get the venu sun in virgo withgemini moon to like me.

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posted August 02, 2007 11:03 PM            

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Well, I'm a Virgo Sun, Leo Moon, Aquarius rising, Merc and Venus in Leo, Mars in libra.... 7 of my planets are in the 7th house, all of the inner ones but mars which is in the 8th.

I have a lot of things that indicate I'd have a good love life, but I'm VERY picky and clam up around a lot of guys like you do. It all depends on if I find a guy i can open up to. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 15 and I personally think 12 year olds are a bit young to date. : \
That's just my opinion. Wait until you find a guy you can be comfortable around because it's so hard to force conversation with people if you want to clam up. Those relationships never last.

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posted August 03, 2007 02:11 AM              

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hey kbug, im 15 too! And i dont have a bf yet either.

and i notice that im a withdrawn person..

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posted August 03, 2007 09:59 AM            

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thats cool that your 15 and into astrology because i dont know that many people who are into it. they just think i'm weird.have you ever had a boyfriend?

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posted August 04, 2007 03:32 AM              

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haha, yep 15 and no bf yet. Just like you.
I've been reading astrology since i was.. 11. I don't talk about it much with my friends though. Btw, i have Venus in 1st, which makes the venus a little more dominant and semi-square saturn. Still no bf. hehe

Just like they said, we're just 15! Long time ahead. Don't worry. Not like you're rushing or anything right?

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posted August 04, 2007 07:24 AM              

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Well, I'm not sure if this is what you'd want to hear but I used to feel kind of the same way..or heh, maybe even now! lol. And I'm 19. I've never had a single boyfriend in my life. I guess I could say I've gotten pretty close before, but everything's been pretty much fleeting..I always end up being a friend and that does not really last long, maybe a couple years at most until I lose contact of whomever I like. I wouldn't mark myself as unattractive right away, though because I can tell when someone does show some interest in me when I go out. But that's it. Usually, whenever I go to fresh newer places aside from dingy school, I have sudden interest at probable candidates if they catch my eye or tend to notice favorable reciprocal interest, if any as well. but if it's school..it's like forget it. I don't have much interest in guys my age, usually. Those I have been attracted to have always been at least a few years older than I (maybe even uh...much...older ). maybe that's just it; I can't seem to set my eyes on anyone younger or about my age, and I really don't mind, despite the apparent inconvenience. I've sort of come to accept t he terms of my single status. I don't mind it so much anymore. If I ever happen to have a relationship sometime, then i will. I also seem to like foreign guys I guess with that whole "removed from my society" kind of thing who are a bit offbeat or mysterious. I think astrology does perhaps provide some insight into my situation: pisces venus on 8/9 cusp, mars in sag (in fifth) and Aqua DC. I find it amusing that the last guy I was falling for was a Swede with Leo rising, Aqua sun, Sagi moon and he definitely had some pisces too, (also five years older. even though it's not that much).

But anyway, to my distaste, I have Venus square Saturn and Uranus...so maybe that's my astrological excuse, lol.

I'm not fretting over it, exactly because the melifluous creativity aside, I become a dolefully anguished wretch when I'm in love (and obviously thwarted from being with the one I seek). I suppose the humdrum empty stability I've been feeling these days is slightly better than the seemingly eternal dreadful depression I used to feel. Then again, I miss my feelings.

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posted August 04, 2007 01:20 PM              

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i'm 16!

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posted August 04, 2007 03:11 PM              

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I have Saturn square Venus and I have a very hard time expressing love and Im absolutely not affectinate with people at all. Even little things like admitting I miss someone is very hard for me, even to the person I love. Its also hard to recieve love, when someone tells me they love me I genuinely think they're joking and don't mean it. Oh for the record, I am 22...since we're all saying our ages around here thought I'd give my 2 cents.

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posted August 04, 2007 03:19 PM            

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well i dont feel like the only one anymore!

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